Bliss Ace

Yeah, its a sad world.

Defending your favorite wouldn't be a problem. What sickens me is how people attack the casts. Like yeah, you must be an angel yourself in real life huh? To me, they're not so different from the people they claim to criticize. They're just as bad.

You think? What makes you think so? Because he's trying to be an actor?

You keep going on and on about Baek Hyun disclosing their chat? Where did you get that? I haven't watched that. As much as I know girls do girl-talk like Hyeon Ji and Minkyu about their ex. Minkyung and Ji Hyeon also talked about their ex. You might be blowing things out of proportion but don't the ones struggling with their ex have one person who they share everything to? Unless he 'badmouthed' her, which is totally different case but girls do that all time in dating shows unless you're blind to it.

Well, they are the online 'experts'. I couldn't verify half of what was said. I am thinking we are watching a different show.

In the new trailer, Baek Hyun also asks the same question: Is this America?

Yeah, a support system is really important for her at this time. Her self-confidence right now might be at all time low.

Wow.

That would make it a bit more fair. We can't have HJ who has her second ex only. She's receiving too much hate. If its everyone, the hate will subsidize.

That makes their little banter even more funnier. It was funny already but having these little details makes it more funny.

Isn't Ga Young referring to Ji Hyeon? Maybe her stage name? Also, yes Ji Hyeon is born in 1998. And I am talking about WK's ex. Its easy to confuse between her and the other girl.

I don't know why, I always feel bad when a cast member is hated. That is unless they are chronically evil and go out of their way to hurt others. But I feel bad because I would think receiving hate from all these people, and strangers at that, what if h/she commits suicide.
I don't deal with much hate in my life so I can't imagine receiving it at a massive scale.
Poor girl. Poor Hyeon Ji. I hope she stays strong. If what we have seen from the show is anything to believe from her, then that means she's really fragile. And a little hate could make her think she's an unlikable person. No one can live with that.

I think realizing there's something you need to fix and actively trying to do that is already a huge plus for me. That alone tells me you are an amazing human being. Well done!

I asked a question, I never gave answers. That tells you you like jumping to conclusions. Blinded? Do you have evidence to support what you are saying? I asked for that and you gave nothing. That says a lot about you.

Were you there? Or do you have evidence to support your claim? Also, so the parents knew they dated 6 years when she was a minor and did nothing? Also, where were they when Kim Sae Ron was alive and struggling?

That's the logical way to go about it. Now, try to think even more emotionally. Maybe try to add your experience, if you have had a long relationship, into your reasoning. The first step is to think that no one is behaving 'badly' towards their ex because they hold bad intentions towards them. At one point, they were someone they cherished the most. They are all being driven by their emotions. Try to think down to their level. You are describing an action and facts but what's the actual feeling leading to it.

Nice notes. But I have a feeling when you have an emotional argument with your significant other, you will let the emotions take over. Well, unless you practice what you wrote. It doesn't come overnight.

His perspective is like I am not sure what to do, but hearing you say about what you want to do makes it easy for me to know what to do too. Like he might not have thought of finding a new person was on the table. Like he might have been holding back on finding someone new because he doesn't think its right and he doesn't want to hurt her. But he's like hey you came up with the idea of moving on first so that makes that decision much easier for me too. Cause now I will just go with what you said and not feel guilty about it cause anyway you were going to do the same too.
But now that she is backpedaling, he is thinking she is coming back because she tried everyone there and because of lack of better options she is choosing him. So, he feels more like a back up option for her.
Its all a mess. I don't know what it will take for them to get back together. Maybe be reminded why they fell in love in the first place and not listen to all the noise (reality).

Let me speculate here, I think he changed his mind because he felt they had different priorities. To him, it felt he was making her miserable being with her. She wants marriage while he thinks he isn't stable enough to do that. While on the other hand, Minkyung thinks it only makes sense to get married after staying together that long.
Look at this, Minkyung said he always relied on him in their relationship. So much that now even when she is struggling she is only thinking of him. That kinda tells you he is someone who values being reliable in a relationship. So, he will be big on being stable before taking the next step.
Someone said here that he might have felt less and less attracted in her over time. I think thats partially true. Thats because him being not where he wants in terms of his career and maybe financially is certainly something that can stress you. Minkyung drove the idea of getting married while he would try to push himself such as taking extra dance teaching even though he was just starting out and still a student. As a result, he had little sleep time such that Minkyung describes when they were on a date, he would ask to sleep for like 30 minutes.
Something you wouldn't wanna do is to quarrel with someone who is hungry and/or sleep deprived. They are extra sensitive and can snap at you. Her not understanding where he was coming from may have felt she didn't love him enough, which could cause his love to diminish and him not being forthcoming about his insecurity made her feel distanced or as she puts it, 'abandoned'.
But I can't fault anyone in this situation. Or I can fault both of them. But the reality is that they met while young. They grew up but instead they outgrew each other. I don't know if you got that. It means with maturity and age, the values and beliefs they had while they were young have now changed. They're completely different persons for each other. Maybe its due to adulting. I know of a couple who were married for 12 years and broke up and divorced 3 years ago. They met while young but each person grew up and before they knew it they were different person for each other. And they had two children together. Its called personality difference. It might not show at the beginning as both of you are on the same wavelength. But with time, if both of you are not in tune to each other, adapt and accommodate one another, then you might wake up one day and think the person you have beside you feels like a stranger, not the person you once fell in love with (By the way, this is where people say they fell out of love).

So, you ask why the ex room changed his mind? Its because he was reminded of the issues they had in their relationship. And that made him feel they are causing misery to each other, which is compounded with her statement that she wanted to move on. And that made him feel like its much easier to let go. Did he make up his mind too to move on since the beginning? Not entirely true. Thats because we can see he was passive from the beginning. He never requested for dates. But that has started to change.

I just think YS misunderstood her. She said she was trying to move on and went on to many dates but that didn't sound good to him. He thought that she made him a second option and her mind were already made up to move on. So, for him its like now that she doesn't have anyone else, she is turning to him.