Simi_Tutu:
 is Daddy Penguin going on the BINGO  card?  😂😂😂

BAHAHAHAHAHAHA 🤣

 octopus_joy:
I get impatient sometimes because my viewing list is so long - also I have a bad habit of starting a new drama at the drop of a hat, so then I look up and I'm in the middle of 10 different shows, oops. 😅
No because I'm the exact same... I only discovered asian dramas in 2022 and it always feels like I'm trying to catch up with the  veteran watchers xD It doesn't help that I have awful adhd AND I'm a mood watcher.

But oh well, I try not to look at my 700+ ptw list and just take it one drama at a time :) 
 octopus_joy:
I wish the idea of a woman being more powerful than a man wasn't automatically funny

this, this, THIS!!!

 octopus_joy:
same when it's villainous/toxic

God, tell me about it... 

For this + RR, I'd recommend: Dong Lan Xue (antihero couple, vvv RR) & The Legend of Zhuohua (spoiler) Well-written female villain and her ride-or-die BF

 octopus_joy:
If you have any recommendations

I'll do you one better, I have a list (because of course I do) xD Non-comedy RR (I'm so sad I could only find 17 titles out of like the 120 that I watched... like, cmon T_T The ones that were more serious still joked a lot about the RR aspect so like bruv)

Hilariously enough some of my favourite titles are in this list. 

Secrets of the Shadow Sect, Zhang Gong Zhu Zai Shang, and Dong Lan Xue are very solid mini watches with thorough RR. Secret of Three Kingdoms is my favourite but it's also historical RR so there'll still be traditional elements as well (heavy on the politics but romance still played a big part). 

Regardless, I linked my main RR list with notes so if any tickle your fancy, do check <3

Hope you find something you like and if you have reccs, I'm all ears as well! 

 octopus_joy:
"what if a TON of men ALL swept me off my feet!!" - which is a totally legit fantasy but not really RR at all 😂

Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuupppp, it's actually surprisingly hard to find RR in this trope... My disappointment with reverse harem stories never quite ended. I now avoid them as much as harem stories T_T 

 Arclei:
BAHAHA

 Better yet, Penguin Daddy sounds more appealing  🤣 or Tight Bottoms because excuse me 🤭 no man should look THIS good in a suit.🤧

 Arclei:
I'm a mood watcher

I don't know if I've heard this phrase before, but does it mean you need the EXACT RIGHT drama for the mood that you're in right now? Because oh BOY, is that me. Another big problem for me is that I'll anxiety-pause at tense moments, and then maybe go find something else to watch to calm down, except basically all shows have SOME tense moments, so the next thing you know I have like twelve shows that are all paused directly at the most fraught/embarrassing/scary point. 🤦‍♀️

But thank you VERY much for the non-comedy list and specific recs! I had seen your main RR list but not that one. Is it weird that even though I've just complained so much about not finishing shows and having too much to watch...I still get so excited to add new stuff? I even have a big spreadsheet because MDL's watchlist was inadequate for my indexing needs, lol

 Arclei:
if you have reccs, I'm all ears as well

I will just double down on The Glory, I suppose - although, as you probably already know, the romance is just a teeny tiny piece of the show, it's mostly revenge stuff (which is also great, though really harrowing and many TWs). I also got recced Perfect Marriage Revenge when talking about The Glory, and I've been watching that and liking it, and it does have some RR elements - kind of a sworn loyalty/service thing from him to her - BUT I found specifically the sex scene really frustrating from both an RR and a consent perspective, and I had to take a break for a while after that. I guess I could also mention Meet Yourself, for a serious high-quality romance drama with a het dynamic that I actually liked? but it's not super RR, it's just like, what if he really respected her and listened to her even when she called him out on being overbearing, and otherwise it's just a really fantastic show. Oh also, I was curious about Love Scout so I asked in the comments if the romance itself had role reversal elements, as well as just their regular lives, and someone replied and said it does, which was very nice to hear!

 Simi_Tutu:

 Better yet, Penguin Daddy sounds more appealing  🤣 or Tight Bottoms because excuse me 🤭 no man should look THIS good in a suit.🤧

and you DARE make the image so tiny... shame on you XD 

 Arclei:
you DARE make the image so tiny

I fixed it... 😎

 octopus_joy:
I don't know if I've heard this phrase before, but does it mean you need the EXACT RIGHT drama for the mood that you're in right now? Because oh BOY, is that me

Yuuuuup, at least that's the definition I know xD I can push through with certain dramas but it's difficult and not as pleasant as mood-watching 

 octopus_joy:
Another big problem for me is that I'll anxiety-pause at tense moments

Ohhhhhhh, that really sucks T_T I only do this with like embarrassing moments. Doom scroll a min or two and I'm good again but it's rough

 octopus_joy:
But thank you VERY much for the non-comedy list and specific recs!

You're very welcome! Hope you find something you enjoy and be sure to let us know over here :3

 octopus_joy:
I still get so excited to add new stuff?

Naaahhhh, I completely get you, I'm the very very same xD The dopamine hit I get from finding something that fits my niche interests is UNRIVALED 

 octopus_joy:
I even have a big spreadsheet because MDL's watchlist was inadequate for my indexing needs, lol

Omg, I'm kinda curious to see this 👀

 octopus_joy:
The Glory

It's on my high priority list now. Once I'm craving heavy angst imma start this one and y'all won't hear the end of it, prolly >:) 

 octopus_joy:
Perfect Marriage Revenge

hooohhh??? That's unexpected- never heard of this one for RR 

 octopus_joy:
BUT I found specifically

That... sounds concerning... But I would be lying if I said I wasn't curious... 

 octopus_joy:
what if he really respected her and listened to her even when she called him out

Sounds pretty neat ^^

 octopus_joy:
I was curious about Love Scout

Oh, over here we love Love Scout XD I'll let those who watched it take it from here, ahahaha


 Simi_Tutu:
I fixed it... 😎

Thank you <333 That sure is a nice image xD

 unbeliebubble:
I am watching some dramas. I just stumbled on this one : "Revenge of a royal princess"

I think I have this one on my PTW I liked that the ML is a slave And not the FL 

 Arclei:
💗

I'm participating in the Japanese watch challenge and was wondering if you have any recommendations that contain RR tags.  PS I've been working on this for a week, and I just realized that you are the creator of the challenge this year LOL 

 Simi_Tutu:

I think I have this one on my PTW I liked that the ML is a slave And not the FL 

Yes, it really reminded me of "Zhang Gong Zhu Zai Shang", but the execution is not as good.  This is where I see the value of a 2 mn drama in comparison to other drama with more budget but poorly executed. 

However I was happy to watch a story like this one. The slave was cute. If "Revenge of Royal Princess"  had more budget, It would feature better stunts, camera work. This would make a huge difference. That being said, it hooked me and I wanted to know the rest of the story. So that's good.

 unbeliebubble:
 This is where I see the value of a 2 mn drama

Well, I learned something every day. I didn't know what 2 mn had to look it up.

 unbeliebubble:
"Revenge of Royal Princess"

I'll interpret your comment as a recommendation. I'll add it to my RR Miniseries list. Moving forward, I want to include all the mini-series the RR members recommend, as there have been quite a few, and I want to ensure I remember them all.

 Simi_Tutu:

I'm participating in the Japanese watch challenge and was wondering if you have any recommendations that contain RR tags.  PS I've been working on this for a week, and I just realized that you are the creator of the challenge this year LOL 

Kekkon Yoteibi FL is sassy ans ML is shy

Hanazakari no Kimitachi e Girl cross-dress in Male attire to infiltrate a school for boys.

Kanojo, Okarishimasu ( rent a girlfriend) FL is a Strong and out spoken ML is shy. 

I hope this helps.

 Simi_Tutu:
Well, I learned something every day. I didn't know what 2 mn had to look it up.

Happy to help. Yes "Zhang Gong Zhu Zai Shang" and "Dong Lan Xue" are 2 mn dramas. Those format are usually very low budget and poorly executed. Exept for those two. I guess there are some others that are good.

I also save kept the recommendation in a list. LIke you said It would be hard to remember all of them.

 HotGeGesWife:

Yes  

Do We Have A New Member? o.O? 

 HotGeGesWife:

Yes  

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