The First Frost

I enjoyed this one a lot! It wasn’t perfect, but it was great nonetheless. What I loved most was the casting. After reading the webtoon (which I actually dropped, lol), I thought the actors wouldn't fit at all, thank god I’m not a casting director because I was totally wrong! They were the best part of the show, hands down. The story was okay, bit depressing, but the chemistry and their love story kept me watching. The male lead’s devotion felt like every girl's dream, pure and incredibly strong. Sure, if you think too deeply, he’s basically a romanticized stalker, but it’s fiction! We forgive, we forget, and we enjoy the vibes. Lmao!

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First Love Forever

I like the male lead though he’s not the most dashing of actors around. He is an excellent actor and carries his roles well.

What I Liked:
- The song track was very good. Catchy songs.
- The female lead was very good-looking. I had total hair envy just looking at her gorgeous locks.
- The plot was decent and the supporting cast of people whom the FL worked with in the Nan Wu news company were nice and I liked that.
- The ML was a good guy and was truly so in love. I liked that they were devoted to each other.
- I liked that FL was feisty and courageous. She tried her best to protect herself and she was brave in the face of adversity. How difficult it must have been for her to be abandoned by her mother after her father’s death. How difficult it must have been for her to live with her awful relatives without pure hearts and intents. How awful it must feel to be thus unloved and abused,

What I did not like:
- I didn’t like all the bad characters. Duh? The FL’s uncle was disgusting and immoral. Such a lecherous scumbag.
- The FL’s relatives were generally disgusting too. Horrid characters. Exceedingly selfish and immoral.
- The second lead’s story with the grandparents and all that was quite unnecessary though the second FL was cute.

Overall, I think this is an easy kind of watch. The cinematography is beautiful. It’s a good show though some parts can be a little slow. I think the leads did a good job to carry the show and their roles. ;o)

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Not Bad But I Miss The Original Actors

Unnecessarily long. We get it. They're in love but went though a lot of tough things before they could finally be together. We didn't need half of these episodes....

That said, it wasn't bad. It was a sweet love story with a very dedicated and extremely romantic ML and an emotionally unavailable FL. Good character arcs. nice characters. But I REALLY miss the actors from Hidden Love (which this is a spin off of). I had to pretend that this was a completely different, unrelated story to even remotely enjoy it because the actors' interpretations of those characters are so different. Not bad, but very different. (Although it would have been so much better to see the original Sang Yan from Hidden Love because his acting was so unique).

I also really enjoyed the side characters' story and romance. I was a bit confused by the friendship of the three because it was shown as adults but not much in the flashbacks.

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Found my next comfort drama!

Yet another to be added to my 'comfort drama' list! Yet another masterpiece by Zhu Yi. The moment this drama started, I knew it couldn't go below 8 or 8.5. It did not disappoint me at all. Can't wait to read the book!

Ok, let's be honest - Sang Yan is way too good to belong to this world. He makes this drama so..comforting. It's the feeling of security as a viewer that no matter what truth, what twist comes up or whatever anybody says about Wen Yifan, his image of her would never change. If it did, it just gets better, never worse. And that keeps us grounded. He keeps Wen Yifan and all of us anchored. Making him feel that she isn't the best person he has ever met is as hard as making the Sun rise from the west, period. And realistically speaking, that makes him way more otherworldly than earthly 😂 And I know you're going to say it's the most basic way treating a girl - your girl - but let's be real. To indefinitely wait for someone for all these years and revolving your whole life around a single person takes a lot more than you think. And the vast majority of us can neither be it nor experience it. But I feel that's what makes stories like these divine. It's paradise. Loved that human, Sang Yan. I have officially become a Bai Jingting fan!

Wen Yifan, one of the bravest characters I've seen. Not in a 'warrior of the ancient times' sense but the real world version without an armour or sword. They called Sang Yan the knight and her the princess. But honestly, she is the knight herself. I usually don't like the idea of running away or escaping, leaving everything and everyone behind (as much as I wish I could myself ㅠㅠ). Maybe because it's not always possible. But she made me realise that maybe, running off isn't cowardice. It's a way of survival. And anything you do for survival is valid. She could have given up on her life entirely. But she didn't. That makes her a really brave person. She deserves every happiness in the world. Even at the end, their wedding wishes were filled with 'Sang Yan take care of her', 'Sang Yan protect her' as if it wasn't his wedding too. But it didn't feel out of place or overly highlighting Wen Yifan. It just FELT right! Again Zhang Ruonan fan here! The night when the incident happened was so well done by her, I was crying.

The two of them? One of the best onscreen couple. They look like real life couples tbh. Their acting was phenomenal! So natural; tears fell like it was happening to them, smiles came as if they had waited for this moment in real life. All the while making us feel the myriad of emotions. The way he called her name - Wen Shuangjiang..uhh! I was lovestruck 😫😫😭😭😭

Also liked Qiaoqiao and Haoan. They made a very cute couple. Love Zhang Miaoyi from WIFTY. It took me sometime to adjust to her new character 😫😂 I didn't realise Edward Chen is the one from 'Your Name engraved herein'. That movie's been on my watchlist for a long time. Have to watch that now for sure! Another notable character was Wen Yifan's mother. One of the most ridiculous people I've seen. EVER! Just cannot justify her in any way. Uh!

The OSTs grow on you. I liked 任性(Willful), 倔强(Stubborn) and 看着我(Look at me). But my favorites would be 像晴天像雨天 (Like sunny days, like rainy days) by Silence Wang and 雨滴中有你 (There is you amidst raindrops) by Crispy Band. Loved those!

This drama is not without problems though. First and foremost, Sang Yan's character as person was a bit far fetched. I mean, we're talking about a 16, 17 year old flying or taking train whatever so many times and his parents don't seem to care. Where did he get all the money from? Why aren't his parents the least concerned? Again, the level of freedom he had was a bit too much for an Asian family 😂 And if he didn't have a heart of gold, I swear he's one of the brattiest people I've seen 😂 Sang Zhi is right, he is very proud and arrogant 😶 So the green flag is for 'the way he treats her' than him as an individual. Then the storyline of the second couple felt a bit incomplete. I wish there was more. More interaction, more lovely moments and a more decisive ending. It felt loose. And the grandparents story as well. It felt like there wasn't a need for it. They were on track in the beginning, the entire memory loss and all. But they didn't use the room they had. All of a sudden it just wrapped up and became background stuff. Also, I thought there'll be more bits that parallelled with Hidden Love timeline but that disappointed me too. Finally, somewhere in the middle I did feel the drama dragged a bit. Not in a way that makes you want to fast forward the episode. But in a way that doesn't give you the urge to watch the next episode soon after, ya.

So the conclusion? This drama shows you what it is like to be loved unconditionally without any strings attached. What it is like to have someone to rely on- quoting "Trusting you in weakness, chosen by you firmly". This drama is not for binge watching over the weekend. It exists for you to watch an episode per day over an entire month! ❄️🍃

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Wasn't best ,But enjoyed.

When I started watching this I expect a similar vibe like "Hidden Love". Maybe that's why I find it kind of disappointing. (It's completely opposite.)
-> ML was to perfect which sometimes became irritating. I feel like if we erase FL from his life there is no Sang Yan.
In hidden love you can see how caring he is toward his sis. But here I feel like he don't care about any one beside FL.
No character development throughout the whole drama. His every decision revolve around Fl to much that it's way to much unrealistic and make him a person without character.
-> I don't like Fl lead being to strong. But I hate Fl when they escape everything by leaving everything behind then face it when they have someone beside them.(not just ML, even her friends)
I can understand her and realise that she have trauma, which made her insecure. But at some point I still can't accept that she just leave everything behind let alone ML ,even her best friend. Though her character was well developed .
-> At some point it started to feel slow and boring. Like they could have completed it within 26-28 epi, which they drugged to 32.
>>Overall it was good but not the best for me. I enjoyed it though. I just find some point that irritate me.
>> OST, acting, Cinematography was amazing 👏 .

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The importance of being earnest.

I admit I had high expectations for this drama. For starters, I really love Zhu Yi, the author of the original source material. She has a way of writing really beautiful stories about love and growing pains, that touch on subjects such as loneliness, self-love, friendship and overcoming society's prejudices in contemporary China, without making the characters' realities too harsh and cold. In her stories there's always room for hope and change.

Adding to this, I already knew Director and screenwriter Chu Yu Ning thanks to his impeccable work in the classic romcom It Started with a Kiss (and its sequel). So, I knew not only he would do an outstanding work but the team that he would bring to for this adaptation would be up to the highest standards. Finally, when it was announced Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan would be starring as Sang Yan and Wen Yifan, I knew this would be probably one of the best dramas of the year. I was right.

The First Frost is a beautifully shot story about two people loving each other unconditionally because they share a deep understanding of whom the other person is, and accept them with flaws and all. Sang Yan and Wen Yifan were never friends, they were always meant to be more, and their relationship is certainly based in a partnership of equals that respect each other. And because of this, they are able to navigate natural feelings in life such as heartbreak and fear of abandonment, and other more harsh situations such as overcoming childhood trauma and parents' neglect.

Every character in this drama was casted perfectly and all the actors brought their A+ game. Even when I fundamentally disagreed with some characters, such as Yifan's mother, the character and story building made me understand she was product of society and her environment, but I give props to The First Frost for delivering one of the most satisfying resolutions to this particular storyline. For too long we have been characters narratively forced to forgive neglecting or downright abusive parents, Wen Yifan said we are doing things differently from on.

There's a lot of value and importance in what The First Frost has to say about women's experiences through life, and how much we need positive people (of all genders) around us. Sang Yan is not perfect but he certainly is an ideal that we should aspire to, particularly the men. Yifan's journey was to learn that you don't need to be healed in order to receive love from others. Or, perhaps even more importantly, to love yourself.

Absolutely recommend watching this drama that delivers a powerful message through great character building, a compelling narrative, superlative soundtrack and writing.

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It reminded me of one of my favorite Austen novels, Persuasion…except I ended up liking it even more than Austen’s book when it was over. It also has some similarities with the Taiwanese drama, Mars, which I haven’t seen yet. This show isn’t for everyone as it explores darker themes such as healing, coping with trauma, the power of love and support, etc. The atmosphere in a lot of its scenes were laced with both sentimentality and sadness. This isn’t a lighthearted, feel good series, but in the end, the characters got the happy ending they deserved and I was truly happy for them.

The chemistry between the male lead (Sang Yan) and the female lead (Yifan) is one of the best I’ve seen and the young actor and actress did an exceptional job playing their roles. The main couple really loved each other…but in the case of the male lead…well, what can I say? He really, really, REALLY loved the female lead.

I’ve watched many asian dramas in the romance genre that I’ve liked, but I can only think of a few male leads that display the same depth of love, yearning and devotion towards the female lead that Sang Yan had for Yifan. Maybe Yehua from TMOP or the male lead from Marry My Husband...I can’t think of many, so I think the writer of this novel did a very good job in creating Sang Yan. Of course, appreciating this type of character or couple dynamic is subjective- if one prefers a male lead who is rougher around the edges, or a different trope (ex: hate to love, more of a best-friend dynamic or one that is less emotional), then naturally, this may not be for them and that’s fine. To each his own.

This is based on a novel and for the most part is an accurate adaptation. The novel actually throws you in for a loop, because it starts out like a funny lighthearted rom com with the theme of reunion after separation and co-habitation (ex: Full House) but then it suddenly gets darker when it shows (somewhere around the middle) the exact reason why the female lead was sleepwalking. The book actually tackled her thoughts of suicide and depression every time she recalled how her uncle almost succeeded in raping her and how her family, instead of protecting her, took his side and abandoned her.

The show does a better job of preparing the viewer for this, because it shows flashbacks of Yifan’s past earlier on, so they can decide if they want to continue watching this or settle for something less disturbing or with less mature themes. The scene where the uncle almost succeeds is also different. In the show, there is a struggle where they fall out of the window and the female lead is injured. Novel version was worse because he almost succeeded if it weren't for the family coming home right on time.

Sang Yan’s reaction when he finds out about this, the way he dealt with said uncle and the way he helps Yifan heal was very satisfying and touching. Yifan also deeply regretted the cruel way she rejected Sang Yan in their youth and when she found out about how he (the only person good to her) suffered because of this…well the things they do and say to each other (especially on his part) make for very good, sweet and emotional moments.

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Me ??‍?? Slowburns

I live for romance like this.

It was a slow comforting show even if it depicts serious disturbing problems.

The main couple was great even if in the past Sang Yan gave a bit stalker vibes when he went to her city.

The side couple was cute too and didn't outshine the main.

I love how when Sang Yan started his sentence by " Wen Shuangjiang" you knew he was about to spit the facts to reassure her or support her.

There is just one thing that I could not comprehend: the part where Wen Yifan is gone during 6 months to HongKong and then just changes her mine when Sang Yan pop up? like, what was the use for this? idk unless I missed something...

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This one's a gem

I wasn’t expecting such a smart–and genuinely funny--drama from China in 2025. But FIRST FROST is not for everyone. If you want an action-packed thriller, look elsewhere. It’s a slow-moving character study of two imperfect, vulnerable human beings who are trying to find a way to connect, in spite of a lot of misunderstandings and obstacles.

The writing, editing, and acting in this drama are first rate. But most of the credit goes to Bai Jing Ting, who brilliantly embodies the romantically obsessed, insecure, brutally honest ML, a devilishly handsome bad boy, a little too smug for my taste (he criticizes her kissing!), although he’s basically a good guy. The target of his affection is the disengaged, oblivious FL who, episode after episode, doesn’t seem to notice the efforts he’s making. She’s convincing too. But later in the drama, I stopped having sympathy for her when she abandoned her cat. Not OK.

The two secondary characters were fun and enjoyable to watch. Totally different in personality and style from the main duo, they were both likable. Yes, these two had their hang ups. But they weren’t so self-involved, and they even had time for friends and family.

I’m glad somebody did. The main couple only had eyes for each other.

Unfortunately in the last five or six episodes (rife with product placements) this drama began to drag. If not for that, The FIRST FROST would have gotten one of my rarely bestowed ratings of ten-stars. The many unnecessary flashbacks went over and over and OVER the same events in the past and made me want to scream. And then there was way too much schmaltzy sentimentalizing at the end. Still, by and large, a real winner.

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