and for jimin... I think he and haneul are not a match, cause the way haneul made jimin so uncomfortable (ik she…
You can feel uncomfortable and still like it. Its simply just a tense situation. I don't think he particularly dislikes it. He is uncomfortable in a sense that he doesn't know what to do with himself or how to react when she comes at him too strongly. Probably, because you have never had that experience before so you wouldn't know what to do with yourself. So, I still think Haneul has a chance to win him over. But that can only happen when his idea of Jayeon becomes completely shattered. He thinks highly of her and he only has eyes for her. Jimin has such a stubborn outlook to relationship so only if he gets strongly rejected or disillusioned can he move on. But since Jayeon enjoys the thought of having him around (somehow interested/curious about him) that won't happen anytime soon. So for now I have no much expectations for Haneul. As wonderful as she is, he wouldn't be able to see it. Just as much it looks impossible for Jimin to turn Jayeon towards him, its the same case for Haneul. These two are ghost ships. If either of them happen, I think that would be one of biggest plot twists I have seen on dating shows.
So basically being kind to one girl and staying away from others can backfire also.
No, love cannot be forced. That's the message you should get out of all this experience. It should be natural. Love doesn't require effort but relationships do.
omg what is chubby on her she literally had a normal body
I promise you, I think she's beautiful that way. Why do people even find beauty in being thin? You have a poor perception of beauty if you think being thin or slim makes one beautiful. She is cute that way, if you think otherwise, its a YOU problem then.
I love having a chubby FL. Unconventional female beauty and I am loving it.
EDIT: Wow, do people have that poor mindset of chubby people? I genuinely like her as she is. I think I see why people tend to go for plastic surgery and try to get thinner/slim. Is that the only beauty you people know? Believe me, I love love her and how she looks. Please, for God's sake just change your perceptions about people. Wow, I am just bewildered. I don't even know what to say. Its perfectly healthy and beautiful to be chubby. That reminds of my niece who I think she's just cute. Okay, leave her alone, let's say she's not chubby. So what's wrong with being chubby? How is being chubby a backhanded compliment? I am genuinely curious. Like just answer generally, we won't even focus on the FL in this case. I am just curious to know.
He's stupid (Please, not in a mean way sorry). He is more likely to end up single at the end. Flirting is more…
Anyway, I can't fault Ho Am too much. He just went with his gut feelings. And I also think he just trust his spirits a little bit more. He doesn't think they might be wrong. So when he saw they liked her and he had an initial interest in her, that must have magnified his feelings in her.
But from what I have learnt so far, fate or destiny doesn't mean much. It needs a little bit of human intervention. You must make an actual effort to make something happen too. Something may be meant for you, but your best chance of achieving them is by following the natural order of things. For example, the heavens can say a certain person/career is meant for me. I must realign myself to receive it. I shouldn't go over myself and be overconfident that I can get them. I should still be careful around it/them.
Fortunes can change. For example, in the current episode you saw he got a negative reading/fortune, which is opposite of what he got at the beginning.
He's stupid (Please, not in a mean way sorry). He is more likely to end up single at the end. Flirting is more…
Ho Am fell in love with her more because his spirits get well with her. I think its a big deal for shamans or something. I saw somewhere where they said as a shaman you can like someone but the spirits do not agree.
Anyway, I might be wrong. It doesn't matter now. I think he came on too strongly. He was too convinced that she is the one. Its okay to feel that way but let that take time. Get to know them more. She may have felt overwhelmed because of that, maybe unknowingly.
You're right, she should have been honest. I also think she might be figuring her feelings out just like everyone else. Its just 4 days, so everyone is still trying to figure out their feelings. I hope she doesn't drag this out for too long though. It would be a little bit cruel.
ep 6 was fun despite too many empty edits, they could have put more of the 15min talk from the candidates with…
Its about being mysterious. Its an idea I am getting about many dating shows. Maybe its just the Korean shows. For instance, I didn't find Min Gyu that appealing in HS4 but he was popular mainly because he was mysterious. In the past, I would think the more transparent you are the more likeable you get. But it seems finding love its about taking a gamble. In gambling, its about reading (I say it that way instead of the word 'manipulation') situations, not in an active way otherwise that is considered being calculative and that is unattractive.
Maybe I am using a bad example with K-dating shows, but whenever you're getting to know someone romantically, make sure you keep them curious about you. Not by playing hard to get. Its by not revealing too much (or everything) about yourself all at once. Reveal it slowly to sustain that curiosity itself. Yu Geong seems to have satisfied her curiosity with Ho Am sadly so she is less likely going to be interested in him anymore.
He's stupid (Please, not in a mean way sorry). He is more likely to end up single at the end. Flirting is more like a poker game. If you blink first you loose. Hide your feelings as much as possible until you confirm its mutual or its at the right timing.
Me saying he's stupid is because he thinks spiritually is all there is. Okay, your spirits may think she is the right person for you. But she won't date them. She is still a person. As spiritual as you are, you are a citizen of this mortal world not the spiritual one. So treat her like a woman, a person. So having your spiritual 'I DONT KNOW' agree she is the right girl for you means nothing. Approach her like a woman. Or at least keep that to yourself until maybe when its the right time (When you're dating or so). Embrace the unknown. Maybe knowing too much about the future is doing much harm than good in this show. Even in Yu Gyeong shoes, I would feel overwhelmed if someone said that we're meant to be when we're just getting to know each other. Being stupid means you don't know better. You can learn and do better. I hope Ho Am learns and becomes a better person in future. I like him and hope for the best for him.
You have to see the big picture here. In Korea social status is very important when considering a potential spouse.…
You know what, you might be right. Its a Korean dating show so they care about the superficial aspects too. Though I disagree that they may not work out in the long run. Staying together for a month and then choosing each other at the end means they really vibed with each other. I think its all about personalities. They have the same sense of humor. So the social circle isn't strong enough for them to break up.
I also think anyone who comes out of a dating show becomes a social influencer in some way or another. I can't think of a lot of people who didn't at least enjoy the perks of being popular that comes with the show. So my guess, they will do just fine. So if they break up after the show its due to personality difference and not because of his social circle. Anyway, my expectations of any of the couples working out outside the show are pretty low. We rarely get any. They stay together for like 6-8 months or even less and then break. Maybe the dopamine from the show doesn't last for long. So I at least try to enjoy them now as much as possible because when they're out its a whole different dynamic.
haneul’s flirting was STRONG! even as a viewer I was surprised haha 😂no wonder jimin looked flustered. I…
No, she did alright. She removed that image that 'I am just a friend'. She came on too strong so now Jimin knows better than to mess with her. He should take her feelings seriously. That's the vibe I got.
Jimin has such a stubborn outlook to relationship so only if he gets strongly rejected or disillusioned can he move on. But since Jayeon enjoys the thought of having him around (somehow interested/curious about him) that won't happen anytime soon. So for now I have no much expectations for Haneul. As wonderful as she is, he wouldn't be able to see it.
Just as much it looks impossible for Jimin to turn Jayeon towards him, its the same case for Haneul. These two are ghost ships. If either of them happen, I think that would be one of biggest plot twists I have seen on dating shows.
You have a poor perception of beauty if you think being thin or slim makes one beautiful. She is cute that way, if you think otherwise, its a YOU problem then.
EDIT: Wow, do people have that poor mindset of chubby people? I genuinely like her as she is. I think I see why people tend to go for plastic surgery and try to get thinner/slim. Is that the only beauty you people know? Believe me, I love love her and how she looks.
Please, for God's sake just change your perceptions about people. Wow, I am just bewildered. I don't even know what to say. Its perfectly healthy and beautiful to be chubby. That reminds of my niece who I think she's just cute.
Okay, leave her alone, let's say she's not chubby. So what's wrong with being chubby? How is being chubby a backhanded compliment? I am genuinely curious. Like just answer generally, we won't even focus on the FL in this case. I am just curious to know.
But from what I have learnt so far, fate or destiny doesn't mean much. It needs a little bit of human intervention. You must make an actual effort to make something happen too. Something may be meant for you, but your best chance of achieving them is by following the natural order of things. For example, the heavens can say a certain person/career is meant for me. I must realign myself to receive it. I shouldn't go over myself and be overconfident that I can get them. I should still be careful around it/them.
Fortunes can change. For example, in the current episode you saw he got a negative reading/fortune, which is opposite of what he got at the beginning.
Anyway, I might be wrong. It doesn't matter now. I think he came on too strongly. He was too convinced that she is the one. Its okay to feel that way but let that take time. Get to know them more. She may have felt overwhelmed because of that, maybe unknowingly.
You're right, she should have been honest. I also think she might be figuring her feelings out just like everyone else. Its just 4 days, so everyone is still trying to figure out their feelings. I hope she doesn't drag this out for too long though. It would be a little bit cruel.
In the past, I would think the more transparent you are the more likeable you get. But it seems finding love its about taking a gamble. In gambling, its about reading (I say it that way instead of the word 'manipulation') situations, not in an active way otherwise that is considered being calculative and that is unattractive.
Maybe I am using a bad example with K-dating shows, but whenever you're getting to know someone romantically, make sure you keep them curious about you. Not by playing hard to get. Its by not revealing too much (or everything) about yourself all at once. Reveal it slowly to sustain that curiosity itself. Yu Geong seems to have satisfied her curiosity with Ho Am sadly so she is less likely going to be interested in him anymore.
Me saying he's stupid is because he thinks spiritually is all there is. Okay, your spirits may think she is the right person for you. But she won't date them. She is still a person. As spiritual as you are, you are a citizen of this mortal world not the spiritual one. So treat her like a woman, a person.
So having your spiritual 'I DONT KNOW' agree she is the right girl for you means nothing. Approach her like a woman. Or at least keep that to yourself until maybe when its the right time (When you're dating or so). Embrace the unknown. Maybe knowing too much about the future is doing much harm than good in this show.
Even in Yu Gyeong shoes, I would feel overwhelmed if someone said that we're meant to be when we're just getting to know each other.
Being stupid means you don't know better. You can learn and do better. I hope Ho Am learns and becomes a better person in future. I like him and hope for the best for him.
I also think anyone who comes out of a dating show becomes a social influencer in some way or another. I can't think of a lot of people who didn't at least enjoy the perks of being popular that comes with the show. So my guess, they will do just fine. So if they break up after the show its due to personality difference and not because of his social circle.
Anyway, my expectations of any of the couples working out outside the show are pretty low. We rarely get any. They stay together for like 6-8 months or even less and then break. Maybe the dopamine from the show doesn't last for long. So I at least try to enjoy them now as much as possible because when they're out its a whole different dynamic.