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oh but I watch in the clip that she go to her ex ( lin bai as you said) but I read below that he's also a trash worse than her !?

this drama is a trash and I didn't even start watching 😅😂😂 get confused who's more worse and live triangle I dislike especially like this when fl dating two same time lol .

thank you and sorry for bothering you

They say that because they hate that SFL and what she did, and there is a difference between MLs and supporting characters. Let’s say he slapped the FL , you would read the opposite reaction. I’m talking about the main leads in this kind of situation, not evil characters where you expect anything from them, because you can always read comments wishing horrible characters death, not just that they get slapped 😂😂😂.
And I’m sure if we use “context” as an excuse, we would end up accepting many cases of abuse, domestic violence, and crimes of many kinds.
Being abusive is not acceptable, and that’s it. Any excuse or attempt to make it seem okay is wrong. And anyone who thinks there is a difference between a woman slapping a man and a man slapping a woman is showing a double standard. If someone wants equality between men and women, the same standard should apply to both, especially in something where we don't have any differences.

oooh boy you're saying to me he ended with her even after she cheated on him and left him for the other one!? sorry I just watched a clip of her was with her ex for one week and she comes to break up with him and left him 🙂

thank you

If we follow your logic, we would have to not say anything about the king because he’s a king, and doing what he’s doing is normal for someone like him too. It’s just his character sitting there. 🙂🙃
Being a concubine or an empress doesn’t give her the right to do that. It is only accepted because it’s the FL doing it. We have seen many MLs who are kings and emperors not do anything like this to an FL who was rude toward them.
Our discussion is about the writers, not the characters. If we only talk about the characters, then there is nothing to discuss because it’s just a drama, not real life. But the writers and fans who praise these abusive scenes are the issue. If she is disappointed with him or hurt by him, she should talk about it, just like he should talk to her, or she can be angry and let him chase after her as he did from the beginning. That’s enough. It doesn’t need to turn an abusive act into a romantic scene and say it happened because she was disappointed or too angry.
fl also could have talk to him about it and assure him she's also deeply in love with him and he's misunderstood her and that's it or jer ego can't let her think from his pov!?

Yes, unfortunately , it's normalized
it has become like a love confession and a way to show how disappointed she is with the ML when she slapped him because her ego can't accept him misunderstood her or say to her something bad .
I agree with you completely. I find this double standard absurd, and it even exists in real life: when a woman slaps or hits a man, it is often seen as not that serious, and some people even laugh about it.
You can read comments here or on other platforms where people make excuses for it or don’t even see it as something worth discussing. It’s just “the FL slapping the ML,” so it’s treated as a normal thing. They say he deserved the slap, and since he didn’t say anything about it, why should we even talk about it?
But you notice that when the situation is reversed, it’s almost never shown in romantic comedy dramas. It’s usually in melodramas, and it’s used to show him as a scumbag or a red flag because he “can’t communicate.”
And what’s even more absurd is that even scumbag or red-flag characters usually apologize for the slap, but you will never see a FL apologize for it in this romance kdrama C-drama Turkish drama . Why? Because she often doesn’t even think she did something wrong, and many fans don’t think she did either some even love her more because she slapping him in Turkish🇹🇷 drama because it's long you will see her slapping him many times and no one say anything about it .
I bet if she apologized, some people would say she didn’t have to or think she's soft 😅

what ml you're talking about!? and what happened to the 304 fl also thank you

I wish a brave writer would write an ML slapping the FL to the ground because she said something wrong that humiliated him, and make it a romantic scene where she apologizes to him afterward.

🙃This bullshit cliché of FLs slapping MLs as easily as drinking water is one of the biggest feminism double standard red flags for me.

The people in the comments below like it and say it's one of their best scenes,
and I'm sure if any woman reads my wish above, which I said for provoking who like slapping men , she will think I'm a scumbag, But a FL slapping a ML is considered normal and okay because "he did something wrong" and humiliated her and himself , so he deserves it.

But no, never a ml slapping a FL, even if she did something extremely wrong 😂😂

And this is another red flag with many, if not most, women: the double standard , when it comes to what men and women allowed and not allowed to do ; what he should do and tolerate and effort he should as a man make , and what she has as privilege to do, say, and choose freely and only receiving most of the time, and when she gives it's a favor from her he should thank her more .

The man is expected to 'be a man' and accept being slapped, cry , and apologize because she rejected him and slapped him, when he was acting as a simp and humiliating himself by saying, 'Use me like a dog,' even if you're a cat person." to wake him up a little, even she can't accept how low he's to himself first and to her second ,
he makes men wish they are not men because he's a disgrace from men pov, because from women pov he's the ultimate toy prize, for them that has no personality of being manly and respect himself and love them deeply that's it . I noticed that K-dramas get more success the lower they make the ML act when he falls for the FL, He really falls hard and forgets to collect his manly personality when he runs after her ( because she doesn’t wait for him to get up) I remember something in the rain as evidence that got more successful because the ml was a lower kind of simps .

Writers mostly write the FL always right and the ML misunderstood her , and with his simp personality he can’t wait more longer for her to accept hik so they make him do a stupid mistakes , and write him also intentionally misunderstand her, then they make him act obsessively so he deserves a slap or two,
This is the formula, so even if you want to criticize it , you’re somehow wrong because he did wrong he deserves the slap 1+1 =2 but this is wrong when it's about fls doing mistakes .

And her slap is a really hard good slap not the kind of slapping someone you love because you’re disappointed with him. No, she slap him up till nearly break his neck 😵‍💫. You don’t see FLs slap SMLs or evil characters like this. Because It’s treated as a confession of love, so the ML deserves it.
It’s lazy writing from the cliché writers, but what can we do? Some viewers enjoy seeing a man get slapped by a woman and he still apologize, cry, and regret he didn't get more 🙃, and thank her for it . That’s the fantasy.

thank you, I appreciate it, that's what I guessed it's impossible for C-drama writers to write a plot like this without fl being married to sml or ml and want revenge😅😂 it's one of my dislike tropes so I pass, thanks

thank you, is she was married or something like it before she rebirth!? thank you

our universe is it's another universe of waste of time drama 😅😂, that's suffering not a love triangle cliché

this year particularly is about stupid love triangle cliché I don't know any romance drama this year don't have love triangle and even in recent years this is the case😕🙄

and that's what love triangle in kdrama and cdrama to let you know, it's not the sexuel intense Hollywood love triangle when fl sleep with bunch of men and be confused between them 😅😂😂

hi, so fl was married to someone in her past and get back!? and want revenge!? and is ml also got back or only she !? thank you and is their the stupid love triangle cliché in this drama !? I appreciate it

thanks I appreciate it.

thank you, is the leads helpless against the king in this life also as in past!? because it's a frustrating trope to make the leads suffer till the end because of him !? thank you I appreciate it

Thank you, any SFL, or any woman who wants the ML, is just a waste of screen time because she doesn't have any chance not even slightly like sml or any men want fl still she let him get close or be his friend but mls stops that from start 😅😂 In recent K-dramas, love triangles are usually only about the FL having both the ML and the SML in love with her. 😅

Thank you. I know she won't move on or like the SML; that's why I asked. You know how, in the past, concubines were sometimes forced to sleep with their husbands even if they hated them 🙁 But I get that they didn't show yet her past completely . I'll wait until it ends and see, because I don't like things like that or sad endings. 🙃

thank you, i read he married her in past so is he forced himself on her or just separate her from ml by make her his concubine!? thank you

so sml who married her also remember her!? oh she.. here we go again with stupid love triangle 😅🙃🙃😂

you didn't see that big huge mask on his smal face 🙃🙃🙃

and she get with all that as she didn't do anything wrong say to me about plot armor without say it to me 😅😂😂😂, but she's the fl never wrong even when she used ml she twisted and she saitits to help you 🙂😂😂😂😂