It's Okay to Not Be Okay

Dropped it cause of the FL character

I started this drama cause I was told it’s a beautiful drama that tackles mental health. Well the relationship between the brothers and their friend was the only good part of this drama and the story of Kwak Deong Yeon really touched my heart. It was quite heartbreaking.

The female lead character ( I appreciate the actress is good) is what put me off this drama, though her fashion was outstanding in the 5 episodes I saw. She is a toxic character, we don’t hesitate to call out male leads who are toxic , so not sure why this character gets away because she is a female. She is over bearing, treats others like crap (including her manager) and cannot take no for an answer, is imposing herself on the male lead despite him saying no to her. These are all clear red flags. She needs therapy (given her childhood trauma which I read in reviews since I couldn’t continue to watch her on my screen) but never gets any! If love could cure mental illness, we wouldn’t need psychiatrists / psychologists - so much for this messaging that love cures her trauma in a drama that focuses on mental health.

I know this drama is well loved, but I didn’t like it and this is just my opinion.

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Work of brilliant art, story telling and masterful directing

The visuals and photography are crystal clear and beautiful. It is like watching a master artist paint on a canvas. The actors are so beautiful and the "lack of feeling" on their faces conflicts with the emotion the story is communicating in such a complimentary way that you can not help but think about the story frequently during the week. The impact of the way the director put everything together is very powerful. I completely believe that some people watching this movie will experience profound healing from past hurts. At times it is so funny and quirky that I laugh out loud and I dont frankly care who hears me or who thinks I am crazy. I am in good company in the movie in any event! How anyone can think this movie is boring goes beyond believe...they are probably crazy as well! This series is a collectors item which ever way you look at it.

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I just wanted to say that some people are trying to give an expression that it is boring or something just to drop its view and ratings. Do watch it yourself all the episodes that have aired so far and decide for your for me this drama is the best one so far in this year is it gives a meaning to fantasies and real life emotions. It one hell of a psychological ride. Just watch and decide for yourself . This drama connects past with present amd deals with traumas and feelings while targeting audience affected by those circumstances and giving them a notion that these wounds can be healed with a little support over time. It will take time but definitively will heal

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The series mainly interested me because of how it deals with mental health and the fact that the main character works in a psychiatric hospital says it all. And voila, I finally finished watching it and I have mixed feelings about it so far. I laughed a lot, empathized with the characters and even cried a little at times. I am so glad that the series also shows the other perspective of the patients and not just what we see from the perspective of the main character or the supporting characters. I also really liked how the characters were played and I was totally blown away by our famous Go Moon-young, who was an original character with an original style of dressing, humor and emotions (whether it was love or obsession). I also appreciate the way Kang-tae's brother was played, which must have taken a lot of effort and I stared at it with my mouth wide open. And the art side!? Hello?! Illustrations, fairy-tale motifs, atmosphere. The overall idea of the series was original and incredibly beautifully crafted. Not to mention how mental health is discussed there and something was explained every time. I love it. So if you are a fan of series about love, mental health and a bit of family and drama, this is exactly for you. I am extremely satisfied and I recommend the series with a smile!

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The Emotional Rollercoaster!!!

Okay so I want to start off by say this... This show gave me Emotional Trauma in literally the best way possible. It's 100% honestly one of, if not THE BEST Kdramas I have ever watched in all my life. The show held my attention so well, the emotions were on point, the acting was suburb and the story was just endless excitement for me. I've never cried so many times watching a show in my life, some part made my chest feel so tight and so many times I was just left with my mouth hanging wide open... ohhh my goddd!! 10 out of 10..like this show was just perfect to me. It's amazing that I just finished it and I want to rewatch it again... I literally never wanted it to end. I fully recommend this show to just about anyone.. it had a little bit of everything. Comedy, thrills, some spooky bits, romance and even just that good old fashion relationship drama that makes you want to just cry your eyes out. Ah I'm sad it's over... it was just an amazing show, just amazing. I will be rewatching this in the future for sure

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PERFECT SHOW you should watch it 100%

After watching dramas for quite a long time, I can say that to me there's a lot of good shows but few that I can confidently say perfect. And that's why, this is the first drama that I'm re-watching.
You will be addicted from the first episode and it manages to keep the quality the whole run. Looking at the tags, seeing trauma and mental illness you might think it's going to be overly dramatic and at time hard to watch, but you will be surprised, since the plot is actually very funny and wholesome. There are so many questions and motive that you will start guessing from the episode one, be it from main character or side characters. Even small characters have such strong personalities that you can't just ignore them, from the quirky doctor at the hospital to lovable couple of patients. The lead couple hold a interesting relationship, the ML despite being a "good" person, is broken and lives a very limited life, because of that he starts to be moved by the FL, who is after him from the first moment they met.

ANOTHER STRONG POINT. THE. OST. IS AMAZING!! I have it saved and whenever it comes up, I get the feeling I need to re-watch the whole show...

(somewhat SPOILER)
This is not to degrade the show but some of the situation cause by the characters with mental illness were a bit hard to watch again, not sure if its a good or bad thing (example: I was hoping his brother would act differently sometimes because I knew he was causing a problem that would be solved soon, so it felt like a bit of a waste of time( BUT THATS ON ME 100%))
deer jokes never got old!

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A BEAUTY AND A BEAST

This is one of the few dramas im the korean media where you can say the female lead ate up every single character like a breeze this was a very very long overdue change of pace long have we grown tired of the idiot shy poor unconfident female leads we are used too. This drama has managed to create a female lead with an actual personality while highlighting mental problems very effectively. It's Ok not to be Okay may just be one of the most well wrotten dramas of all time every single charcter had their own story their own personality the acting in this show is worth Oscars of Oscars everybody demolished this. The show follows people who are different than our used to characters we see on our screens just a masterpiece and this kight be kim soo hyuns last good role he might ever get in his entire career

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This Is An Plot Summary of 16 Episode

Starting at few eps she tries him even he is not willing. She is a story book writer & her stories as written as books.Later gradually he likes her very slowly by seeing her character & feelings. Consists of love triangle where one girl cares abt him very much even providing him job offer, house to stay but later he turns her down. Then both of them grows closer & both had their past together where he likes her in childhood but she neglects his feelings. But later on both of them carried together. Some waste sequence of his brother whom he is taking care as he is mentally nt stable becz of his trama. Then slowly they shows that her mother was the killer of his mother. There goes some guilt of her to him. Finally at end they make up each other. Girl who cares him also couples with heroine book publisher.

Overall slow character development, childhood past love, some romance but lot of waste sequence of his bro & some hospital scene.And end goes with good as they r together.

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Really really loved it

This is a completely different series compared to the ones I usually watch, but I'm so glad I finally decided to watch it. At first, I had some doubts about it, and after the first episode, I stopped halfway through, but I still felt like I wanted to continue watching it, and I'm really glad I did.

Personally, nothing similar has happened to me or to people in the story, but I believe that if someone can relate, it might resonate even more with them than it did with me. This drama was heartfelt, instructive, funny, and very beautiful. Kim Soo Hyun and Seo Yea Ji are extremely beautiful people, and they fit so well together. Oh Jung Se played his role just wonderfully, that seeing him as himself in the end was almost weird to watch. I really liked the dynamics between Moon Kang Tae, Go Mun Young, and Moon Sang Tae, especially towards the end, but also the relationship between Kang Tae and Mun Young. I also liked all the hospital patients and staff (except for the bad ones), and I liked seeing that everyone is human and doesn't need to be treated differently. I knew that before, of course, but it was nice to see it in the series. Also, the stories of each patient and the main characters, and their childhoods - they really made me think about real life and how many different people and stories everyone has, and at the same time, how strong they are.

I also really liked the series visually, how one of the patients had a memory on the bus and how it was put together, as well as all the transitions from one place to another, etc.

I really wish these books were real and available in my country, and that more of them would come out.

The story was really beautiful, and I believe there may be those who may not like such a series, but I recommend giving it a chance.

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A Masterpiece in K-Drama Storytelling"

"It's Okay to Not Be Okay" stands as a pinnacle in the realm of Korean drama, earning my enthusiastic rating of 100/10. From its inception, the series intricately weaves a tapestry of emotions and storytelling that captivates the audience with unprecedented brilliance. The characters, portrayed with finesse, undergo profound development, drawing viewers into their intricate lives. What sets this drama apart is its unflinching exploration of mental health issues, handled with a rare sensitivity and authenticity.

The narrative unfolds like a well-crafted novel, each episode adding layers to the overarching theme. The chemistry between the lead characters is not just romantic but an emotional anchor that elevates the entire viewing experience. The cinematography and soundtrack seamlessly complement the storytelling, creating an immersive atmosphere that lingers even after the screen fades to black.

Beyond mere entertainment, "It's Okay to Not Be Okay" becomes a guide through the labyrinth of human emotions. It dismantles societal taboos surrounding mental health, fostering empathy and understanding. The series serves as a testament to the power of storytelling in raising awareness and challenging preconceptions.

In a landscape saturated with dramas, this masterpiece shines brightly, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of those fortunate enough to embark on its emotional journey. To rate it anything less than a perfect 10 would be an injustice to the exceptional craftsmanship and emotional resonance it brings. In the vast universe of K-dramas, "It's Okay to Not Be Okay" stands tall as an unforgettable, transformative experience that transcends the screen.

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so amazing

the acting in this was next level definitely top 5 shows I’ve watched so far omg I loved all the characters so much it felt so realistic in the ways they dealt with conflict oh jung-se (sang-tea) completely nailed that character you never want it to look mocking and I feel like it was just perfect

moon young felt like morticia addams while some parts had me annoyed at her I had to realize she just doesn’t really think like them and is just showing love in the way she knows but I did love her overall so much

gang-tea was just perfect the way he was with his brother and the way he treated moon-young just perfection

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A striking psychological shock. K-dramas are lightyears away from clichés

If you think Korean dramas are just about cheesy, naive romances, think again. It’s Okay to Not Be Okay hit me hard. As a mental coach specializing in self-confidence, watching this series resonated deeply within me. Human nature, traumas, the complexity of relationships—everything is at the core of the story, handled with striking accuracy.

What is remarkable is that the technical execution matches the narrative 100%. The cinematography isn't just there to look pretty: the camera suffocates with the characters at first, using tight frames that create genuine tension, before opening up as they rebuild themselves. Visually, everything is intentional. Even the heroine's wardrobe, featuring extravagant and rigid outfits, serves as armor. A true shield masking the fear of an abandoned heart. As the series progresses and her outfits soften, we visually understand what we observe every day in coaching: true self-confidence does not come from an iron shell, but from the courage to accept one's flaws.

Add to that a soundtrack acting as a true psychological metronome, oscillating between anxiety and gentleness, and you get a complete work of art.

The final message demolishes the toxic myth that we can pull through completely on our own. No, we need others, a benevolent mirror, and genuine communication to heal from a heavy past. The evolution of the lead female character, breaking free from a violent toxic relationship, is magnificent to witness.

A must-watch if you are looking for a profound, visually polished work that speaks to what we all carry deep inside.

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