We Are All Trying Here

For All The Reviews Where I Criticized the Writing

If you've ever criticized a Kdrama saying the writing was bad....well here is a drama showing you the torturous lives of these writers. Whether its being pressured to just write it so its finished, working through extreme writer's block, taking the blame from everyone (but especially the actors) for bad reviews, trying to be creative when you have to work to pay the bills.......this drama gives an inside view of the lives of entertainment writers in the movie and TV biz and they are by no means glamorous.

I couldn't help but feel a little guilty (how many reviews have I written that stated "just couldn't finish it, the writing was that bad"?)) as I saw the agony these tortured souls go through in doing their craft. I wondered if Park Hae Young , frustrated at criticisms on Kdrama writing, decided to show the viewers the reality of being a writer in the Korean entertainment industry. Is she guilt tripping us??

Whether my musings are true or not, the story is so much more. This Kdrama does not fit any of the usual Kdrama tropes, nor does it have any Kdrama memes. It stands apart from the genre as it is a realistic take on the ups, the downs, the successes, the failures, the excitement, the sadness, and even the very ordinary-ness of being an entertainment writer.

What I liked about it the most is how real the characters were, how easy it was to relate to them, and how real the storylines were. A lot of the drama was about attaining and/or maintaining success. Success is subjective because even a successful person by society standards can, in reality, be oh so miserable in their personal lives. Success can be fleeting, can be slow, can seem to never happen even if someone is working their butt off. Success isn't fair. It can happen to one person right out of the gate, while another works and works without anything to show. The entertainment industry can be cruel. You can work hard on something that another person takes credit for. You can constantly come under fire doing your job well because it doesn't fit your supervisor's narrative. This drama does not sugar-coat the industry, but gives a relatable look at people traversing a not-so-friendly professional world in pursuit of career success.

When all is said and done, the story is about perseverance in the face of failure, always stay true to yourself, and know that relationships with family and friends are the most important even if you aren't always getting along. This is absolutely one of the best Kdramas I've seen. Definitely my #1 pick for 2026 so far.

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Everyone is going through something, it's okay to feel.

I rarely write reviews for any media I consume, but watching this drama pushed me to write one. Firstly, I would like to give a huge bow to the writers. What a beautifully done piece. It made me feel so many things. The director and actors seemed to perfectly understand what the project was and what it was meant to convey. I'm personally going through a lot right now, and watching this drama made me sit with all the emotions I was feeling and work through them along with the characters. The struggle depicted in this drama is so relatable; it hits very close to home. I do not know how to write a proper review, but I would like to urge everyone who comes across this drama to give it a watch. You won't be disheartened and will take away something or the other from the story.

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Some stories leave you with thoughts. This one left me still searching for language.

I usually write reviews when I feel compelled to. Not because I have watched something good, but because I have encountered something that leaves a lasting imprint through a performance, a story, a visual language, or an emotional experience that continues to linger after the credits roll.

This series captivated me, yet it has proven remarkably difficult to write about. Not because there is nothing to say, every time I try to define what exactly touched me, the words seem to flatten something that felt infinitely more complex.

First, thank you to the creators for giving us something original, willing to challenge its audience. In an industry increasingly reliant on recycling familiar concepts, proven formulas, and recognizable tropes, this series feels refreshing. And perhaps that is where my difficulty begins.

Is it a love story? Certainly. Yet calling it a love story feels insufficient, as though it reduces something much larger. Is it a journey of self-discovery, healing, and reflection? Also yes. Yet even that description feels strangely shallow. The emotional landscape of this series is vast and layered, so any attempt to summarize it risks diminishing it.

Perhaps the series itself provides the answer. At one point, the protagonists reflect on whether love can be displayed as a singular emotion, suggesting instead that it is a construct composed of emotions, experiences, perceptions, and contradictions. In many ways, the series functions similarly. It feels less like a story that communicates a message and more like a construct designed to evoke something profoundly personal.

The story is generally described as one of struggle, and the two protagonists appear to embody that struggle. Yet that never sat quite right with me. As the narrative unfolds, it becomes clear that everyone around them is struggling. What distinguishes Hwang Dong Man and Byeon Eun A is not the severity of their suffering, but their relationship to it. Paradoxically, this same vulnerability grants them a kind of freedom that many other characters never achieve.

Both seem less constrained by social expectations and less dependent on being accepted, validated, or understood by others. Their struggles run so deep that they manifest physically and therefore become impossible to hide, creating an emotional detachment that is often painful to witness. For that reason, I did not see them as tragic heroes. The series contains so much subtext that reducing its characters to conventional archetypes feels almost profane. Beneath every conversation lies another conversation. Beneath every conflict lies another wound. Perhaps that is why the moments that remain with me most strongly are not the dramatic plot points, but the quieter emotional expressions.

I have to commend the writers for the intoxicating language they gave Hwang Dong Man. His quiet monologues of love for Byeon Eun A are some of the most beautiful moments in the series. They are unconventional, almost nonsensical at times, yet deeply sincere. Through ordinary objects, fleeting observations, and seemingly insignificant details, he transforms everyday life into symbols of connection and affection.

Equally moving is Byeon Eun A's recognition of Dong Man's empathy and sincerity. She sees something precious in him that others overlook or dismiss. Her appreciation of his compassion feels less like romantic admiration and more like an acknowledgment of something fundamentally necessary in the world. Their relationship transcends conventional romance and becomes an exploration of transformative love itself, love as understanding, acceptance, and recognition.

And finally, a humble declaration of love for Koo Kyo Hwan's art. He achieves far more than simply portraying a character. He creates an entire emotional ecosystem, capturing the multifaceted universe of a deeply complex personality. As someone who tends to engage with performances through empathy, I found myself absorbed by every nuance of the character's emotional landscape. Every subtle shift, every contradiction, every unspoken emotion felt tangible. It is precisely here that words fail me most.

The closest comparison I can offer is that of a child staring into a snow globe that has just been shaken. At first, everything appears chaotic, beautiful fragments swirling in every direction. Yet the longer you watch, the more you realize that every piece belongs exactly where it is. The chaos possesses its own logic, its own significance, its own reason for existing.

That is how his performance felt to me.

In the end, these elements became so impactful that the storyline itself occasionally felt secondary. Not because the narrative lacks value, but because it succeeds in what I believe it ultimately sets out to do: provide a thread strong enough to carry an emotional experience. And what remains is a story filled with compassion, hope, longing, vulnerability, and the quiet reassurance that every person is fighting a battle against their own sense of inadequacy.

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K-drama worth watching

Never forget your dreams, even if nobody believes in you. Don’t give up. It doesn't matter if you spend 20 years waiting—in the end, you will always make it.

​Something Hwang Dong Man’s brother said:
​"Every story is a cry that says 'I exist.' I exist in the midst of this pain, I exist in the midst of this sadness, I exist in the midst of this misery, I exist in the midst of this laughter. We will live for a hundred years, just a hundred years, and then we will be gone. Does that which is disappearing truly exist? To dispel those doubts, we frantically write stories. If you need to write new stories while you are alive, at least make them funny."

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Best Drama

Some dramas entertain you for a moment, but some stay with you long after they end. “We’re All Trying Here” is one of those dramas.

No wonder I loved this drama — it’s written by the same writer behind My Mister & My Liberation Notes.

It feels quiet and simple on the surface, yet emotionally heavy underneath. The kind of drama that understands loneliness, exhaustion, and the feeling of trying your best while life keeps testing you.

I love how realistic the characters are — imperfect, tired, lost, yet still somehow moving forward. No unnecessary exaggeration, just raw emotions and human struggles that feel painfully real.

Every episode felt comforting and heartbreaking at the same time. Like a reminder that everyone is quietly fighting their own battles 🤍

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If you want to empathise with people around you, JUST WATCH IT

After so long, i get to watch a kdrama like this, full of emotions and the true representation of human vulnerability. This drama also motivated me to try my best in my particular field. After "When life gives you tangerines", this drama brought out my emotions. I also wondered why this drama didn't get the global popularity it truly deserved like "Perfect Crown". The story, overall plot, and the acting was way too realistic. Character "Hwang Do Man" was my favourite, the actor Koo Kyo Hwan nailed it, other than him, i liked the character of Byeon Eun A, and also Park Gyeong Se, the true representation of "don't judge a book by it's cover", at start i didn't liked him but as the story progressed i started empathising with him, actually not with him solely, but i started empathise with every character involved in this story. Also one character is underrated "Lee Jun Hwan", the friend of Hwang Dong Man who didn't leave him and judged him like others, he stayed with him from the start to end, i liked this quality of his character. Seeing Park Hae Joon as Hwang Jin Man, after "When Life Gives You Tangerines" with him given a deep character in this drama truly made my mood.

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What an Acting From Koo Kyo Hwan and Go Youn Jung !

This Drama Was Beautiful !

I watched it while it was airing and I Really Enjoyed My Time Watching It And waiting for each episodes to come out and The Story And The Ending Of Each Character Was Beautifully Written and Performed too .

I would not say its not a romance but it is different , the connection between two main characters is about helping and healing each other in the life full of problems and trauma .

I gave it a 10 but there was room for more story like the result of the Park Gyeong Se last work or some characters that have ended up looking just bad like Byeon Eun A's Mother And her Ex but its not that much of a big deal .

At The End Its Definitely Worthy Of Your Time So Do Not Hesitate To Watch This Masterpiece .

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Life in the most raw form

This drama by far is the best thing I've watched in a while, I was attached to the story and to my screen not wanting to skip a second of it.
It felt like reading a very good novel, you could easily be immersed in it and easily relate to the characters, You like each one of them yet you dislike them all simply because they are humans just like us and you'll definitely find a moment that it'll like it's exactly written for you.
The first two episodes were fine but then came episode 3 and boom it was majestic, Hwang Jin Man the moment you find out who he is was my first awaking in this drama, then each story and each line continued to touch the deepest spot in my soul, I would find myself just tearing up randomly.
It is raw and touching, it's life with all it's struggles from family to work to friendship to ambitions till you go to love and peace.
It was amazing watching this from a directors lens when it's talking about directors and writers and there work environment, it shows you how much the director is important in a work for it to be great.

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What is your goal in life?

This is an exceptionally human drama, and I loved it from beginning to end. What impressed me most was how deeply developed the characters were by the end! You can actually feel the momentum of their growth as the story progresses, and that’s something surprisingly rare. Every character changes, struggles, and learns, and those transformations feel completely earned.

At its core, the drama is about friendship, ambition, life goals, and the dreams we spend years chasing. Dong-man is such a profoundly human character. He is flawed, desperate, insecure, and often lost, but that is exactly what makes him so relatable. He carries a deep inferiority complex and constantly wants to be seen as an equal to those around him. In his own unorthodox way, he keeps trying to prove his worth, even when his methods are questionable. You can feel how desperately he wants to make a movie and prove himself. Through his journey, the drama explores a truth many people experience: we often believe that achieving a certain goal will finally make us happy, only to discover that reality is more complicated. The accomplishment feels good, but it is not exactly what we imagined. What matters most is the person we become in the process. By the end, Dong-man has truly found himself and finally overcomes many of the insecurities that have defined him for so long.

One of my favorite aspects of the drama was Dong-man’s relationship with Park Yeong-sae. Their friendship feels painfully real. They were best friends when they stood on equal ground, but once one of them became successful while the other was seen as a failure, everything changed. They became competitors as much as friends. They judged each other, compared themselves constantly, and gradually lost parts of the people they used to be. It is an uncomfortable but honest portrayal of how relationships can be affected by success, failure, and insecurity.

His relationship with Euna is also worth mentioning. He genuinely cares about her, relates to her in many ways, and often wants to be her protector. Euna carries her own trauma surrounding abandonment, and it is heartbreaking to watch how much she struggles with her sense of self. Despite her pain, she remains a voice of kindness and empathy. She instinctively understands the feelings of others, even though she has spent much of her life cutting through people’s stories and emotions with harsh honesty—a trait that was even considered a talent in her profession.

As the drama progresses, she becomes increasingly aware of how deeply words can wound others, and there is a visible discomfort whenever she is forced to do that again. At the same time, she struggles to understand her own emotions. She is deeply sensitive and easily hurt by criticism, rejection, and the inhumanity she encounters in others. Her journey is one of self-discovery and emotional awareness. By the end of the drama, her growth is remarkable: she is finally able to recognize, understand, and name her feelings instead of expressing them only through physical symptoms. Her character development is subtle, realistic, and incredibly moving.

The drama understands that life is messy. We all have goals. We all carry trauma. We compare ourselves to others, even when we know we shouldn’t. We are hurt by people’s words, and yet we keep trying. Every character in this story is fighting for something, and every struggle feels meaningful.

The relationship between Dong-man and his older brother was particularly moving. The two brothers are almost opposites. While Dong-man still clings to dreams and possibilities, his brother is focused entirely on survival. His desperation is heartbreaking. He works endlessly just to fill the gaps in his life and keep going. He doesn’t live to enjoy life anymore; he lives simply to endure it. Their contrast feels very true to the experience of many siblings. The older one often carries burdens that are different from those of the younger one, but both are trying in their own way. That simple act of continuing to try becomes one of the drama’s most powerful themes.

If I were rating purely based on rewatch value, I would probably give it a 5/10. Not because it isn’t excellent, but because it is such a heavy and emotionally exhausting watch. You can feel the characters’ desperation, disappointment, and hopes as if they were your own. It activates your empathy in a way few dramas manage to do. I genuinely don’t know if I’ll be able to rewatch it, because it hurts in a way that feels almost too real. 🥲

Ultimately, this is a drama about people trying their best despite failure, disappointment, and uncertainty. It is deeply human, deeply compassionate, and unforgettable. I don’t know if I’ll ever rewatch it, but I know I won’t forget it. Few dramas have made me empathize so deeply with every character’s struggles, failures, and hopes. It hurt, but in the best possible way.

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Emotionally satisfying

This is story where you finish each stage of it feeling satisfied , satisfied with how the characters behave, feel, converse, fight, try hard, etc

Tho it’s sad and makes you teary sometimes but it comes with satisfaction which is something genius for a writer to do
this is by far the writer best work in terms of storytelling, content, characters depth

not too much gloomy and not too rom comy ..,
and choosing the entertainment industry as the profession of the characters is what sets it apart tbh
because it is a place where you can dive into and see the many faces of people
the try harder, the jealous , the hard worker, the talented, the hypocritical etc


we want more stories that try to expose human nature and its difficulties

The story should have been at least 16 episodes tbh but because I am totally immersed by it I give it a 10

“too good”

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