honestly i get why people are mad at him because yeah, choosing to die together with ah jin isn’t exactly the…
"you can’t blame everything in the world" , actually yes you can because when you live this kind of life, there's always a time when you're blaming the world itself. Like why the world is that unfair? why me ? why no one is helping me ? why is no one getting me out of this hell? By the kind of horrifying treatment she received, she became a sociopath which include her anger of the world,, that's why she doesn't even consider social norms, why should she follow rules that didn't protect her ? Adding her difficulty to have empathy (which must result to comparison of her suffering to other one, making other suffering hard to understand since she lived worst), she acted focusing on her own interet, what life didn't give her, she wanted to gain it herself. She doesn't see any wrong in what she does, which show her antisocial trait, always wondering why should she feel bad for something that she didn't do herself. It's interesting to see it for this perspective because her suffering is the result of act and blows that she received herself. For exemple she didn't directly blame Jun seo for being a spectator, because from her perspective there is nothing "wrong/bad" in what he did, but she didn't like that though.
"and act like that excuses all your choices." actually even if most people don't want to accept that, the person we are today is strongly influenced by our childhood and our life's experiences. Even after bad experiences, we arrive to stay in social norms because we have some values that our parents or adults transmitted us. which is not the case for ah jin, her own father considered her as a proprety and not even a human being. Since the beginning, the wrong and right wasn't show correctly to her, so even after that she didn't pick any interest in rules or "right/wrong" adding her abuse. But considering all that, the drama showed us that ah jin didn't take any pleasure in other suffering. She was selfish and thinking only about her life (i already explain what lead her to that). And her being sociopath didn't make her loose her own feelings, that's why when she was with the grandma, she could be at peace. living the life that was stolen from her by her fate ; having a loving family, people trusting her and seeing her as a human being.
What i want to say is that our past can be the reason of our way to see life and how to live it. Likely people who suffered deep abuse often turn into rebellious phase (because of their anger towards the world and everything) but some of them meet good people who can help them to learn about a new way to appraoch what life is and how to live it.
i really liked this drama and wasn't deceive by the ending.Everyone can agree with the fact that in the last 2…
Some people might find my thoughts about jun seo to superficial, i'll actually try to think more about what kind of symbolic he may represent in this drama. But i actually didn't like him, even tough his character was kind of interesting.
i really liked this drama and wasn't deceive by the ending. Everyone can agree with the fact that in the last 2 ep all happened so fast, but what i see in there is just how easy it is to loose everything even though you put years of efforts to get it. And even faster when the the foundation of your career isn't solid, based on things that could have destroyed you since the begginning. Moon Do Hyeok not being punished at the end just confirm how the drama is showing us how the life isn't fair since the beginning. For his own entertainment, he destroyed and killed people but even at the end, he didn't pay for any of his crimes. Ah Jin payed for the bad things that she caused by loosing her life, letting all she builded behind her, Maybe she's finally free, being fredd from her own life and can finnaly start anew. She's a survivor, and that until the end. Sun Jeo, i didn't like him since the start but here are my thoughts. From the start, he was only a spectator in Ah Jin's abuse. But in the end, he's the one choosing the bad way to punish and stop Ah Jin. For me, he didn't use his nepo power as he could comparing with Moon Do Hyeok influence. He's like ah jin's curse : When he appears, her past is coming back to her, in her life, in her career everytime he came back, something happened. And that since the beginning of the show, his presence is like a punition, threatening Ah Jin's life even if she liked him in a kind of way. Overwhelmed by guilt, he choose to stop her since he take accountability for his relative making other people suffering ( his mother first then ah jin), he's punishing himself for loving this kind of people. Complex character, its hard for me to describe his role in the drama, and find a good way to explain it Jae ho, my favorite caracter, courageous and loyal til the end. He payed for his crime even though it was an accident. His family abandoned him, he losti all chance to get a bright future because of his years of prison. But even with all that, Ah Jin remained the only one finding him useful, worthy of completing a mission. In a world where he felt worthless, she was the only one making him find a purpose to live.Some people mind find his death worthless, but i don't things that the main thing was to make Moon Do pays. His death shows how far he was ready to go for ah jin, as if his life was hers. She was the only one making feel that he was useful and has a worth, maybe that's why for him, his life didn't mean nothing without her. Concerning what people call "coincidences", i just call it fate. The drama showed us how life is unfair, why ah jin was that angry with her life. Like, why her ? There's no answer to that. Even in the end, people worst than her, continue their life and don't pay for their crimes. why did she have to be born in this family ? then to go in a family where again, her step mother would abuse her ? then the moment her life was normal, her dream is stolen. Why ? Because she was a bad person ? No, she didn't born that way. We could all have lived a life as ah jin, but we didn't because of fate, how would we react to this kind of abuse ? Suicide ? Trying to live in a right way? Anger ? i just know that people react differelently. But in the end, Moon do hyeok is for me the definition of evil, he's doing it for entertainment while she was doing it to escape from her hell of life. He killed people anoying him, she killed no one bothering her. He likes seeing people suffering and turning crazy thanks to him. He likes people suffering while she don't want to be the one to suffer. Actions, intention, goals are important to judge a person and this drama shows how us, the viewers, don't have the same standars to judge that.
BH was the first one to talk, and I don’t understand why years is the main comparison to measure love. It’s…
i agree, but she may have convinced herself that she didn't love BH anymore. and i don't think that she didn't like sungyeong at all, she seemed to be happy with him.
she's right to be mad about that, but she only seemed to pick a fight with BH that's why i can't take her seriously.
He’s the one who talked first and was closer to her. BH is humiliating her since she arrived at the house, I think that may be why she only focused on him.
Seungyong deserves better... he's so calm and adorable, and he doesn't look for trouble... I thought it was super…
BH was the first one to talk, and I don’t understand why years is the main comparison to measure love. It’s clear that they must be each other first love and the way they broke up might have left them lingering feelings. They thought that through the years, their feelings would fade but seeing each other just made everything comeback.
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
i already answered your question, i understand people when there is a context. someone killing a rapist is considered as a murderer ? so yes i understand him. someone killing his abuser, i understand it. Like the judge, it's not only about respecting or not the law, there are contexts that's why cases are closed differently even if it's the same crime. And i don't understand why you say that i give "excuses" when i'm just saying fact, she was about to die or being rapped so she baited her life to escape from that. She didn't invent that situation, this was not the first time that he almost killed her. This time, she made sure that someone could save her life. Until that nothing wrong. But she didn't want to destroy her own life because of her abuser so she choose to sacrifise someone else ( which is wrong because he's innocent). But i still understand why she choose that, even if it's wrong. He choose to forgive her, and i respect him for that but i wouldn't be sad if he wanted to take his revenge, which i would understand too. Trying to destroy someone to get his revenge is bad right ?? But still i wouldn't have blamed him for that.
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
it depend on why it happened or how? I personally think that context is important to judge someone's actions. I understand someone killing her/his rapist. Idk if you see what i mean, but i also understand that for some people bad action= bad person, which i do not agree with. Being a good person is not simple in some circumstances.
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
Even him understood why she did all of it. The boss didn't save her from something that she build up, he really saved her from something that was happening to her. What she planned was to be saved, relieved from this hell. Yes she could have choose other options, but she choose herself, she didn't want to ruin her life for him. Just imagine surviving years of abuse and the only way to save yourself from that is literraly ruining your own life since no one is here to save you ?? She shouldn't have implicate the boss in this, but i understand why she did it though. She thougt about herself first and i wouldnt have blamed the boss if he wanted to take revenge on her. I'm not saying it was the best choice, but she choose this one. We can't always expect the victims to react in a good way when they are in such extrem conditions. She was a bad person for doing that but this action doesn't sum up what she is. The only thing that we can say, it's that she thought that she wasn't loosing her life AGAIN because of her father (first time : her dream university being stolen) and that by all means. just to be clear : i totally agree with the fact that the boss was totally innocent, that she had other options that she could have chosen. I felt bad for him too and i was relivied to see what he became after his years in prison. He was still a good person.
Funny how some people are saying that Ah Jin is pure evil when her father and Jun Seo’s mother literally exist. Just because they aren’t labeled as « sociopath », they only think of them as « bad people » when they’re doing worst all time ? When we compare what she’s doing and what they have been doing, I see a big difference.
"and act like that excuses all your choices." actually even if most people don't want to accept that, the person we are today is strongly influenced by our childhood and our life's experiences. Even after bad experiences, we arrive to stay in social norms because we have some values that our parents or adults transmitted us. which is not the case for ah jin, her own father considered her as a proprety and not even a human being. Since the beginning, the wrong and right wasn't show correctly to her, so even after that she didn't pick any interest in rules or "right/wrong" adding her abuse.
But considering all that, the drama showed us that ah jin didn't take any pleasure in other suffering. She was selfish and thinking only about her life (i already explain what lead her to that). And her being sociopath didn't make her loose her own feelings, that's why when she was with the grandma, she could be at peace. living the life that was stolen from her by her fate ; having a loving family, people trusting her and seeing her as a human being.
What i want to say is that our past can be the reason of our way to see life and how to live it. Likely people who suffered deep abuse often turn into rebellious phase (because of their anger towards the world and everything) but some of them meet good people who can help them to learn about a new way to appraoch what life is and how to live it.
But i actually didn't like him, even tough his character was kind of interesting.
Everyone can agree with the fact that in the last 2 ep all happened so fast, but what i see in there is just how easy it is to loose everything even though you put years of efforts to get it. And even faster when the the foundation of your career isn't solid, based on things that could have destroyed you since the begginning.
Moon Do Hyeok not being punished at the end just confirm how the drama is showing us how the life isn't fair since the beginning. For his own entertainment, he destroyed and killed people but even at the end, he didn't pay for any of his crimes.
Ah Jin payed for the bad things that she caused by loosing her life, letting all she builded behind her, Maybe she's finally free, being fredd from her own life and can finnaly start anew. She's a survivor, and that until the end.
Sun Jeo, i didn't like him since the start but here are my thoughts. From the start, he was only a spectator in Ah Jin's abuse. But in the end, he's the one choosing the bad way to punish and stop Ah Jin. For me, he didn't use his nepo power as he could comparing with Moon Do Hyeok influence. He's like ah jin's curse : When he appears, her past is coming back to her, in her life, in her career everytime he came back, something happened. And that since the beginning of the show, his presence is like a punition, threatening Ah Jin's life even if she liked him in a kind of way. Overwhelmed by guilt, he choose to stop her since he take accountability for his relative making other people suffering ( his mother first then ah jin), he's punishing himself for loving this kind of people. Complex character, its hard for me to describe his role in the drama, and find a good way to explain it
Jae ho, my favorite caracter, courageous and loyal til the end. He payed for his crime even though it was an accident. His family abandoned him, he losti all chance to get a bright future because of his years of prison. But even with all that, Ah Jin remained the only one finding him useful, worthy of completing a mission. In a world where he felt worthless, she was the only one making him find a purpose to live.Some people mind find his death worthless, but i don't things that the main thing was to make Moon Do pays. His death shows how far he was ready to go for ah jin, as if his life was hers. She was the only one making feel that he was useful and has a worth, maybe that's why for him, his life didn't mean nothing without her.
Concerning what people call "coincidences", i just call it fate. The drama showed us how life is unfair, why ah jin was that angry with her life. Like, why her ? There's no answer to that. Even in the end, people worst than her, continue their life and don't pay for their crimes. why did she have to be born in this family ? then to go in a family where again, her step mother would abuse her ? then the moment her life was normal, her dream is stolen. Why ? Because she was a bad person ? No, she didn't born that way. We could all have lived a life as ah jin, but we didn't because of fate, how would we react to this kind of abuse ? Suicide ? Trying to live in a right way? Anger ? i just know that people react differelently.
But in the end, Moon do hyeok is for me the definition of evil, he's doing it for entertainment while she was doing it to escape from her hell of life. He killed people anoying him, she killed no one bothering her. He likes seeing people suffering and turning crazy thanks to him. He likes people suffering while she don't want to be the one to suffer.
Actions, intention, goals are important to judge a person and this drama shows how us, the viewers, don't have the same standars to judge that.
someone killing a rapist is considered as a murderer ? so yes i understand him.
someone killing his abuser, i understand it.
Like the judge, it's not only about respecting or not the law, there are contexts that's why cases are closed differently even if it's the same crime.
And i don't understand why you say that i give "excuses" when i'm just saying fact, she was about to die or being rapped so she baited her life to escape from that. She didn't invent that situation, this was not the first time that he almost killed her. This time, she made sure that someone could save her life. Until that nothing wrong. But she didn't want to destroy her own life because of her abuser so she choose to sacrifise someone else ( which is wrong because he's innocent). But i still understand why she choose that, even if it's wrong.
He choose to forgive her, and i respect him for that but i wouldn't be sad if he wanted to take his revenge, which i would understand too. Trying to destroy someone to get his revenge is bad right ?? But still i wouldn't have blamed him for that.
I personally think that context is important to judge someone's actions.
I understand someone killing her/his rapist.
Idk if you see what i mean, but i also understand that for some people bad action= bad person, which i do not agree with. Being a good person is not simple in some circumstances.
The boss didn't save her from something that she build up, he really saved her from something that was happening to her. What she planned was to be saved, relieved from this hell.
Yes she could have choose other options, but she choose herself, she didn't want to ruin her life for him. Just imagine surviving years of abuse and the only way to save yourself from that is literraly ruining your own life since no one is here to save you ?? She shouldn't have implicate the boss in this, but i understand why she did it though. She thougt about herself first and i wouldnt have blamed the boss if he wanted to take revenge on her.
I'm not saying it was the best choice, but she choose this one. We can't always expect the victims to react in a good way when they are in such extrem conditions.
She was a bad person for doing that but this action doesn't sum up what she is. The only thing that we can say, it's that she thought that she wasn't loosing her life AGAIN because of her father (first time : her dream university being stolen) and that by all means.
just to be clear :
i totally agree with the fact that the boss was totally innocent, that she had other options that she could have chosen. I felt bad for him too and i was relivied to see what he became after his years in prison. He was still a good person.
When we compare what she’s doing and what they have been doing, I see a big difference.