So looks are all that matter? I thought the L in BL stood for "love" but there's been none of that in this series.
Those who see love through rose-colored glasses are more susceptible to staying in unhealthy or abusive relationships. To them, "love is pure." They're unwilling to acknowledge the negative parts of love or their partner's behavior
Recognizing that love can be obsessive, codependent, or destructive doesn’t ruin love, it makes people smarter about it
Seonghyeon took advantage of him though... And the only reason he ever cared about Daon in the first place is…
"This drama is one of the most unrealistic things I've ever seen"
It's not the most outlandish thing out there, there are plenty of other dramas (supernatural, fantasy, etc) that stretch the limits of plausibility to the breaking point
Let's assume that the story is unrealistic. It'd be unreasonable to expect the characters to adhere to real-world morals and laws. They're operating within a fictional setting with its own set of rules and expectations
How does anyone still like Seonghyeon after he reciprocated something with a drunk person? Intoxicated people…
"Why does it matter when this account was created?"
Someone, out of nowhere and with a brand-new account, starts "calling out the echo chamber." I'd be suspicious and question, are they looking to stir the pot?
"It's weird that you even looked into that"
It’s weird to check publicly available information, and not weird to barge into a comment section to belittle others and act intellectually superior?
p.s. = i don't get any of you guys who wants daon to end up with anyone other than sunghyeon here.jaemin is a…
A drunk kiss isn't equivalent to assault. The nuances of the situation matter, the level of intoxication, the context, and the relationship between the people. That both of the men have feelings for each other complicates the situation
How does anyone still like Seonghyeon after he reciprocated something with a drunk person? Intoxicated people…
I wouldn't judge something that happens to me or someone I know more harshly. That’d be admitting to emotional bias
A lapse in judgment is a lapse in judgement, whether I’m watching it unfold or living it. We have courts and not just people yelling, "if it were me, I’d be furious!" for that reason
Seonghyeon took advantage of him though... And the only reason he ever cared about Daon in the first place is…
Why should every story fit within a neat, digestible formula for your comfort?
"... since that doesn't make it okay" "It shouldn't have been adapted in the first place, really"
That’s how storytelling works. Fiction reflects reality, sometimes the messy, problematic, or uncomfortable parts of it. If we only adapted things that were 100% moral in your opinion, every adaptation would be about tax-paying citizens following the speed limit
So looks are all that matter? I thought the L in BL stood for "love" but there's been none of that in this series.
The reality of "love" is far from the idealized, fictional version you describe. "Love" is imperfect. It triggers the same brain regions as addiction, and it's not uncommon for people to make bad decisions in its name
Your brain doesn’t care about "purity," it wants more of that sweet, sweet chemical cocktail
Seonghyeon took advantage of him though... And the only reason he ever cared about Daon in the first place is…
"... everything escalated way too fast"
Compressing over 100 chapters into 8 episodes means that the relationship development and plot progression will feel rushed compared to the source material. This isn't an issue specific to this adaptation, it's a common issue with adaptations in general
Seong Hyeon's pursuit wasn't romantic at first. He wanted to compensate Da On for the damage he caused to the watch and rectify the situation
How does anyone still like Seonghyeon after he reciprocated something with a drunk person? Intoxicated people…
That anonymous person went through the trouble of creating an account yesterday to bash these fictional characters. Talk about an interesting use of time and energy
How does anyone still like Seonghyeon after he reciprocated something with a drunk person? Intoxicated people…
How could you not like Seong Hyeon?
Seong Hyeon’s intentions weren't malicious. The situation was less than ideal, with alcohol being involved, and it's not fair to label him as someone who sought to take advantage of Da On. It was a lapse in judgment, not a calculated act of manipulation, and what matters is how he'll handle the situation afterward
p.s. = i don't get any of you guys who wants daon to end up with anyone other than sunghyeon here.jaemin is a…
Drunken kisses are a thing. They happen more often than you'd like to admit. Seong Hyeon knew they're not ideal and showed restraint, stopping himself from going too far, which is more than can be said for other people. He might be a step above the rest of us, a better person than you and I
Seong Hyeon’s intentions weren't malicious, and it's not fair to label him as someone who sought to take advantage of Da On. It was a lapse in judgment, not a calculated act of manipulation, and what matters is how he'll handle the situation afterward
So looks are all that matter? I thought the L in BL stood for "love" but there's been none of that in this series.
Are you faulting people for fancying each other's looks? Attraction is a shallow game of appearance and social standing. Everyone's chasing the high from a pretty face or an impressive résumé. Call everyone out, I’m all for it, but then you won't be a paragon of virtue yourself
Love exists in various forms, it can be nurturing or destructive. The love depicted in this drama leans heavily towards the unhealthy side of the spectrum. We're seeing the complexities and darker facets of human connection
Seonghyeon took advantage of him though... And the only reason he ever cared about Daon in the first place is…
Are you faulting people for fancying each other's looks? Attraction is a shallow game of appearance and social standing. Everyone's chasing the high from a pretty face or an impressive résumé. Call everyone out, I’m all for it, but then you won't be a paragon of virtue yourself
Drunken kisses are a thing. They happen more often than you'd like to admit. Seong Hyeon knew they're not ideal and showed restraint, stopping himself from going too far, which is more than can be said for other people. He might be a step above the rest of us, a better person than you and I
'to encourage the homophobes to watch and acknowledge BL'. Wow, that's a nice POV. I mean, if the production team…
Homophobes aren't known for their level-headed reactions to surprises, are they?
Though well-intentioned and deserving of respect, exposing homophobes to gay stories they weren't expecting will escalate to an eruption of hostility. And amidst the escalating homophobia these days, a better approach is to be upfront about the content, letting homophobes know what they'll get into and giving them the opportunity to sidestep gay stories to spare us from an ugly scene (their ugly personalities)
Just seen the teaser and woah the comments are fierce already :)Any case, I was let down by the teaser not explicitly…
Homophobes get hot and bothered over a side gay character when they’re warned ahead of time in teasers or trailers. Hit them with two main gay characters out of the blue and it'll be career suicide, I tell you. Not featuring the gay couple in the teaser or trailer will attract more homophobic reactions
Well... no one's dropping it. People stated their opinion based off the trailer which is pretty fair since first…
They started off by lashing out with personal attacks and calling us "emotionally stupid." That tells me everything I need to know about their character. They're projecting their inadequacies onto us
"People have admitted that the drama is confusing"
That’s not the same as assuming everyone else who doesn't agree with you is "brainwashed" and in an echo chamber
Others have been discussing the flaws. What are you adding, besides attitude?
Recognizing that love can be obsessive, codependent, or destructive doesn’t ruin love, it makes people smarter about it
It's not the most outlandish thing out there, there are plenty of other dramas (supernatural, fantasy, etc) that stretch the limits of plausibility to the breaking point
Let's assume that the story is unrealistic. It'd be unreasonable to expect the characters to adhere to real-world morals and laws. They're operating within a fictional setting with its own set of rules and expectations
Someone, out of nowhere and with a brand-new account, starts "calling out the echo chamber." I'd be suspicious and question, are they looking to stir the pot?
"It's weird that you even looked into that"
It’s weird to check publicly available information, and not weird to barge into a comment section to belittle others and act intellectually superior?
A lapse in judgment is a lapse in judgement, whether I’m watching it unfold or living it. We have courts and not just people yelling, "if it were me, I’d be furious!" for that reason
"... since that doesn't make it okay"
"It shouldn't have been adapted in the first place, really"
That’s how storytelling works. Fiction reflects reality, sometimes the messy, problematic, or uncomfortable parts of it. If we only adapted things that were 100% moral in your opinion, every adaptation would be about tax-paying citizens following the speed limit
Your brain doesn’t care about "purity," it wants more of that sweet, sweet chemical cocktail
Compressing over 100 chapters into 8 episodes means that the relationship development and plot progression will feel rushed compared to the source material. This isn't an issue specific to this adaptation, it's a common issue with adaptations in general
Seong Hyeon's pursuit wasn't romantic at first. He wanted to compensate Da On for the damage he caused to the watch and rectify the situation
Seong Hyeon’s intentions weren't malicious. The situation was less than ideal, with alcohol being involved, and it's not fair to label him as someone who sought to take advantage of Da On. It was a lapse in judgment, not a calculated act of manipulation, and what matters is how he'll handle the situation afterward
Seong Hyeon’s intentions weren't malicious, and it's not fair to label him as someone who sought to take advantage of Da On. It was a lapse in judgment, not a calculated act of manipulation, and what matters is how he'll handle the situation afterward
Seong Hyeon and Da On deserve each other
Love exists in various forms, it can be nurturing or destructive. The love depicted in this drama leans heavily towards the unhealthy side of the spectrum. We're seeing the complexities and darker facets of human connection
Drunken kisses are a thing. They happen more often than you'd like to admit. Seong Hyeon knew they're not ideal and showed restraint, stopping himself from going too far, which is more than can be said for other people. He might be a step above the rest of us, a better person than you and I
Though well-intentioned and deserving of respect, exposing homophobes to gay stories they weren't expecting will escalate to an eruption of hostility. And amidst the escalating homophobia these days, a better approach is to be upfront about the content, letting homophobes know what they'll get into and giving them the opportunity to sidestep gay stories to spare us from an ugly scene (their ugly personalities)