Have you ever liked someone without knowing you do. I did recently. You don't know you like them. You have yourself…
Yeah, you might be right. He might sense it and I think he does enjoy the dates too. And its lowkey rejection because like I said he doesn't know where to place those feelings (his not hers). He might know hers but I don't think he has given himself an opportunity to even think about his. He's more focused about Yugyeong which his feelings are more clear compared to Yunjeong which I think are vague. That is why I was suggesting she should be vocal about it so that he can think about it a bit more. You only get rejected once. Regardless, like you said, they're both good people so I support them as individuals. So whatever the result I wish them happiness.
Who's hating hanuel? If anything people hate how Jimin rejected Haneul and Jiwon. And now some are attacking Woojae…
Regardless, I think Jimin is the most hated. He is considered clingy and rude. Woojae and Haneul hate has happened only recently. Woojae is probably projecting his insecurities. Its probably something that has happened in his past relationships. Haneul is just cautious. I don't think its anything about having one as backup or not. Though I don't see her romantically attracted to Chanhyung because I don't see tension whenever they're together. Also, Chanhyung doesn't come to her mind as much often as Jimin does. We don't see her talk about him when he is not around. So she is more attracted to Jimin because her mood changed when she did not get to spend some time with him. She was also somehow stern when Jimin and Jeyeon were flirting. Maybe she is denying those feelings because she can clearly see its not mutual. You can like someone so much that you're upset when they do not reciprocate it. I feel that's how she feels about Jimin. So I honestly can't blame her and people shouldn't hate her.
Ho Am is so handsome when he's with Yunjeong. There's that certain glow in him. Is he in denial or what. Even…
Have you ever liked someone without knowing you do. I did recently. You don't know you like them. You have yourself tricked that its a mutual friendship and nothing more. It happens especially when its someone you have never thought of them romantically but you have this connection that you can't really place it. So from what I can see is that Ho Am can't place their interaction romantically. Just take a risk and have him think about your connection romantically. In my case, I thought it was something special for sure we shared. But the thought of making it romantic felt like ruining it. I bet Ho Am feels the same. Anyway, it was too late for me and I think its also too late for Yunjeong too because she never mustered courage to approach him and make her intentions clear. No matter whatever 'great' moments they share, if Ho Am has his mindset that we're having a good time as friends, she will never make progress. Just be honest with them. You only get rejected once but you can feel proud of yourself because you tried. But now Yunjeong will always have a 'what if' after the show because she never did everything to her hearts content.
Why is no one talking about Gang Won yet? Does anyone know what happened there? Until I know what he lied about/what…
Wow, I am surprised as well. Gang Won could have broken either the rule of lying about his background or he secretly has a girlfriend somewhere which he didn't reveal. Maybe, he came for publicity. Nonetheless, it will be difficult for any of us to know the truth because the producers would be looking to protect his privacy.
Lastly, its pretty obvious why they had the ladies do that. After Gang Won being kicked out, there was imbalance between men and women. In this way, it ensured that all the ladies went on a date.
Yunjeong and Ho Am please endgame. I scream as they drag me to the asylum lol. I will sink with this ship idc…
Me too. Me too. Yunjeong and Ho Am as endgame would make this show all worth it at the end. I wish we get to see their affection moment more if it gets to happen.
I think I understand now Jimin's appeal, especially the last scene with Jeyeon asking her to be his contract date,…
I don't find Jimin appealing to anyone currently. I mean he is the only male member not receiving votes two days in a row. As someone who likes Jimin, I can tell you its not the face card. Its his humor. He has an unique type of humor maybe it doesn't get to you. For example, instead of getting depressed no one chose his book, he started to joke about it. Of course he knows no one chose his book but he is like 'No one chose the brown book?' Then goes to say that he doesn't care about the messages but jumps when he receives the notification. Whenever, he mostly self-roast himself to set the mood for everyone. Like at the dinner table when he started the conversation about everyone's color book, he would make statements like, 'Did my desperation show?'. No one chose his book and no one sends him messages. That goes against conventional handsome character straight out of a Kdrama character you mentioned. Even Haneul who showed interest in him in their date doesn't openly try to flirt with him. You can argue he sets boundaries but when has it ever stopped anyone especially when someone possess that type of handsomeness you mentioned.
I would just say this, I don't think Jimin is that much of a handsome person you make him to be or how Kdramas make them to be. Jimin is quirky, witty and humorous. He appeals more through having conversation with him rather than his face. In other words, he's just a vibe. More importantly, he's just honest. He's honest with people and his feelings. That is why he is getting popular. Sometimes when you fall in love with someone's attributes, they start to become more handsome in your eyes. So, if anyone argues he's handsome, you can't argue with them. But from an objective POV, I think he is good looking but not the type you break your neck turning around to see (that's the beauty kdramas portray by the way).
It's for the good of both that they parted ways. Ch decision just shows that he is a mature and responsible guy.…
What choice does he have? I feel so bad for him. No girl is over 30 years there. He would have had a chance to approach if there was. The oldest is 28years. Who does the show producers expect him to find love from?
Jimin said he does not want an ambiguous situation with Haneul, string her along and disrespect her. I don't understand…
Yooh chill dear! Its never that serious. Projecting? You seem to be the one projecting, respectfully. I didn't even mention about Haneul in my comment but you went on to talk about her. That says a lot about your comprehension skills. You're not reading to understand but to reply.
Why are you approaching an opinion/argument as you vs me. Its like a competition between me and you. If we don't agree its okay. I won't sleep any less neither should you. So always come here and get different perspective to things/life and you don't even have to agree. Its all love darling. I have nothing against you. You can have whoever as your bias and no one is beating you about it. So again just chill.
Jimin said he does not want an ambiguous situation with Haneul, string her along and disrespect her. I don't understand…
I think @wyacdr meant what if Jeyeon could do the same to him like he is doing to others showing interest in him? I mean no one is asking you to get married on the spot and its not like they're confessing so you need to start the relationship. Yes, drawing a clear line is considerate but at least give them a ear. Listen to them. Be available and try to know them a little bit. After doing all that, you can gently turn them down because just like you, its only fair you give them a chance to shoot their shot. I am sure Jimin would like to have a fair shot at Jeyeon. But if Jeyeon draws a clear line from the first interaction like he did with Jiwon, he would have been heartbroken. Its not too deep yet to start drawing lines or even call it an ambiguous situation. So what Jimin is afraid isn't misleading anyone. He is afraid of having to deal with the fall out and being the bad one who turns someone down after they have expressed themselves. In other words, he is avoiding the guilt. So its easier he throws that guilt to someone, like let's say his situation with Jeyeon, than having to deal with one himself. They're some people who have a hard time turning down people and I think he is one of them. So, he would rather draw a line from the get go.
I'm on the boat too coz Ji min is such a good human. Like I've never seen any men like him who's so consistent…
She said its because with Jimin, she's more comfortable so her personality comes out but with Woojae its tension. She's very much attracted to Woojae than she is with Jimin that she can't see they are polar opposite in most things. Just like Jimin, she might be thinking being comfortable with someone is more toward a friendship than a relationship. Also, her being an attorney, it means she is logical. She will act based on reasons rarely on her emotions. I don't think she will jump ships easily. So until she exhausts all her feelings with Woojae, she will always choose him over Jimin. You forgot that the character of Lovely Runner can also be applied to her feelings not just Jimin's steadfast and loyal love. It could also mean she tends to stay the same if she is attracted to someone. Not to burst anyone's bubble but I think she will see it through with Woojae until she is convinced enough that they can't work out. Jimin will always remain her second choice. Just like how Jimin sees its bad to confuse Haneul with mixed signals, Jeyeon also thinks she is being polite by not choosing Jimin first. She doesn't want to go back and forth between Woojae and Jimin.
Well, at least I can say this, if either Jimin or Jeyeon decides to pursue someone then you can know they're not second guessing. Its only you.
Me too. I just like how he's a good conversationalist and his sense of humor. That takes time for people to realize.…
Ooh no! He removed? Why? They were wholesome.
You're right. I just checked. Too bad, I thought they were good because they mostly showed his daily routine and meeting friends, and the Love Catcher cast too.
That's most Korean dating shows most men droll over a woman. It's not really that impressive 🤷🏻♂️
Ooh well,,, I don't even know what to say but I do know love should be mutual. Both parties should feel the same way. If one is more in love or gives more, it is a very tiring relationship.
That's most Korean dating shows most men droll over a woman. It's not really that impressive 🤷🏻♂️
I think kdramas shapes how they pursue women. Like Jimin said he liked watching dramas and he gave an example of Lovely Runner. In that drama, the protagonist basically is loyal and true to his woman. So we can expect him to mirror this behavior.
So from what I can see is that Ho Am can't place their interaction romantically. Just take a risk and have him think about your connection romantically.
In my case, I thought it was something special for sure we shared. But the thought of making it romantic felt like ruining it. I bet Ho Am feels the same. Anyway, it was too late for me and I think its also too late for Yunjeong too because she never mustered courage to approach him and make her intentions clear.
No matter whatever 'great' moments they share, if Ho Am has his mindset that we're having a good time as friends, she will never make progress. Just be honest with them. You only get rejected once but you can feel proud of yourself because you tried. But now Yunjeong will always have a 'what if' after the show because she never did everything to her hearts content.
Lastly, its pretty obvious why they had the ladies do that. After Gang Won being kicked out, there was imbalance between men and women. In this way, it ensured that all the ladies went on a date.
No one chose his book and no one sends him messages. That goes against conventional handsome character straight out of a Kdrama character you mentioned. Even Haneul who showed interest in him in their date doesn't openly try to flirt with him. You can argue he sets boundaries but when has it ever stopped anyone especially when someone possess that type of handsomeness you mentioned.
I would just say this, I don't think Jimin is that much of a handsome person you make him to be or how Kdramas make them to be. Jimin is quirky, witty and humorous. He appeals more through having conversation with him rather than his face. In other words, he's just a vibe. More importantly, he's just honest. He's honest with people and his feelings. That is why he is getting popular. Sometimes when you fall in love with someone's attributes, they start to become more handsome in your eyes. So, if anyone argues he's handsome, you can't argue with them. But from an objective POV, I think he is good looking but not the type you break your neck turning around to see (that's the beauty kdramas portray by the way).
Why are you approaching an opinion/argument as you vs me. Its like a competition between me and you. If we don't agree its okay. I won't sleep any less neither should you. So always come here and get different perspective to things/life and you don't even have to agree.
Its all love darling. I have nothing against you. You can have whoever as your bias and no one is beating you about it. So again just chill.
I am sure Jimin would like to have a fair shot at Jeyeon. But if Jeyeon draws a clear line from the first interaction like he did with Jiwon, he would have been heartbroken. Its not too deep yet to start drawing lines or even call it an ambiguous situation.
So what Jimin is afraid isn't misleading anyone. He is afraid of having to deal with the fall out and being the bad one who turns someone down after they have expressed themselves. In other words, he is avoiding the guilt. So its easier he throws that guilt to someone, like let's say his situation with Jeyeon, than having to deal with one himself. They're some people who have a hard time turning down people and I think he is one of them. So, he would rather draw a line from the get go.
I don't think she will jump ships easily. So until she exhausts all her feelings with Woojae, she will always choose him over Jimin.
You forgot that the character of Lovely Runner can also be applied to her feelings not just Jimin's steadfast and loyal love. It could also mean she tends to stay the same if she is attracted to someone.
Not to burst anyone's bubble but I think she will see it through with Woojae until she is convinced enough that they can't work out. Jimin will always remain her second choice. Just like how Jimin sees its bad to confuse Haneul with mixed signals, Jeyeon also thinks she is being polite by not choosing Jimin first. She doesn't want to go back and forth between Woojae and Jimin.
Well, at least I can say this, if either Jimin or Jeyeon decides to pursue someone then you can know they're not second guessing. Its only you.
You're right. I just checked. Too bad, I thought they were good because they mostly showed his daily routine and meeting friends, and the Love Catcher cast too.