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"... i d blame the screenwriters who keep shoving this lgbtq propaganda down our throat"

The "straight" agenda took up all the screen time and has been shoved down everyone's throats for decades. A little gay won't bite

"... i m not promoting hate with my speech if that s what u r so concerned about"
"... i dont know if u r aware but i called that character a faggot because my intention was to insult him"

The F-slur has a history of promoting discrimination. That's what you've been using to insult gay people. You're not cool or edgy. You're pathetic, and your words contribute to the climate of fear that pressures gay people to hide their identities

"People were endangered because his brain is in his groin"

If "straight" identifying people spent as much time zipping up their pants and closing their legs as they did blaming gay people for the problems of their societies, we'd have fewer wars over women or land, broken families, and neglected children

Stop thinking with your private parts/multiplying and we'll have world peace in a generation or two. Peace and quiet

Humans, with their insatiable appetite for resources and disregard for the environment or other species, should come to an end. When they do, the Earth will breathe a sigh of relief!

"The only reason it's thought of as easy and a waste of good talent is basically misogyny"

Misogyny plays a role, I'm not disagreeing with that, but it's not the only factor. Genre preferences and individual attitudes towards relationships contribute to how the "romance" genre is perceived

It's not out of misogyny that I lean towards non-romantic genres. I appreciate romance involving same-sex couples, for example, and find joy in watching women experience happiness with one another

"... people always consider romance a shallow and less serious genre only bc the target audience snd creators are mostly women"

Then are you not taking action, mystery thrillers seriously because the creators and target audience are mostly men?

Other genres aren't less emotionally demanding. In action films, actors need a great deal of skill and emotional range to depict fear, anger, determination, and adrenaline. In mystery films, actors need to convey a sense of mystery, suspicion, and intrigue without giving away too much

"I've watched silce of life romance and even romcoms that have done 10 times a better job ..."

My experience has been the opposite. Action, mystery thrillers are the ones delivering powerful messages about society, morality, and the human condition, exposing corruption in government or law enforcement agencies, the fragility of life, the negative or positive consequences of war, or the blurred lines between good and evil

That's creepy

I’m well acquainted with "Fight the New Drug." They do an excellent job of bringing the dangers of "porn" addiction to the forefront of the public consciousness

"Porn" isn't the innocent or harmless hobby it's made out to be. It's a destructive force that threatens to distort our perceptions of gender roles, sexuality, and relationships. It reduces people to disposable flesh and blood puppets, sexism to scripts, and human-human connection to a perfunctory, mechanical act

It's understandable why someone would be angry or upset about this destructive force being publicly displayed and shared

Distributing "porn" is a criminal offense in South Korea. Did he commit a crime? Maybe, maybe not. The legality of his actions aren't at the forefront of the issue, the (im)morality of them is. Rape "porn," to some of us, crosses a line into immorality

I won't shame your decision to continue supporting him. Similarly, I ask that you refrain from shaming those who've decided to stop supporting him

@RobertBobert's understanding of "violence" is incomplete

"Violence" is depicted as desirable in "porn," and undesirable but sometimes necessary to counteract certain forms of "violence" in action, horror, or thriller

The first step in moral discussions about media consumption is to address and halt the circulation of rape "porn." It's the most egregious offender of all

I'm thinking of adding a few more items, like male curfew, men-only/women-only zones, and a mandatory "Man-Catcher 2000" device for every woman. It's a giant butterfly net that instead of catching butterflies catches the men getting too close. Whatever it takes to keep other women safe and protected

"Lots of women love their rape fetishes"

Lots of women don't. Intelligent women are able to distinguish reality from fantasy, they are also able to identify patterns in media that normalize non-consensual/unhealthy acts, regardless of how “hot” the fictional millionaires, billionaires, or CEOs might be

"... in a safe environment"

Rape is never safe

"What we consume is not necessarily what we want in our everyday lives"

Consumption isn't a passive activity, it influences attitudes and behaviors

"Look up bodice ripper"

I prefer to rip bodices out of passion, not aggression. Garments should stay intact unless "consent" says otherwise

The kind of "porn" you're referring to as "normal" is rapey and should be illegal

I'm not laughing, why are you generalizing?

I wish those laughing would "get in huge trouble"

Anyone who finds the idea of women getting "raped to death" funny belongs in a comedy court room with a life sentence for crimes against humor

Staying within the bounds of the law shouldn't be the benchmark for acceptable or moral behavior. Would you laugh it off if I shared photos or drawings of you getting a pie smashed in your face? Because it might or might not be illegal, depending on the country?

Do me a favor and flush the rape "porn" you call comedy gold down the toilet with the rest of your problematic baggage. Life's too short (or long) to entertain your shit

While you're counting up the number of women watching "porn," don't forget to count the number of women being mistreated and assaulted by men

Most rapists are men, most "porn" addicts are men, and the "porn" industry? Run by men, for men. I'd worry about men first

"Rape is the most watched category in porn, so by your logic, all men should should be canceled, right? LOL"

I'm all for women realizing that men are walking embodiments of their worst nightmares and going their own way

"... and now he is "promoting rape". Things snowballed more ..."

I understand, it'd be unwise to conflate our criticism of the content this actor shared with unfounded accusations of other forms of misconduct

Unfounded accusations as grave as rape would take seconds to spiral out of control and tarnish one's reputation, jeopardize their livelihood, and inflict lasting emotional distress. They should be made if and only if sufficient and corroborative evidence exists to support the claims

"... people jump on the one less famous"

Public figures who haven't reached the pinnacle of fame and fortune are easy targets for disproportionate levels of criticism. They lack the clout and influence to defend themselves against negative attention

I try to avoid the selective application of criticism based on preferences or biases. Harmful actions are harmful, regardless of who performs them

"... or a superficial understanding of what is truly valuable"

That's an important point to consider. With the ever-increasing prevalence of social media and celebrity/influencer culture, the focus has shifted from genuine human connection and personal growth towards materialism, external appearance, perceived social status, and instant artificial validation. Women are now more inclined to sell themselves, meaning to monetize their body and sexuality to achieve that instant validation

"I would like for people to listen and comunicate and be balanced/ have common sense, things would be better"

I can tell from the responses you provided to my comments that you approach issues with a calm demeanor and consider multiple perspectives. Your approach is truly commendable

"... people should be able to distinguish, I expect that from people"

In an ideal world, they'd be equipped with the capacity to discriminate between fact and fiction. That's not the world we live in. The average brain isn't conducive to the discernment. Most people lose themselves in the media they consume, and the result is a hazardous cognitive state easily influenced by false information

"... I mean the original source it's a battle royal, they kill eachother for money, they are violent and evil, the AV version should not be any better"

The "violence" in the source material was intended to evoke negative emotional responses of suspense, shock, and fear. The "rape porn" in question did the opposite and sexualized the "violence" for the purpose of arousal

The goal of "porn" is to arouse the viewer. Its depictions of "violence" against women as something to desire or pursue are more damaging than the depictions of "violence" in other genres (horror, thriller, mystery, action) where "violence" is depicted as something to be feared, avoided, or overcome

"It's not training people to see women that way because these people do have famlies mothers, their parent should parent, as long as their educated they should be able to make the diffrence"

At best, the women in their lives would be exceptions to the rule and not examples of how they treat women in general or other women outside of their immediate social circle

Education and parenting aren't enough to counteract the negative effects of media. Media itself should take responsibility for the messages it promotes

"... because women (even celebrities, in the west) have vulgar and indicent content (for money), under the excuse of sexual expresion and empowering women"

Women aren't immune to internalizing misogyny

The shallow and self-defeating "feminism" of liberal ideology that promotes "sex work" indoctrinates women into becoming collaborators in their own debasement and humiliation. It reduces women to passive vessels at the disposal of men's whims

I subscribe to a feminism that disavows the legitimization of "sex work." Ergo, I agree with your comment that men's and women's misogynistic actions should be analyzed and interrogated with fairness and impartiality