10joyboy

I can't watch dramas with love triangle anymore, and unfortunately every recent kdrama have one 🥲

I don't think they will make ml a cheater and still be a green flag and it's romcom so it's far to write ml a scumbag , especially he didn't look like one but the kind of mls that suffer for love and do much effort in the relationship and be happy 🙂😅😂,

two mls one fl and not typical triangle!??
and who said I will watch!? watch one kdrama recently like watching every other one same fl with two men falling on her and some ex still arouyhee and ml change completely to please her while she focus on her job 😂😂 and writers make ml a joke to make comedy and show him silly in most romcom and jealous everytime fl. with another man as insecure men and make it funny, while fl have her ex or sml close to her, and ml can't have like that relationship with other women is crazy writing.

thanks for reply.

so this another waste of time stupid love triangle dramas!?

That's exactly what I wanted to say. But your explanation above makes it sound like it's men's fault for not being able to read women's minds and know what they want, as if they need to watch romance C-dramas and become like MLs who seem to have no life beyond loving the FL.

The solution is much simpler: just be direct and say what you want.

Men usually make things simple by communicating clearly about what they need, and women can do the same. It doesn't make them any less desirable or mean they're lowering their standards. In fact, it would make relationships much healthier because it allows a man to focus on doing what he can to make his partner happy based on what she actually wants, instead of trying to guess.

And in a relationship, both people should do what they can for each other instead of calculating everything like it's a job where you only do what you're paid for. A good relationship isn't built on constantly keeping score or treating every effort as a transaction. It's about both partners caring for each other and doing their part. this you don't see in most cdramas because mls doing everything while fl do that for her ex or she focus on her work and have no time for ml who is her second or third priority in life, while ml make her his priority and tolerant everything and be satisfied with a smile from her for him doing everything from chasing her to clean her house to cooking for her and her family to prove himself as a good choice to be a servant 😅😂

so women know what men want and read minds!? waw you have a great ability it's easy for you to please your husband he got a great woman 😅, or because men are easy to! understand and don't ask for much so it's easy to. understand them, and women themselves don't know what they want so how another person will understand them!? and yes hundred percent women and men should use their mouth to say what they want it's is to use we learn how from earlier in our life so let's not stop using it to have a great life with the person we share it with, not wanting them to read minds and see the future to please us 🙂

and that's also bad, it's not because one bad the other also has the right to be bad, and one different thing is in ml centric it's not about romance, but fls centric it is so they should give both same thing or make not romance and make ml her enemy or friend not her simp and that's it 😅🙃

It's 60% on its own and the other 40% is with the ML. 😅😂🙃

C-drama producers have figured out that using "empowered," independent, strong FLs together with MLs whose entire lives revolve around loving the FL is good business, so they keep using that formula to the very last drop.

Some MLs start out having everything, their own goals, careers, and personalities , but once they fall in love, they become nothing more than support characters that has one job to be in love and follow fl . Sometimes it feels like they'd be better off as the FL's maid than her man . 😂😂😂

who cares about the ml it's all about fl and her being a strong independent woman ml. is just her prize for doing the best for herself 😂😂😂 this is the theme in most cdramas like this all about fl and a little bit about ml and it's also around fl 😂😂😂

it's only okay if the fls do it in cdrama to move on even when they don't like others except him and in kdrama also, and when someone say fls should not they say it's life she shouldn't wait for someone break her heart even if he didn't and she date others to forget him it's also okay because it's a fl doing it, but when ml. doing it and it's rare to find one he's a jerk red flag 🙃🙃🙃😂😂😂😂

so half of fls in cdrama are jerks and red flags and don't deserve mls and are shameless that they break their hearts and don't even apologize 😅😂😂😂 but only mls can be that because he date another girl and didn't work after some dates and he stop 🙁🙁

and if she knows how to apologize it would be legendary change in cdrama writing style 😅😂🙃 not just make only ml apologizing and confess his love snf suffer alone emotionally and physically because of break up while fls become more good and badass women that don't need anything even ml is just a bonus for them 🙃🙃🙃

is she apologized for breaking hid heart!?

Yes, those cases exist, but in most other rom-coms they're rare. And in that drama, the FL was a red flag too.
The difference between MLs and FLs in these situations is that MLs usually apologize, beg for forgiveness, suffer to win the FL back, get jealous, and even act silly because they're desperate to fix the relationship.
FLs, on the other hand, are often written as cold. They don't seem to care much about the ML's feelings, rarely think about apologizing, and almost never make any real effort to win him back. Instead, they stay "strong," keep the SML as a friend, and seem to have a wonderful life without the ML.
Meanwhile, the ML is shown drinking, unable to sleep, dreaming about her day and night, and suffering constantly because he loves her so deeply. The FL might cry alone once or twice, but then she's back to acting strong and playing hard to get. The story focuses almost entirely on the ML's suffering, which makes it feel like he's the only one who truly love her and can't live without the relationship. while focus on fl being the boss and independent strong have a senior and she's the one in her work and I bet she will save ml work also and be the hero, it's a common cliche 😅😂

time skip in cdrama is just for fl to be strong and independent and that's it nothing else changes, and she have another man in love with her so when ml comes back he be insecure jealous and make a joke of himself so they call it comedy for fans 😂😂😂

and after all that she will not make effort to apologize or chase him to get back and she only sorry with herself not showing it like je wants, and even if they write her apologizing later she will do it after ml suffer and forgive her and apologize to her then she will say oh sorry and he will stop her from say it 😅😂 and feel guilty because it's his grandfather and act as she didn't do anything wrong 😅😂.

it's a cdrama ml , so being red flag is not allowed only being a simp and make a joke of himself by being jealous when fl with her friend or senior , and him saying I'm waiting you to beg , that would never happen and he will never wait for her to do that or even say sorry 😂😂😂

😂😂😂 I watched the last episode, and I got frustrated because they used the same stupid cliché again. I said it they would make him just another simp ML who chases after the FL even when she break his heart ( and don't say it's his stupid grandfather only the reason for the break up) , when MLs do it and break up with fls for their good most fans says he's red flag and he's don't deserve her because he should talk to her about it and trust her and this and that, and they deserve to suffer before she forgives them . When it's the FL, she doesn't even care and just lets him do everything, and another stupid cliché they make mls weak crying and can't live without fl, while fl after she break his heart she focus on her studies and work and happy about it till time she meets him again she will feel sad a little and play hard to get and she don't care if she get with him or not , mostly same thing in other dramas she will need to work with him and he will try to make her suffer and he will know about his grandfather doing, and feel sad so. he wants to be with her,and see her with the senior of her and be insecure jealous if they didn't use the misunderstood cliché that she's dating him, so he will forget what she did and chase after her and we will see the same simps behaviors.

I know C-dramas have been using this same cliché for years, so I don't need to watch every drama to know what will happen or what already happened it's not rocket science . 😅

And yes, I comment especially about this double standard between MLs and FLs, and how most of the time MLs are just simps, even when FLs break up with them, they have no dignity or backbone, and act they will die singles because one woman break their heart so no woman near them . 😅😂

Last time I checked, it's free to criticize the stupid things I don't like, especially the double standard between MLs and FLs, and it's free app, if it's only if I'm talking about same thing, I'm sure most of you also talking about same thing just we are different you praise this plots and I'm not because I had enough with it, and let's respect each other taste.

I can name tens of dramas with this cliché plot, but I know most viewers are woman , so they like this double standard and MLs as simps, whom they call "green flags." They have no dignity after they fall in love with the FL. They do everything for her and suffer a little and be getting jealous when she's with her friend who in friendzone or, in this drama, with her senior, and how he love her deeply after all this year's 10+,

I said it I bet he would be the one chasing after her, even after he said he would make her beg him for forgiveness or whatever he said during the breakup call. 🙂🙃

😂😂😂😂mls in cdrama always cooking alone and never anyone complain ( except me in this app) but now it's not a good thing when it's fl who cooking for them!? I was reading it's green flag for ml to do so while gl don't even how to boil an egg and it's not even a bad thing but now it's bad because it's ml who don't do anything about the cooking 😅😂😂😂😂

so fl don't have boundaries with him and still give him time to talk to her!?