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Just finished it!! What a wonderful journey this has been, carrying us along with the Qiao family from the 80's to 2010 😭 It was realistic, beautiful and heartwarming. Every actor played their parts to perfection. They were so natural! I love the way we see them age slowly and subtly. Respect for everyone involved in bringing this to us, including the subbing team!!

PS: Yiding's laugh at the end surprised me so much 😭 That was a first! Loved the last scene, the camera movements, the screenplay, everything. What a wonderful ending!
It was amazing to watch and discuss this show with all of you here in the comments. So many times, I pulled through by ranting here and then going back to watch. Thank you all for keeping me company!

What are y'all watching next? I have no idea what to do with my time now that this beautiful drama is over!

People expected it to be a hardcore crime thriller and it's a romantic comedy so they're salty.

Just finished Episode 35 and I really don't want this to end 😭😭 Aside from the grudge I hold against the writers over Yiding-Sanli screentime, I really really love every single thing about this drama. What am I going to do when it ends??

I loved Go Ahead, but this one just hit different. This is real, raw and just profound.

thanks for the info!^^

Tell me whatever drama you're watching next.... I'm looking for something similar too!

I Google translated the description, if you want to check whether this plot has been done before:
Tong Jiaqian (Decorated by Yao Di) and Liu Yiyang (Decorated by the article) have been in love for nearly ten years. When they get married, they find that they have become a "naked family" with no house, no car, no deposit, no diamond ring, and no wedding. They firmly believe that love can overcome everything. However, life has given them disgrace, incompatibility with the three-generation family, the patriarchal patriarchy of father-in-law and grandmother, and all kinds of unbearable life. The young couple gradually changed their true colors, could not stand each other, and went to break up. After the divorce, the two started a new life, but they understood and tolerated each other in various incidents, and also learned to deal with the relationship with each other's family. The two became mature, and it became clearer that they were still in love with each other and finally came together again.

And the pinned comment says:
Get pregnant when you are unmarried and get married naked with your baby. Will love be lost to reality? 🏠
Article, Yao Di, Wan Qian, Zhang Kaili, Han Tongsheng lead the starring~😄
Focus on the new marriage era of the post-80s~Meet in Chinese TV dramas every night👏

So I think it's new.

Oops, I wrote that with Erqiang in mind, not Yicheng 😅 The names confuse me sometimes

He was a minor. Everyone could see that she knew he was naive and stupid. I don't think it counts as "consent," according to the law. What she did is a crime. He was visibly broken after the entire ordeal. He went through mental abuse.

It's sad to see because the rape of male victims is usually hard to prove because it's more mental abuse than physical abuse. Qiqi looked so broken, mentally scarred and terrified while the girl was still running around with that insolent smile of hers. If it was the other way round, you wouldn't have accepted abuse he had to endure. Everybody would be making comments about how "men get away with everything" "men don't take responsibility because they don't get pregnant" "poor oppressed woman had to go through all of that"

https://www.wksexcrimes.com/practice-areas/child-on-child-sexual-abuse/

But curiosity is killing me! 😭😭

trust me, you won't like it when he does appear somewhere around the 19-22 eps -_-

But why did Yicheng tell Yiding to "take good care of Sanli"? What were they talking about there?

If it's for Yiding's health, why did Yicheng tell Yiding to take good care of Sanli? And was Sanli's sickness thing ever resolved?
Also, when or where were sexual problems hinted at?

Are you saying that just because he didn't stop her, he's also in the wrong? He was clearly too naive and stupid to know better and that's why she targeted him.

I agree with you. It's sad to see because the rape of male victims is usually hard to prove because it's more mental abuse than physical abuse. Qiqi looked so broken, mentally scarred and terrified. I hated that the girl seems to have gotten away completely free.

it's definitely statutory rape. What she did was a crime.

I actually wished he would die but I guess everything turned out fine

I won't mind if this gold digger takes advantage of that miser, but she better not affect the siblings in any way.

Someone please help me:
Sanli used to feel sick. Was it serious? Why did Yicheng tell Yiding to take good care of her? If Sanli is the sick one, why was Yiding planning on going to Beijing alone? What on earth is going on? Which one of them have to consult a doctor?

This is the first time I want a cdrama to have more episodes 😂