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Episode 24 has not even been released yet we are only 23 episodes in, trailers don't have all the context to what will actually happen. If you watched the drama you'd understand.

same here, I am already experiencing post withdrawal symptoms 🤭

I agree, it's not an easy feat.

Her not telling him about her garbage uncle is not because she doesn't trust him. She clearly doesn't want to get him involve as something bad might happen to him. At the same time, as much as she does trust him there are some things that aren't easy to speak out to anyone, especially for someone like her who has been accustomed to keeping and dealing with everything on her own. Sometimes, people choose not to tell even their own blood related family certain things or bad things that happened to them not because they are being selfish or don't have trust, they have their own reasons but it's harder for people who suffers trauma.

The SA scenes and mental abuse scenes you referred to might have come off too much but these things didn't happen in the same timeline, so I think it is necessary for them to add these scenes in order to give the audience depth and background of how much horrible experiences the FL actually has gone through.... so us viewers could get a grasps of her character and understand her, since drama episodes are limited and it is not possible to completely adapt everything from the novel as precisely and accurately as they want to.

novel material.

In the previous episodes we had been shown how Wen Yi Fan constantly regrets going to Yi He and breaking the promise she made with Sang Yan. She felt so sad knowing how much he has been hurt back then, that even in her drunk state she apologized to him, in her heart hurting him is the last thing she would ever want to do. I couldn't help myself but feel a lot for her because she didn't deserve those horrible things that happened to her, yet she blames herself for hurting the one she loves. I never considered Wen Yi Fan's 'running away' from Nanwu in the past as an act of cowardliness or weakness, especially for someone like her who has been completely abandoned by her own family and had no one to run to; there might be Sang Yan but there isn't much he could do either as they were still both young back then. Her life circumstances never gave her any option to choose from, leaving Nanwu became her last resort to cling onto life no matter how much she disliked it. Life is full of complexities and most of the time not everyone can afford to have many choices. What Wen Yi Fan did back then should never be considered a mistake or weakness, she should never have to apologize and bear blame for simply trying to survive as none of the bad and horrible experiences she has been through was ever her fault to begin with.

Wen Yi Fan has always been resilient and brave in my eyes, but seeing her confronting them showed how she had grown stronger over the years and is ready to now fight back not only for herself but even her loved one, Sang Yan. Her mother is lucky to have a daughter like her who still treated her with kindness despite everything she has done. Yet her mother still remains very selfish, the worst thing a mother could ever do is abandon her own biological daughter and still have the audacity and energy to care for another child who isn't even her own. She certainly knows that garbage guy is horrible, seeing how she scolds her stepdaughter for not wearing her clothes properly, at the same time she willingly and consciously stays ignorant over the terrible things that happened to Wen Yi Fan. She doesn't deserve any redemption arc and deserves to rot in hell with the garbage guy and his garbage sister. Wen Yi Fan truly deserves a better family.

I cried a lot during the scene when Yi Fan started to sleepwalk again and Sang Yan asked her if she was afraid and comforted her by telling her how she could come and find him directly. My heart ached even more the moment she held onto Sang Yan's hand so tightly never wanting to let it go while tears escaped her eyes. She must have been in a dark place again and Sang Yan being there at that moment became her light - her sun. I could only imagine how afraid and in pain Yi Fan felt every night through all those years without Sang Yan by her side but now we could see how she feels so safe, warm and the only one who doesn't trigger her traumas whenever he is around her, this is surely the reason why in both her drunk and sleep walking state she always naturally gravitate towards Sang Yan. Moreover, Sang Yan being affectionate to Yi Fan and not leaving her alone to cry on her own and how by the moment they woke up, even if he notices Yi Fan isn't in a good state, he tries to brighten her up. He literally remembers the smallest details about her, the way he complimented the food she cooked for him as she likes to hear compliments about it. He tries but it's evident how he worries so much about her.

Their love for each other is so deep and selfless. I would not question whatever happens to them next because of how their love has been built and constantly shown, it definitely isn't fragile.

enjoy 🤍....I am planning to watch it later before I got to bed, knowing we won't have episodes tomorrow makes it insufferable! right I am seeing a lot today everyones worried 🤭

did you start ep 23 already? I still haven't started 🤭

having this thought and just know his heart will ultimately shatter more when he learns about the uncle.

same here🤭

Episode 22 has been full of nothing but chaotic adorable drunk scenes of our favorite couple but I can't help love it so much because I have never seen a drama couple romance over such scenes like they did 😭🩵

men written by females will always be toptier but it's a shame because they will also always remain fictional, we are left to dream and imagine 🤭

Sang Yan kept his word about introducing Yi Fan in a formal setting, he really introduced her as his girlfriend at a wedding venue. Qian Fei's wedding brought a lot of blessings that night for the Sang siblings he deserves credit for it 🤭. Sang Yan does indeed deserved to be boasted about. Yi Fan confidently acknowledged how she chased him in front of all his friends. I know she appreciates him just as much as he does, but seeing her do it publicly and how Sang Yan was all over the moon happy about it with that huge smile plastered on his face was so satisfying to see.

Drunk Wen Yi Fan was so chaotic but definitely memorable. Her suppressed feelings and thoughts just came out of her on their own, it was cute and funny to see this side of her and how this time we are witnessing how more carefree she is because she knows her safe place no other than Sang Yan is with her. The way she just naturally gravitates towards Sang Yan even in her sleep. Also, I really appreciate it whenever Sang Yan selflessly goes an extra mile for her...like he doesn't give her the bare minimum and he just naturally have so much respect for her. He adores her so much and it's evident on how lovingly he stares at her during her drunk scenarios. Him removing her make up for her and the cuddle in the morning as soon as they woke up, how he snuggled his face to her gently, so heart fluttering.

Wen Yi Fan's opportunity is Sang Yan. It's so nice to see her healing through every episode, how the dullness she used to carry around her has now been slowly fading and we get to see so much of her brighter side. Although she still has a lot more to face, I think this time she has become even more stronger than ever.

same here, the dialogues are so good 🩵

this drama has so many dialogues that are so much better than I Love You's 🤭

you're welcome ☺️

Sang Yan and Wen Yi Fan's weibo update has been translated and uploaded in this link below. (Sang Yan's audio recording has also been uploaded).

❄️🍃:https://kisskh.at/discussions/722171-first-frost/135414-sang-yan-wen-yi-fan-s-weibo-update-eng-trans?page=2

that's a huge compliment, I don't think I am that talented but thank you 🩵

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