first time I like a slap in cdrama π π because it's always fl slaps mls, but this slap is great and he deserves…
what!?? oky I hope you don't think like this in real life and think someday to slap a man, because you will wake up with your blue face and one tooth missing, π πππ . a crazy opinion to be honest, in cdrama mls are simps so I get that they take it as they deserve it, but use slapping as punishment or to say something is crazy, because I can't think how someone get slapped by his woman still has dignity to act like her man equal to her. an advice never ever slap a man if you don't know he's a weak simp , otherwise you will sleep on the floor π π
first time I like a slap in cdrama π π because it's always fl slaps mls, but this slap is great and he deserves…
yes it's more humiliating than anything else, and also when a women slap a man it's more humiliating, that's why I find it crazy how they write fls in cdrama slapping mls easy and mls accept it as nothing happened π
Oh, I am annoyed. Can CXQ needs to sit down somewhere. He is ridiculous. Honestly, can we think back when he gave…
first time I like a slap in cdrama π π because it's always fl slaps mls, but this slap is great and he deserves to get flogged till he hate thinking about her again
if they make ml story as deep with sfl I will agree with you but unfortunately they are just pawns to use to move the story that about fl and her life struggle sfl to show fl brilliance and ml to be the prize after she give everything to sml sk she needs someone that give everything for her while she don't do anything π π
after I read comments about sml and other men around fl Γ d her dumb think it about being only friend with them…
If she's soft only with him, I support that too. But here, she's soft with all the men around her, so they all fall for her and misunderstand her smiles and kindness as romantic interest. And she still thinks of the SML as a close friend after everything he did and even after knowing he has feelings for her. This makes the ML a simp in bad way that he tolerate things he don't like because he's afraid she will leave him or make her mad on his standards and boundaries , a man who gives more than he gets and she can't can't tolerate same thing if he did it
. But when both people simp for each other equally, that's what a healthy and perfect relationship looks like.
and fl still friends with him after doing all that!? wtf
I think the difference is that for me, once someone has romantic feelings and is still waiting for a chance, it stops feeling like a normal friendship. Maybe one side calls it βplatonic,β but if the other side clearly wants more, then the dynamic already changed. So my issue is not just interaction itself, but keeping that kind of relationship close while being in another relationship is disrespect on my opinion . And yes, maybe some people are okay with that, but I personally wouldnβt be comfortable with it. Especially if that person starts acting like they have any right to comment on our relationship or stay emotionally involved while waiting for an opportunity and act like he's special . I would rather stay single than be in that situation, tolerating another person who wants my partner and , my partner give him time and laugh and sad with him. ( like some even accept to be with someone still friends with their exs ππI still don't know how they can accept it and live normal, good for them I suppose)
About self-respect, accepting everything and tolerate anything is not respect yourself , one should have boundaries and standards , People have different standards and boundaries. For me, boundaries are part of respect in a relationship, and one of boundaries is not to be friends with male friends that have feelings for you . If someone else is okay with it, thatβs their choice, but I know I wouldnβt accept it.
And yes, I know reverse harem stories are built around multiple men liking the FL, so Iβm not surprised by it. I just personally donβt enjoy that dynamic because many dramas make every male character fall for the FL too easily just to make her seem special, and their first role in the drama is to love fl not something else, but fl role to have what she wants and being with a man is extra ,and the ML is expected to tolerate everything, apologize first , and never disagree with her, and if he did he should apologize or she be mad at him . The double standards in a lot of C-dramas are what bother me more than the tropes itself π
and fl still friends with him after doing all that!? wtf
Because she's married, she can't be friends with someone who thinks of her as more than just a friend. Or is it normal for you to be friends with someone who likes you romantically? Sorry, but this is disrespectful toward the husband or boyfriend. And if the husband or boyfriend accepts this, he needs help understanding what self-respect is π . In C-dramas, they always prove that friendship between women and men is impossible because they can't write a male second lead as βjust a friendβ without making him fall in love with her too.
by doing that is to work and get help from. other men but not ml!? is it like this her too because on other cdrama…
thank you, I hate also sad endings lol π, I like dramas like in my profile the last ancient drama I enjoy is the brocade and the sword , and I also wach love like galaxy but I skip nearly more than 25 episode so I start when she and ml start relationship when he ask to marry her π , I can't watch her lovin smls before ml . have a good day
and also when a women slap a man it's more humiliating, that's why I find it crazy how they write fls in cdrama slapping mls easy and mls accept it as nothing happened π
This makes the ML a simp in bad way that he tolerate things he don't like because he's afraid she will leave him or make her mad on his standards and boundaries , a man who gives more than he gets and she can't can't tolerate same thing if he did it
. But when both people simp for each other equally, that's what a healthy and perfect relationship looks like.
And yes, maybe some people are okay with that, but I personally wouldnβt be comfortable with it. Especially if that person starts acting like they have any right to comment on our relationship or stay emotionally involved while waiting for an opportunity and act like he's special . I would rather stay single than be in that situation, tolerating another person who wants my partner and , my partner give him time and laugh and sad with him. ( like some even accept to be with someone still friends with their exs ππI still don't know how they can accept it and live normal, good for them I suppose)
About self-respect, accepting everything and tolerate anything is not respect yourself , one should have boundaries and standards , People have different standards and boundaries. For me, boundaries are part of respect in a relationship, and one of boundaries is not to be friends with male friends that have feelings for you .
If someone else is okay with it, thatβs their choice, but I know I wouldnβt accept it.
And yes, I know reverse harem stories are built around multiple men liking the FL, so Iβm not surprised by it. I just personally donβt enjoy that dynamic because many dramas make every male character fall for the FL too easily just to make her seem special, and their first role in the drama is to love fl not something else, but fl role to have what she wants and being with a man is extra ,and the ML is expected to tolerate everything, apologize first , and never disagree with her, and if he did he should apologize or she be mad at him .
The double standards in a lot of C-dramas are what bother me more than the tropes itself π