10joyboy

Yes, let's wait and see .

I dislike waiting, that’s why I usually wait until a drama ends before watching it, but this time I’m watching it ongoing, and now I have to wait one episode per day😮‍💨

thank you and have a good night

Maybe. I’ll wait for the episode and see.

I have different experience about getting mad first and then feeling relieved.
Everyone I suppose reacts differently, for me, you feel relieved first, then get mad if they did something stupid, didn’t call and they can do it, or whatever.


The poor ML just wants to see her worried about him, but she tells him, “If it was a stranger, I’d still worry about him... .” 🤣😅🤣
He really has to work much harder before she opens her closed heart , a heart that’s still need cleaning up after the SML left it without even cleaning his place. 😅🤣

yes let's wait and see , I hope I'm wrong,but I know what I said what will happen unfortunately.

let's see , yes if fl show deep love and have good intimate chemistry they be great

Yes, it’s like she wants to say: “It’s not because I like you, it’s just humanity, lol. And you’re only a little more special because you’re still chasing me.” 🤣😅
Even when he just wants to hear a small word that shows she loves him, she says: “Even if it were a stranger, I’d be worried.” 😅
Honestly, I want to see how she react if the SML got into an accident ?
That way we will hit two birds with one stone 😁

I don’t trust C-drama writers. Maybe you’re talking about the novel, but they usually don’t keep the good parts from it. LOL. I’ve watched many C-dramas adapted from novels, and they always cut the intimate scenes, give the SML more screen time, and change the FL so she doesn’t show deep love for the ML like she does in the novel.
I hope I’m wrong and that you’re right.

That last word you used, “pride,” is a big no in this situation, and she should apologize to him for it (I know FLs in C-dramas unfortunately don’t apologize).
I’m talking about the way she handled it. I hope she becomes more mature after this, learns how to communicate calmly, accepts his apology if he already apologized, and also apologizes herself if she did something wrong. That’s what a real relationship is.
I’m giving this issue more attention than it deserves 😅🤣
Thank you, and have a good night.

I get that he’s the one who went to her after she calmed down and apologized again, not her realize that she was wrong and go to him , because When she was mad at him at first, she was wearing her scarf, and when she told him he didn’t need to apologize second time they talked , she wasn’t wearing it .
I was hoping this would be different and that we’d see a healthy, strong couple, but I guess I’ll be disappointed again 😅🤣

I know she saying and mad at him because she's worried but it's a wrong way , honestly this how I understand this lazy writing.

Just think about it in real life: if you’re worried about someone you love and they didn't call, but after you do a big effort searching for them , then you find them and they’re okay, your first reaction would be relief and happiness. You’d hug them, ask what happened, and then say, “You should have called me if you could, so I wouldn’t worry.”and if they say sorry you will say it's okay what matters is that you're fine.

You wouldn’t say, “I searched everywhere for you” or “I looked like a fool doing that.” or your apology do nothing for me I don't want it , Saying it like that makes it sound as if worrying about him is a duty or a job, not something that comes from love, and fear .

maybe you’re right, I’ll just wait and see what she actually does. But honestly, if it turns out like the preview, I’ll drop it. It shows that the ML has to be perfect for her and do everything right , so she won’t worry,and if he didn't call he should be in hospital so she don't look like a fool searching for him and worried for nothing, 🤣😅😅🤣

yes I agree with you completely, she needs to build China's great wall like boundaries with him so he can't cross it ever .

I just get disappointed because of the preview of next episodes 😅 they do her bad really, in my opinion.
you watch the preview!?

the preview of 20 / 21 episode is a frustration for me .

The first thing she did showing her feeling for him , was worry about him and search for him But after because he didn’t call her to say he's okay , she got mad at him for making her worried and look like a fool when she saw him safe !? I knew writers will make her do something stupid like this . How do you get mad when you finally see him safe and okay, just because he didn’t send a message? So now he’s wrong? Wow. Just because you did something for once out of love for him, he’s suddenly supposed to call you so you won’t worry about him!?
And then he’s apologizing like a little puppy his head down !?
Is it just me who didn’t like the way she talked to him? Making her worry about him and saying she search for him like a fool!? I’d be happier being a fool or an idiot searching for someone I love, and seeing him safe and okay, and i be happy and I will run hugging him out of fear and relief that he’s okay not what I was thinking , not getting mad because he didn’t call while he was busy or whatever, what matters is he's okay and safe not what I feel or what I did while worried about him !? another disappointment from her and how he also act like guilty and he even use this also to test her because she still don't show him any signs about how she feels about him , I don't think this is a healthy way to start with 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨
And some friends say she’ll be a good partner for him!? He didn’t even do anything wrong, and she can’t listen to him or accept his apology!? And why should he even apologize!? I say maybe that he didn't call to test her yes but anything else is crazy to apologize because you're saving someone or you make her worried is no no

That’s what makes me think the FL is not on her right mind, for likes him for so long, and she still keeps thinking about him, I just watched episode 18, and she’s still wondering what he meant by his feelings and his looks , even though he likes her , but her cousin tells her that he’s a fake person … she still needs someone else to say it to her?! It’s just frustrating at this point for me , unfortunately.

they need to give me more intimate scenes and kissing scenes and fluffy moments to wash this frustration 🤗

Her loving him deeply is a given 😅,( I argue she won’t love ML like that later , poor ml 🥲). Still, because of what he did, it will be more easier for her to move on , not like he was a nice guy with her , and she was thinking he has a girlfriend so it's another reason for her to move on fast, but I guess you're right she's young and it's her first love and crush,so it's a big step in her life to take.

That’s why it’s just a sarcastic joke, lol 😁😅😅
But if we’re talking seriously, I don’t even agree with the FL not moving on after so long, after all the things he did to her, and she still cries over him. She should have more self-respect and a stronger personality, and not look weak in front of him just because she confessed to him and liked him 🙂
But what can we do? It’s a C-drama, FLs in recent C-dramas fall harder for the SML than they ever fall for the ML later 😅

😅😂😅😁
I’m just hoping the FL also shows love to him as much as she did for her first love, and actually makes an effort after they get together, not the ML always has to do everything before and after in the relationship and she don't think about doing anything .

And oh boy, if they use the cliché where she becomes friends with the SML and the ML doesn’t say anything , and
… he’s a loser don't have self respect I'm saying 🤡🙃

I just want them to change these clichés for once!

I'm asking if the leads are in a relationship this fast!? so I guess their will be break up melodrama later because they get happy at the beginning 😅

I disagree with he has to tell her about not dating the other girl , if she likes him she should make him change his mind and wait for him lol , like ml doing right now knowing she still liking another man , and he's falling for her more and more and fighting her to fall for him and move on from her first love 😅😂😂joking

sorry for the long paragraph and for bothering you with my rants, I just let my disappointment about Cdramas recently most of romance dramas is like this , so I can't watch it anymore and enjoy it

Yes, let’s agree to disagree.
Her saying “I wish I had met you first” is basically saying that he is better than the man she is still in love with and can’t move on from, not that she regrets loving that man.

And I know she will later confess that she doesn’t regret loving him once she finally moves on because it's make her grown and he helped her know herself and find the love of her life 😅. Remember what I said 🙂

And if I know C-dramas even a little, she will also become his friend .

About slow burn: I like slow burn too( I watch road home and meet yourself and other few slow burn Cdramas and it was great because of equality between them )
but I don't like slow burn with ML falls in love at first sight in episode one, then waits for years, then months after meeting again, gets rejected, getting tested by her… while during all those years she was crushing on another man, even after that man treated her badly and rejected her, she still didn’t move on, and while the ML is pursuing her, she’s still liking the SML, doesn’t set boundaries with him, and this continues for half the drama!!
If they wrote it so that the ML also had another crush, or that he didn’t fall for her until she moved on, then it would be fine. They have 36 episodes to do that and let them get to know each other like a normal couple. (like the Cdrama meet yourself)
But making it always the same trope , the ML being an “old virgin,” falling first and harder, staying in love from one glance for years, getting rejected, then having to pass her tests so she can move on from her crush, and he’s completely fine with that? No normal man would do that to try to be the rebound .

And I bet if the roles were reversed, most audience who like this trope would hate it. They’d say the FL has no dignity or personality , that she’s just a rebound so he can get over the woman he still loves and he wants princess treatment 😅😂. But because it’s the FL doing this, suddenly it’s “wow, green flag, mature, high EQ ml , she's strong , cute, ” 😅.

I’m saying all this and sorry for rants, because I believe in equality in relationships. I don’t like making one lead a simp for the other, tolerating everything just because he fell in love at first sight.and doing everything in the relationship, while the other just reseaving and Lucky to have the perfect person after years running after the wrong!! And doing nothing for the right one but make him do everything !? What logic is this in this recent Cdramas !?

edit; waw I just realized how long it is lol don't bother to read it it's just waste of time 😁and repeating what I said before, have a good day.


All this pre-dating and emotional labor is only for her, not for him , he doing it to make her know him and fall for him and help her move on, because He fell for her to the max , loves her so much that he doesn’t even look at another woman for years , even with misunderstanding her about the accident, and he’s 28, still a virgin, and never loved anyone else.
Just like always in recent C-dramas, mls act like have some allergy of women till they meet fls 😂😅 waw I just realized how long it is lol don't bother to read it it's just waste of time 😁

so they will release all episodes at once!? this way we can see the drama is just another recycled cliché or it's have some originality than nisy two men fighting for the fl while she forced to date sml because of some scandal or something 😂