Bliss Ace

ooh well. Try atleast to 5th episode. You'll be back regretting this comment. Personally, I wasn't thrilled in the first episode. The show got my attention the second episode but not enough to get me hooked. But oh my little did I know that the sixth episode is my ultimate charm. I literally cant wait to get another episode. I don't know how it gets better each episode.

Lol.

I wouldn't say disinterested. But he lacks confidence. And no where said he was an ex-actor. I think you're confusing him with someone. But still I dont think any cast members were ex-actors, maybe ex-idols, ex-models or singers. He is 37. Remember, he said that most of his 20s, he was depressed. Especially, when he was 29. He didn't know what he wanted to do until he was 30, when he started photography. He has not been aggressive, maybe he is careful not to get hurt.
No, his intention of revealing his age infront of everyone was because he had to live his lie. He had to keep on pretending he is 25, when he is actually not. Thats a lie and not actually hiding a secret like other cast members. He felt guilty lying, thats what I would say. I guess age is a big deal in the korean system by looking at how some of the cast members reacted, especially TAEHYUNG. So, him lying about that can sort of be a big deal to him/others.

I think he liked Seulbi before going on a date with Daon. He didn't tell Seulbi he liked her but that she was his ideal type. Anyway none of the girls actually showed interest in him. You can tell that from lack of messages. No one has thought of texting him except the girls he went to the date with. It was in a form of 'hey, I had a good time'. Also, even after making his intention known, none of the girls made him their first pick. Also, he has tried to remain consistent, he has been texting Daon even though she has no/little interest in him. Sometimes when you are in a dating show, you can lose confidence coz none of the girls paid attention to him since the first episode. Whether he is young or not, that definitely doesn't do good to your self-esteem.

Song Joong Ki is in it. He has the habit of choosing some really good scripts so rest assured.

Your theory seems to far fetched. There are so many holes to it that the theory doesn't answer. So, I cant really agree with it. But time will tell if indeed you made sense.

Well, I am rooting for that guy who made a lot of lame jokes at the beginning. He seems to be pure hearted. But I like everyone, I feel like they are all cute.

Okay, Now, we need a season 2. It was just great!

Can someone explain to me what the misunderstanding was about between Lin and Xue in 8.1 episode?

Wow. Me too. I thought the ML was the astronaut. I think it got interesting by having a female lead play as the astronaut, which usually goes to ML. A story worth wait.

Well, I wouldn't mind if thats the storyline. I find warmth in such stories.

I don't think they are dating. Actually, none of the cast members are.

I think this episode brought out Gyu Min's personality more. I wouldn't say he was likeable, but he was relatable.
ik theres a whole ass hate train for gyumin but honestly i see and understand what hes doing even if i dont agree with his outwardly actions. somewhere across the line, if you loved someone, you will have a heart for the things that once was.

when i dated someone, there were times everything was really good, happy and things that you hold on to your heart it a very wholesome way but once you dont feel the same for that person, the present will be different even if you embraced your past. the person i had dated was a good person and wasn't like horrible, abusive, nasty etc so i have positive regards to that person even if the feelings are different.

even though in gyumin's case he couldnt simply pick if he wanted to pusue her or not (dropping "hints" but also pushing her away), theres a line of things that we dont know about that has caused his love to change and simply leave him with the things that once were, happy, innocent bright smile not only did she have, but he did too. though he gets jealous and a part of him wants her, he has a lot more sentimental love over her rather than a present romantic love.

while he had chances, life and choices arent easy and you make moves that dont benefit yourself or others sometimes. relationships are complicated and so are the people involved. one might think, why did he hold himself back then? but it must be reminded that people make different decisions for many different reasons. gyumin had his beliefs that it would be better for haeeun to move on and smile brighter but a part of him he didnt understand before, held him back now, like naeon mentioned at one point, gyumin doesnt know how to be honest. not with others, not with himself, making his decisions not easily liked by the audience

Just why? The last couple of episodes made him look so lonely. Most of the guys there like him but I find him to be soo lonely. Now I am wondering how Coco from last season made it. I didn't notice if she ever got lonely. She has to be the strongest lady in dating reality show.

The criticism is valid but it doesn't warrant hate. @Dreamy, this is what I meant.

I can agree with you to some extend. But I wouldn't say that she was or not the engine of the relationship. People express themselves differently. There's hyper personality, who express themselves more in a relationship, while others are guarded and defensive. It depends on your dating style. I believe what you meant to say was that Ha Eun was more invested in the relationship than Gyu Min. I think thats true from the photos and videos. By using that logic I think love was reciprocated only that Ha Eun was more invested.
I do not want to judge Ha Eun's actions. I do not want to say that she missed dignity in her actions. Tae I calls her Pabo meaning a fool coz of her actions. I won't comment about that coz I understand where she is coming from.
But I definitely think she needs to learn when to fight and let go of a relationship. No matter how sweet it was, sometimes you have to say goodbye,

Also, all those things you mentioned such as guilt tripping her, manipulating his words, etc. are all actions of someone that is holding a grudge. You won't do that if you cared about that person. He may be seeking to hurt Ha Eun for her to feel the hurt he felt. That doesn't mean she is a bad person or she did something wrong. Maybe Ha Eun just did not live up to his expectations. It can be that simple.
I know you want to believe that Gyu Min is a bad person that only wants to hurt a perfect little human being. So out of nowhere, Gyu Min just decided to go and hurt her, just because he feels like it. Thats the story that fits your argument.
No. Thats not what happens in relationships. Normally, people get hurt by something you said, or did , which can turn a relationship sour. The other party may be so hurt, like lets say Gyu Min's case, and completely become nasty. We all agree that Gyu Min's method is not right on so many levels.
I just chose not to crucify him like you all are doing coz I understand how relationships can turn sour.

Now we are circling back to where we started. No one is defending Gyu Min's actions. Also, I don't know how you got the impression that I am throwing shade for criticizing him. At this point, I think you have such a strong viewpoint about him that you are completely upset if anyone counters your argument. Yes, for a millionth time, Gyu Min should have done better given the situation.
So my comment says, You chose to criticize his action while I chose to learn from his actions. I wouldn't treat my ex like that under any circumstance.
Also, I need you to understand that in every action there's a reaction. You were not there when Gyu Min and Ha Eun met and dated. So you shouldn't speak for either of them. You don't know what happened between them and turned their relationship sour. Also, understand that it may have nothing to do with personality. Sometimes people break up due to misunderstandings and one party can end up hurt.
All Gyu Min's action towards his ex was wrong. He may have been hurt or something. Maybe he did all those actions you mentioned intentionally to hurt his ex, which I repeat isn't right. Also, understand that it can be because he wants to revenge/ make his ex feel the same hurt he felt.
There's no way we can prove my assumptions because I was not there when they met and decided to date. But you cannot tell me that she couldn't have hurt Gyu Min because she is a nice person. Even good people can hurt someone in a relationship just by the basic understanding that they did not meet their expectations. So I won't belittle Gyu Min feelings nor Ha Eun. The reason may have been petty to me and you, but if that thing hurt him, I can understand that is from his perspective.

I understand what you are saying . You are free to give your judgement since its for public consumption. That's alright, darling. I am not a guru in relationships. I make mistakes. I have dated a few times so I know how different a person behaves in a relationship. Someone may be a good person but definitely not for a relationship. That's why you can see someone nice but they are just not for you. You may clash based on the values and perceptions that you both have, e.g. on Money, kids and time. Even if you both break up your difference in values and ideas is the determining factor.

So my judgement is based on the fact that I am not soo innocent when it comes to relationships. I see myself in all those members. So I try to watch the show not with a judgement eyes but with an understanding one. I always want to understand what may drive someone to do something. So unlike you, I don't watch it to actually praise or criticize the individuals but to learn from them.
So I can't really give a strong view about someone I watch in the show. I think its because I tend to think that could have been me. So, I cant judge coz I am not perfect either. Its okay for you share your views. Its totally alright. That's just my stand.

Nope nope. I did not imply that Ha Eun cheated. Please go back and read my comment again. I know and you know that you read it halfway. That is why you gave this response. You are replying as if I am for Gyu Min and opposed to Ha Eun. But if you read it keenly, you will understand that I am against the massive hate he is receiving. My argument is on the nature of relationships rather than Gyu Min's actions. You didn't read my comment that is why you are too focused on the former.
Also I gave an example of misunderstanding in relationships that can make them break up. I don't know where you are getting the idea I said Ha Eun cheated. Also, I am making assumptions. That's not the actual story coz I don't think they actually revealed it. Only bits of it. So I gave you that example to act as a mind opener to help you understand how relationships work/are. Please read my comment again. Stop skimming. Thats why you didn't get my point.