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But this is different in the drama. In the novel, we didn’t see his sad, boring face for this long, nor did we need to listen to his sad insecurities 😅🙂. Unfortunately, she loved him so much that she couldn’t move on easily , not like you said, that she didn’t have any feelings for him at all. Yes, she’s strong, but she has still become weak for him and lost herself because of what he did and said. Now, with the ML, she’s getting herself back.

I'm talking about the romance in the drama, not about other things, her falling for sml for half of the drama is what makes her go through everything else in a way . If you analyze her personality before the SML and after she falls for him, you can see the change.

yes she didn't do anything to him, and yes, he bullied her, but that's true from our point of view, not his! From his perspective, he thinks she did something.

Her journey is like what you and I said also,
and I'm talking after she's done with that and falls for ml , she has to fall harder or experience a stronger love, just like he did. I'm not saying she has to do it now or before, but once they’re both in a relationship. Otherwise, it's crazy that she doesn’t do anything or fall harder than she did for the SML before , who didn’t do anything for her or love her.
I hope you understand what I’m trying to say my english isn’t great enough to make it clearer.

I think there will still be a discussion between them, and she will reject him and let it out for good. I hope they don’t use the cliché of her being his friend and feeling sad for him later, because I would give this drama a low rating, even though I’m usually against rating dramas, even the ones I don’t like 😅.

what episode she did that!? I didn't see her put him in his place( 🗑️) and build boundaries with his cold sad face 😅

It will get worse later if she doesn’t do anything or falls even harder, because it’s crazy that she does more and loves SML more while he hasn’t done anything and even treated her badly. Meanwhile, ML, who worships her, she just ends up liking him after everything he’s done for her 🙄. I’d be disappointed, like in most recent C-dramas, where MLs do everything, and FLs did that for their exs , like in every Cdrama with fl had an ex or boyfriend you see how much she did for him and he was toxic but she still tolerate that and make effort to stay together, but when she gets with ml she just receive never do anything 😅

"Your vibe attracts your tribe" 🙂

I'm a man 🙂,

and I know what you are saying , Also, there are dramas where both fall in love with each other quickly, yet there’s still more conflict than in this drama, It’s not a rule that if both fall fast, there’s no conflict.

I know this drama’s plot is about her falling for another man for more than half of the story and how hard it is for her to move on, even when SML isn’t even a good guy, and how ML makes her fall for him, among other things.
But to make it fair, she also has to do something after fall in love with ML , she can fall harder and makes effort if the situation needs that , like how she loved her crush and the effort she put to be with him , not just letting ML do everything because he loves her more, and we get to the saying that who loves more suffer or do more ,
I hope you understand what I’m saying.
have a good evening

I don't know what you mean! Did I say something wrong? If you watch the recent K-drama Dynamite Kiss, there is an SML who was her friend for 20 years, but he still falls for her, fights the ML to be with her, and even confesses!

Thank you. I read that it has many leads, and that second leads and other couples are given equal time , or even more than the main leads. They even introduce a new family around episode 10 and give them a couple of episodes. So I get what you’re saying. I’ll pass on this, because I watch dramas for romance, not for the complexity of real-life drama and problems 😅 I get entertainment with the fact that it's unrealistic .

And why wouldn’t he be the dream of every normal woman?
Rich, handsome, tall, supportive, does whatever his partner asks without even discussing it. His whole life revolves around his woman. He doesn’t go near any other woman, not even his friend. He has a great family, and he doesn’t ask for anything from his woman except to accept his confession and do him the favor of letting him be her boyfriend 🙂🙂
If any woman says, “He’s not my type,” you know she doesn’t love herself that much 🤣😅
Because who would ever say no to this kind of dream man?!

But unfortunately, we can’t say the same thing about the FL. And this is what C-dramas have been doing recently: perfect MLs, while FLs only start to develop and become better after bad experiences, toxic relationships, or because of their insecurities.

They all start as just friends, but later he says that he loved her at first sight or fell for her because of this and that, especially after he sees that she’s starting to like the ML 🤣😅. If that “friend” isn’t married, I bet he’ll fall for her 😅

one episode per week and there even one per month lol 🤣😅

When he talked about the first time he saw his future wife, and described it so precisely he even remembered the exact second , I wonder , did he actually look at his watch at that moment so he could remember it later, or is he just lying ? 🤣😁

yes I agree completely with you, and this Written intentionally by the writers to make it like this , and simp around fl will always look more good than ml that still act normal a little more 😅 so audience like her to chose sml , and like you said because he's handsome or he helps her always without asking anything and always agree with her lol ,

thank you so much I appreciate it, and you save me wasting my time I was thinking they are a couple so I want to watch it , but if they have no romantic relationship why they act like they did !? thank you and have a good day, I like romance and I think this will have a mature relationship between her and heal each other, but you saying it's just platonic 😮‍💨😮‍💨 another reason why I hate Korean melodrama just sadness and open endings 😅🥲

I just read they didn't even end up together!? so what is the plot!? to waste time lol , thank you I appreciate it

She was angry at him because he didn’t call to say he was fine while she was searching for him everywhere . She got mad and didn’t accept his apology when he comes back from helping someone to go to hospital . Later, she thought about it and told him he didn’t need to apologize. He, in turn, used the situation to see if she would worry about him, to figure out if she starting to like him. Let’s wait until tomorrow and see how she reacts, and whether she will apologize to him the way he apologized to her

I like mature romance also,
is they get together fast or it's slow burn and you mentioned that they don't get screen time much!? so their scenes together is not enough!? thank you

if you remember the first leads when they get together and is their romance good!? I watch a clip fl was with another amn and a his son maybe and ml watch them and he get mad and drive fast and he didn't want to talk to her ! is that man her ex and she has a son with him !? and why she let him touch her hair like he's her boyfriend!? thank you and sorry for bothering you

I don't blame sml because they are simps , but I think fls don't have boundaries with other men even when they dating mls , unfortunately this what is about recent Cdramas writers are lazy to think of something than this stupid tropes.