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Replying to Benjamin Mar 29, 2025
He is straight, not inlove. He is aware Heesu likes them tho.
"Like Thai Bls where everybody and everyone is gay that you feel you are watching a made up story"

A fictional story feels … fictional? I don't see the problem

"Straight" media pretends gay people don't exist. Most of the time, every character magically identifies as "straight." It’s fair that BL returns the favor and pretends "straight" identifying people don't exist. I call it balance
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Replying to Vin Mar 29, 2025
But Chanyoung and Jiyu are canonically straight, i don't think it's apple to apple with "if a straight couple…
Chan Young and Ji Yu aren't canonically together in the source material. Men and women can be just friends, and you/this adaptation ruined that friendship
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Replying to Vin Mar 29, 2025
"Why do they normalize a straight couple in a bl story" Because it's normal? Straight is normal, gay is normal,…
"Kinda ironic thing to say when our whole existence and the reason being born, thanks to a straight relationship"

I don’t owe anyone a thank you. "Straight" identifying people should be apologizing to me for dragging me into this nightmare they call "society"

“Their screentime is merely a couple of minutes"

There's no time limit on whether something is unnecessary or intrusive

If an advertisement interrupts me for a couple of seconds, should I pretend it doesn’t affect my experience? The problem isn’t the length, your "straight" agenda doesn't belong in a BL
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Replying to Vin Mar 29, 2025
Love that Chanyoung finally will have a real girlfriend here, so he can stop playing Heesu's feeling, he straight…
Chan Young and Ji Yu don't deserve each other
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Replying to PizzaIsLove Mar 29, 2025
"... to emphasize that both gay and straight relationships exist naturally alongside each other"It's possible…
"I have a very close gay friend and whenever i show him BL, he cringes ..."

Your "close gay friend" isn't "the only gay person in the world"

You can't cherry-pick your gay friend as the representative of all things gay. Plenty of gay men and gay women enjoy BLs for flipping the script and creating a world where being gay is the rule, not the exception

"He created a BL show where the main couple is gay, which itself proves he isn’t homophobic"

Creating a part-gay, part-straight story doesn't give the producers a magical shield against homophobia

"BL, originally created to fulfill straight women’s fantasies ..."

So what? Superhero stories are designed for young boys' flights of fancy. Romance in general is marketed towards girls and women. Adult men dig these genres, too

"He also resents how BL creators often use gay relationships as a tool to cater to straight women rather than portraying them authentically"

Who decides what’s "authentic?" Gay experiences are diverse. Some experience soft, fluffy romances, some dramatic love triangles, some intense angst. No one piece of media represents everyone’s reality

"... most BL shows create a fantasy where everyone is magically gay"

Fiction isn't reality. It's a magical place. And in a magical place, anything is possible, including everyone being gay. That you can't imagine a fictional world full of gay people says more about your lack of imagination than "everyone is gay" BLs

"This naturally helps normalize the queer experience in a way that feels organic and inclusive"

Gay stories making room for "straight" stories doesn't normalize the gay experience. Two reasons:

1) Presenting gay relationships alongside "straight" ones encourages audiences to view and evaluate gay relationships through a heteronormative lens. They won't be able to appreciate gay relationships on their own terms

2) Mixing gay and "straight" stories distracts from the message of normalizing gay relationships. Audiences' attention is divided between two different types of relationships

Gay-only stories excel at normalizing homosexuality. They immerse audiences in a gay-centric world. They'd be able to better empathize with gay characters' emotions and experiences

"... to showcase a world where different sexualities coexist"

I'm allergic to "straight" identifying people and their lifestyle. We can coexist ... on opposite sides of the planet. Do you understand that? We need separate spaces, media, societies

You can't storm into a feminist hangout and dictate they spend half their time on men's woes. Same goes for BL. You and your close gay friend can't storm in demanding equal airtime for "straight" stories

"... serves primarily as a fantasy for straight women"

Part-gay, part-straight stories satisfy your "why can't we get along?" and "straight" fetishes. You get off on being so open-minded and inclusive that your brains have fallen out

"Blocking you"

Blocking others for disagreeing with you is like sticking your fingers in your ears and going "la la la." Not mature or productive

"You can shout about it all you want, but that won’t change the facts"

The fact is you're wrong. You've been reading too much fake news
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
"From a monetary point of view, it makes sense that they added a straight couple to the mix to make it more 'palatable'…
I'm glad we see eye to eye on this

Let's keep advocating for BL to stay genuine and focused on the gay stories it was created to tell
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Replying to lexi Mar 28, 2025
from a monetary point of view it makes sense that they added a straight couple to the mix to make it more "palatable"…
"From a monetary point of view, it makes sense that they added a straight couple to the mix to make it more 'palatable' for the general public"

The goal is to generate profit, we know, and it's more practical to cater to the audience who enjoys BL. Watering a BL down for homophobic mainstream audiences isn't a good (or moral) strategy. They're unlikely to watch it anyway. Their brain cells short-circuit at the sight of gay people or characters, so they avoid the genre

Imagine opening a sushi restaurant and dishing out burgers as a main course for economic reasons. How does that make sense? Someone wants a burger, why would they walk into a "sushi" restaurant? At that point, admit you don’t have the guts to commit to BL and fall back on yet another boy-meets-girl storyline

"No one is saying you have to be happy about that"

I wasn’t planning on being happy about it

BL isn’t just about a gay main character, it’s about gay stories taking center stage. If half or most of the screen time shifts to a "straight" story in the next 9 episodes, it's not a BL. Not to me
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
If you have to keep screaming "it's BL/gay!" from the rooftops, chances are it's not BL or gay
"They couldn’t have done it if the creator had no consent, so if the creator gave their consent, what right do we have to say anything?"

"Consent" isn't a magic wand. It's not like the creator whispered "I give consent" and everyone's mouths were magically zippered shut. People can disagree with the creator and say, "that wasn't the best move"

"... where were you when they completely straightwashed the drama called something like highschool gangster or something?"

I was there. I remember the "High School Return of a Gangster" censorship debacle and how the "creator consented" excuse was used to shut down criticism. You're regurgitating the same excuse. Are you proud to be part of the problem?
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
"Definitely will continue"Why does your decision to keep watching invalidate others’ concerns?
"... why are you assuming things on your own"

Isn't everyone? You’re assuming I’m starting a fight. I’m assuming you’re not a fan of criticism. Let's both assume a little less

"This is none of my concern"

It's "none of your concern" and you still gave me a lecture. You care more than you let on

"... please keep this page toxicity free"

I have a right to comment and make sure my voice is heard in the middle of this toxic positivity
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
If you have to keep screaming "it's BL/gay!" from the rooftops, chances are it's not BL or gay
I know life’s unfair. It's full of ups and downs, and we shouldn’t let mediocrity in storytelling or gay erasure be one of the "downs" or low points in life

"(I am not sure if it's true)"

It's true
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Replying to randomheart Mar 28, 2025
I read the manhwa ages ago (and loved it!), and I actually really liked the first ep too!! I've been waiting so…
It’s so "obviously" BL that some people mistake it for a bromance. What a top-tier love story

One episode isn't enough for a firm assessment of the drama as a whole. I'll need to watch more episodes to determine whether it's BL in my book
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
If you have to keep screaming "it's BL/gay!" from the rooftops, chances are it's not BL or gay
A side lesbian confession and an "almost" BL confession. Maybe next episodes, the men will "almost" hold hands, and by the finale, we'll get an "almost" relationship

"Almost" doesn’t count, or I'd be swimming in cash from all the almost-promotions I’ve had
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Replying to jungwoohyunim Mar 28, 2025
Why is there a need for them to add unnecessary straight couple while deleting a second gay couple that is intact…
People are threatened by the rainbow, they try to dull it down with their bland "straight" gray
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
If you have to keep screaming "it's BL/gay!" from the rooftops, chances are it's not BL or gay
Tragic. I’ll be sure to mourn the loss of our riveting conversation
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Replying to Sigh Mar 28, 2025
"Definitely will continue"Why does your decision to keep watching invalidate others’ concerns?
"Bitch its not my fault you are illiterate ... Don’t talk to me ever again loser"

Wow, starting strong with the insults, I see. Some of you fans know how to switch into toxic mode at the drop of a hat

"This is a comment section and I shared my feelings and my eagerness to continue watching this series"

You shared your feelings. So did I. That shouldn't send you spiraling
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Replying to Deenme Mar 28, 2025
I’m sorry this “critique” is actually unserious. Friends joke all the time like this it was light hearted.…
Jokes that target someone's appearance are lazy

No flames in sight, just a simmering frustration as the straight agenda attempts a hostile takeover of the drama
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Replying to Multifandomhoe Mar 28, 2025
I did! It's cute! xx
The first episode has nothing to show in terms of growth or emotional development. It's more of a filler than a romance

We don’t need them making out right away. We need tension, and I don't see any
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Replying to VAMPIRELUKEVOYAGE Mar 28, 2025
deadass😭😭They watch shit bls everyday and then when they have to watch another they draw the line?? Bffr.…
People have watched some average BLs. That doesn’t mean they signed a contract to endure every straightwashed mess that comes along. Having standards isn’t a crime
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Replying to under your bed Mar 28, 2025
that’s what I’ve been saying 🤦‍♀️just because you don’t like one aspect of the show doesn’t mean…
The love is forced
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Replying to snow_whitesoul Mar 28, 2025
yeah and its BL. its too soon that everyone are already deciding it is straight washed just by watching the trailer.…
Why is it okay to decide it's BL/gay from one episode, and not okay to decide it's straightwashed from the trailer?

They scrapped the storyline of the second gay couple and inserted a "straight" one absent in the source material in its stead. That solidifies the case for straightwashing
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