Dude thought it was funny and it is.... but women will never understand
Rape is rape. Art has power, and glorified depictions of rape, fictional or real, trivialize a horrific act that causes immeasurable harm to survivors, their families, and society at large
The survivors being fictional and "not real" doesn't change that the effects on the minds and hearts of the consumers of these images are real. The consumers aren't "having harmless fun." They are training their minds to see women as playthings. The more they consume, the more their perception of women becomes distorted
The preferred content people consume in the privacy of their own homes might not be appropriate for public dissemination. If the inappropriate content encroaches on shared spaces and generates discomfort, I will speak up to defend the rights of those adversely affected
Also if you think you spotted a misogynist because of this scandal (as if other people don't watch porn/aren't…
For those of us with clear eyes and a firm grip on reality, we understand that misogyny is everywhere. It's predictable, but still disappointing to have it confirmed over and over again
Canceling him over this little thing is so dumb, like, actual criminals are getting praises rn LOL
It's not dumb, I'd say it's unavoidable
Given the skeletons celebrities have been hiding, it was a matter of time before we find out what immoral or illegal activity they've been up to when the cameras weren't rolling
Not every person watches porn, or considers it normal.
Blocking me is the sign of a fragile ego, you're projecting your narcissism and insecurity onto me. Unlike you, I don't need to block out dissenting voices to feel secure in my views. My stance is solid, and I'm not afraid to engage in debate
Not every person watches porn, or considers it normal.
Getting an upvote is playing dirty, and defending an exploitative industry isn't? Your moral compass is irreparably damaged, and you're beyond help. No amount of logic, reason, or sympathy will teach you what you're missing
You grew up in the 90s? Congratulations, you grew up in the era of dial-up Internet and VCRs. "Porn" wasn't accessible on every device. Times have changed, and so has the effect of "porn" on society
There's a difference between healthy "sexual" expression and unhealthy "sexual" expression (e.g. an industry that profits off the degradation of women's bodies). Your pro-sexuality propaganda has blinded you from seeing the difference
why the actor apologizes?korean aren't religious country anyway aren't fully traditional country anywayfeel free…
"kdramas always trespass the boundaries and norm"
Trespassing boundaries/norms? They're tripping over them and landing flat on their faces!
Men raping women and society making light of rape in the name of entertainment are as normal as the grass being green. If anything, "rape porn" reaffirms existing norms and perpetuates violence against women
Do u even use instagram? Its not a thing u can do by accident it's a multi step process
People are downplaying the abuses taking place in the "porn" industry
The performers, most of whom are women, are drugged into states of artificial arousal and emotionally manipulated into performing acts that normally violate a person's boundaries and standards of propriety
The scenes might be staged, but the acts are real, as are their repercussions, both immediate and long-lasting
Probably wanted to post it for "close friends" and didn't click right..oof. Seems like a very obvious mistake,…
It's difficult to believe that the dissemination of this material was accidental. The excuse that it was meant to be shared privately with his "friends" doesn't make the material less immoral or offensive
"Imagine coming across a porn parody image of your workplace, most if not all people would forward either the image itself or a link to it just for 'shock value' or because they think it's funny"
The cultural normalization of misogyny has reached a point where people find humor in images of women being "raped to death" and share them with their co-workers. Yet we are demonized for saying, "that's not okay?"
Rape is no laughing matter. If you're free to laugh at women being raped, I'm free to laugh at you being insensitive fools
We’re not overreacting or being hasty with our judgment. We think poorly of others, because they give us no reason to think highly of them
Ask yourselves why you're okay with depraved, misogynistic "humor" in any context. It's your action that needs adjusting, not our reaction to it
You’re all defending "porn" like it’s the holy grail of entertainment. Newsflash: it’s not
"Porn" is almost always a pleasure palace for men and a dungeon for women, who bear the brunt of its gender inequalities. It’s not "misandry," "xenophobia," or "nazism" to take issue with that. It’s basic decency
If only he had accidently posted gay porn instead, he would've been hailed a hero.
Society begs men to conquer, violate, and assert their dominance over women's bodies. It’s hardly the stuff of legends to follow that script
Two men or two women finding pleasure in each other's company flips the script and makes society uncomfortable. It's a heroic act, a noble pursuit for the brave at heart
The survivors being fictional and "not real" doesn't change that the effects on the minds and hearts of the consumers of these images are real. The consumers aren't "having harmless fun." They are training their minds to see women as playthings. The more they consume, the more their perception of women becomes distorted
The preferred content people consume in the privacy of their own homes might not be appropriate for public dissemination. If the inappropriate content encroaches on shared spaces and generates discomfort, I will speak up to defend the rights of those adversely affected
Given the skeletons celebrities have been hiding, it was a matter of time before we find out what immoral or illegal activity they've been up to when the cameras weren't rolling
There’s something off about them
To be specific, "straight" identifying men run the "porn" industry. They call the shots, set the standards, and dictate the narrative for women
There's a difference between healthy "sexual" expression and unhealthy "sexual" expression (e.g. an industry that profits off the degradation of women's bodies). Your pro-sexuality propaganda has blinded you from seeing the difference
Trespassing boundaries/norms? They're tripping over them and landing flat on their faces!
Men raping women and society making light of rape in the name of entertainment are as normal as the grass being green. If anything, "rape porn" reaffirms existing norms and perpetuates violence against women
The performers, most of whom are women, are drugged into states of artificial arousal and emotionally manipulated into performing acts that normally violate a person's boundaries and standards of propriety
The scenes might be staged, but the acts are real, as are their repercussions, both immediate and long-lasting
The cultural normalization of misogyny has reached a point where people find humor in images of women being "raped to death" and share them with their co-workers. Yet we are demonized for saying, "that's not okay?"
Rape is no laughing matter. If you're free to laugh at women being raped, I'm free to laugh at you being insensitive fools
We’re not overreacting or being hasty with our judgment. We think poorly of others, because they give us no reason to think highly of them
Ask yourselves why you're okay with depraved, misogynistic "humor" in any context. It's your action that needs adjusting, not our reaction to it
You’re all defending "porn" like it’s the holy grail of entertainment. Newsflash: it’s not
"Porn" is almost always a pleasure palace for men and a dungeon for women, who bear the brunt of its gender inequalities. It’s not "misandry," "xenophobia," or "nazism" to take issue with that. It’s basic decency
Two men or two women finding pleasure in each other's company flips the script and makes society uncomfortable. It's a heroic act, a noble pursuit for the brave at heart