Because This Is My First Life

이번 생은 처음이라 ‧ Drama ‧ 2017
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dptmsshc
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Mar 5, 2019
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Overall 10
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Music 10
Rewatch Value 10
It has a concept I have never seen before in K-Dramas and it has a beautiful story-line. The music entices you and draws you into the drama itself, making you experience the emotions the characters are feeling. The actors are great, perfectly suit their characters and have great chemistry, making you want to see more from each couple. There is no unnecessary drama and the comedic elements in the show override some dramatic scenes, which makes it a great comedic show. It will ultimately bring a smile to you face and make you always remember this drama as inducing a good feeling in your heart. I hope you spare some time to watch this drama because it is truly great and worth your while!

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aramist
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Mar 18, 2019
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Overall 10
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This drama is definitely for the late 80's and early 90's kids. It involves around the issues , we face, trying to live and succeed in the world. Especially, when you feel like other around your age are succeeding and you are just there ...stuck...collecting space. The realism of this drama was emotional for me at times, because i was born in the late 80's. The fact that a lot of the characters' issues was similar to mines was amazing. This is not an average ROM COM , defiantly REAL LIFE! I will defiantly watch it again, when i need that reminder that I am not alone in this, and because this is my first life, I need to make it work!!!

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Edge
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Feb 8, 2021
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Overall 9.0
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 9.5
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 9.0

This is the slice of life drama I never knew I needed

Okay so first of all, THIS DRAMA IS SO RELATABLE IN SO MANY LEVELS. It doesn't matter if you already are in a relationship or not. This drama brings in a lot of realizations in life. On how hard it is to get jobs and apartments, etc., It's like that story your mom tells you over and over again during the holidays but this one really strikes your heart. Story wise I think this drama is really well written the characters were really fleshed out on its finest. I love how you can actually differentiate the character's colors in this drama. 🙂
I love the cinematography of this drama. It really makes you feel the emotion of the scene through their creative shots of super close up to the eyes which makes the viewer feel more intimate with the character. I think its a bit risky move but the actors pulled it off together with the camera work so I salute to that.
The actors are really good at portraying their characters. Its really interesting to see such actors pull off those kinds of characters. Kudos to them for that.. 😊

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Andrew C
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Jan 31, 2025
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Overall 9.5
Story 10
Acting/Cast 10
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 10

Millennial Existentialism done right

One of my favorite dramas. I wish the writers understood that THIS is what many of us want to see: realistic, complex, bitter, unhappy characters who want a better life with all the complications that entails.

This is one of the best series about young adults trying to define their lives. There are no millionaires who will solve your life overnight, no magic formulas or stupid plot twists to make love arise between the main characters. It's pure realism, uncomfortable and funny. A clear reflection on what it means to grow up and realize all the beauty and horror we take on in the search for our independence.

One of the best couples in the history of K-Dramas and oh my God Lee Min Ki in this bitter facet changed my brain chemistry because of how hot he looks.

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Adramamama
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Apr 20, 2025
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Overall 6.5
Story 5.0
Acting/Cast 7.0
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 5.5
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Had potential, but ultimately untenable

I was excited to watch this because Lee Min Ki is generally great and the 8.4 rating was impressive. Sadly, it didn't live up to the hype. This is one of those dramas with an identity crisis. It wants to be too many things and only succeeds at a couple of them and bombs the rest. The main thing that it bombed was having a mature lead couple with an honest relationship. It had potential at first, but in the last 4 episodes the FL became soooo unlikeable; just a mopey insecure girl playing games with the ML's head. My eyes were rolling so hard my head hurt. I hate it when dramas purport to go against the status quo or champion feminism but then so quickly undermine that. The thing is, if you write a tsundere character, you have to live with the consequences. If she really loved him as he was, then it was totally ridiculous for her to BREAK him like that. It was sad to see him become such a mess. In fact, he had already done all of the things that she would qualify as evidence of his affection for her. They should have just written it so that someone told her about the things he'd done (e.g. the book he got, or how he beat up the assistant director, since that is apparently the kind of gesture that would please her.)
Anyway, just as others have said, the supporting cast was exceptional! Love CEO Ma; it was always a relief when he was in a scene. And Bo Mi was a real treat too. Since the subplots were pretty engaging, I can muster a 6.5 for this otherwise disappointing drama.
Also, LMK has a fantastic full-toothed grin, so it was a real bummer that his character only smiled like twice.

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Quitas
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Jun 2, 2018
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Drama of the year!!
I had no idea who Lee Mi Ki was, but I liked his performance, I like Jung So Min so i gave a try to this drama, and I fell in love with everything. I liked the plot and the ost was amazing and well placed in the situations.
I love the story. It's soft, calm...with a good amount of comedy. I liked the various relationships in the story: the problems, the thoughts of each one, the equalities or differences and their evolution.
In the end this made me reflect and see the various ways of thinking and do things
Love this <3
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zabs
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Mar 3, 2025
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Overall 3.0
Story 3.0
Acting/Cast 3.5
Music 1.0
Rewatch Value 1.0

started out strong but the ending is awful

This one started off with the promise of a refreshing plot, with innovative characters but as episodes went by, all the usual k-drama plot devices kept showing up and after episode 10, I couldn’t help but skim over. There were two positive points for this: the openness of the characters when talking about s*x and Soo-Ji and Mr. Ma’s relationship.
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scenophile
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Feb 11, 2021
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Overall 7.0
Story 7.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 6.5
Rewatch Value 6.5

Thoughtful

It's been a long time since such a drama hit close to home and made me question everything I thought about career, marriage, and life in general. There was so much to love here and it's rare to see two characters that are just so respectful of each other's space and opinions.

If anything, however, I wish the back end of the drama had the same oomph factor. It felt like the story gave up some of those life lessons that hit me so hard in exchange for the romantic plotlines, and as a twenty-one-year-old, questioning the institution of marriage just wasn't something I could relate as much to.

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Fers
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Dec 21, 2025
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Overall 9.5
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 10
Music 8.5
Rewatch Value 9.0
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CEO Ma is the MVP

this story is full of laughs and some hard sad moments! perfect to watch of you are fan of Jong so min! again she delivers a master full acting but this time CEO Ma, is the MVP ! he is the most charismatic and reliable character, delivers serious moments, has the best dialogues and it's the most mature yet child character, I'm so happy with his ending, he was the only one to have something to say to each of the involved characters that really help them, woo su-ji made the best choice with him!!
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nanami73
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Nov 18, 2022
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Overall 5.5
Story 3.5
Acting/Cast 6.0
Music 9.5
Rewatch Value 1.5
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Enjoyed it but the end sucked.

Enjoyed the show in the beginning with the three couples. The bra couple was funny and felt real. In the final episodes when she finally came back I wanted him to tell her, "I'm married". Yes, I did not wanted them to end together. I hated how selfish she was. She never expressed her feelings. If she would have communicated better there would be no need to be so cruel. Now I'm watching Alchemy of Souls and I can't stand to see her face. She still has the same wooden look. I don't think I'll ever like her as an actress.
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allure2k2
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Nov 6, 2020
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Overall 8.5
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 6.0

Even if this life seems like a failure, still always try your best

Just like the computer, with the presence of a virus, sometimes there is nothing left to do but reformat and reboot.

This drama scores a home run right in the core of my being. I have given up long ago on the notion that men can read minds. The idea that the person whom we consider or have the potential to be our lifelong partners should know how we women operate. Women often thought that men know what is on our minds all the time and how they should react to any given situation.

Well, I have given up on that fact. The truth? Men are NOT mind-readers. They would rather have us tell them what exactly we want. They would prefer us to include details after details. Frustrating as it seems, we merely could not accept that for some reason.

Women want to be swept-off on their feet. We triumph on every small victory when our significant others give us things even before we tell them and when they say the right things at the right moment. For some, these thoughts would only remain a fantasy, an after-thought at best.

It is one of the reasons why I love Lee Min Ki's character, Nam Se Hee, so much! He based everything, including his decision making on data. According to him, data does not lie. But the way you use data and interpret them and use them, that is the crucial part. I have to hand this to the writer. I think she and I think alike. To save relationships, we soberly have to compromise. It may be arduous to fathom, its REALITY. As the famous book quotes: "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus."

THOUGHTS to PONDER
In relationships, whenever asked your ultimate goal for your significant others, more often than not, this is the answer:

I like to see you smile.
I want to make you happy.
I cannot live without you.

Contrary to the purpose of the question, none of the subjects of the sentences talks about the other person. Instead, all sentences started with the word "I" when suppose to be the center of attention, is YOU.

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MG Mayre
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Jan 4, 2024
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Overall 10
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Acting/Cast 10
Music 10
Rewatch Value 10
Because This Is My First Life (2017) - Everybody knows how I like this drama, basically I posted lines of this drama before. This drama is my favorite Korean drama, period. I just love everything in this drama. The lines are awesome and hey I just love how the romance of the main characters developed. I like that there are basically 3 stories in one drama because it doesn’t focus on a romance of 1 couple but 3 couples with different situations. It’s just fun and heartwarming. I like that the script was well portrayed by the actors in a fun way. It was both an educational and hilarious drama for me. I kept repeating the scenes which I like in this drama, like my 6th time watching it today. Hahahaha. Favorite scene includes the conversation between Se Hee and Ji Ho’s mom before the wedding. I don’t think I could ever get enough of this drama. To more dramas like this!

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