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and why she do things behind his back!? so he misunderstood her or he's just misunderstood her and she don't do anything behind his back,!? and is there a love triangle in this drama, thank you

Never trust a K-drama male lead bragging about having multiple exes — they say he's a playboy, but he never acts like one, not even close. What annoys me more is how they always bring back the female lead’s ex and make him part of the plot somehow, while the male lead’s ex, even if she exists, is just briefly mentioned and never shows up — unlike the FL’s ex in recent K-dramas.
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So, is this another K-drama cliché where the female lead has an ex who comes back, while the male lead has no ex? And he ends up feeling jealous and going through all the usual clichés? Also, did he just lie that the second female lead is his ex, or am I wrong? thank you

so I get that he still didn't fall for her lol , because when he do he will be the simp every mls of other Cdramas do , unfortunately they never make him like that all the drama have masculinity, I stopped watching Cdrama just because of this that there no manly mls always love slaves and servant to fls

Oh boy, so she’s a 304 lol. It’s not for me, especially if the male lead knows that and accepts it, and she’s a mistress too. Wow, this is one of the reasons why I never trust a J-drama to be normal. They always make these horrible romance dramas and act like cheating is okay, and not a big mistake. But I get it—I even watched a video of a guy asking Japanese people their opinions about cheating, and the majority, if not all of them, said it’s okay, and some said it’s okay if I don’t know about it lol. This scenario in this drama is more like adult Japanese movies lol

is fl kissed all the male actors in this drama !? I read she love one and make sex with another and kisses a third!!? and she's not having a backbone to say no to anyone!!!? and ml is he a cucumber knowing she's sleeping with another man but still like her !? thank you I get confused

but she has something for the red flag men and she give up on the nice guy more easier lol

So this is what romance is? To degrade the male lead to being just a ring around her finger, simply because he doesn’t trust her — even though her family killed his and did so many other things? And somehow he deserves it? is this what about this drama !? Thank you

So the 'stubborn FL' tag means she's stubborn mainly about work? And is she the kind who doesn't listen to others even when they're right, just because she's stubborn? Thank you

Let's wait and see, because I don't think she’ll listen to the doctor—especially since she's sad. I really hate how they use alcohol in Asian dramas, especially K-dramas, more than water.
I just watched a clip where he was shocked that she wanted to break up with him. I don’t trust the Koreans not to turn it into just another misunderstanding, lol.
If they use it only as a trigger for the story and her ex never comes back into the picture, that would be much better for me.

In real life, Korea has laws that let criminals go free or get light sentences if they were drunk—even in cases of sexual assault or car accidents, even if the victim is killed. They claim it's because the person was mentally impaired due to alcohol.

just don't waste your time

I read that sun xiang cheated in yu fei and get with the one she cheated with and after dating him he cheated on her and she get back to you fei and he accept it her !!!! is it true or it's misleading information, thank you

So she didn’t even confront him about his cheating!? And she ended up making herself look like the bad one!? I hate this cliché too—like it’s somehow wrong to confront a cheater and stand up for yourself, and instead, you're supposed to 'save face' by making yourself the bad one!? The logic is not logic-ing.

It seriously feels like all Koreans have an undiagnosed alcohol problem—they drink more alcohol than water in their dramas! 😅

"Thank you. I asked because I hate the cliché where there's a misunderstanding or the male lead hides something to break up, and then after some time he comes back saying it was just a misunderstanding and he wants to get back together ,

Another Asian drama where the female lead starts off with someone else, breaks up with him, and goes back to her hometown where she meets the male lead — who's basically a single dog and most cases even virgin that still love fl after so many years lol

How did she discover he was cheating? I read that she just saw him buying a pregnancy test and broke up with him because she thought he was cheating. Is their relationship really so weak that she ended it over something like that without even having a discussion? What if he was buying it for a friend or someone else? Lol. thank you

it's good, but is it same cliche of ml fall for her first and harder and she still struggling with her last relationship!? thanks

Most K-dramas and C-dramas portray men as nothing more than love slaves, servants, and spineless individuals with no dignity. In many C-dramas, the male leads do everything perfectly for the so-called strong, independent female leads—who often don't do much themselves or even apologize for their mistakes. Sometimes the male leads are even humiliated, and it's treated as a joke.

For example, I recently watched a few episodes of a poorly written C-drama called Got a Crush on You. The male lead had zero dignity, while the female lead made big mistakes and never apologized. Instead, he was the one who came to apologize.

One recurring cliché is that men are always the ones cooking for women. In that drama, the male lead and the female lead’s father were both cooking for her and her mother. It’s presented as completely normal, not even a shared responsibility. It’s as if Asian shows are trying to reverse traditional gender roles—especially the idea of women as housewives taking care of the home—by making men take over everything, even when the woman isn’t working. They’re the ones wearing aprons, doing chores, and acting submissive to the women, and they make it like if the independent and strong fl know how to cook and cook for her man is degrading and it's not okay lol, they even make them don't apologize and play hard to get and always think my way or highway if they discuss something with men ,and it's all for the majority of viewers who call this kind of men green forest and wish they date someone like that

it will be more good if they keep this energy after they start dating,

One of the worst female leads in a K-drama for me is this one. I'm talking about how she "loved" the male lead—she was the one who hurt him the most, yet she never apologized or even said "I love you." It’s as if saying it would somehow give him power over her and allow him to hurt her, which he never did throughout the drama.

I’m still amazed at how cold-hearted she was. She rejected him after realizing how badly she had misunderstood and blamed him—even though he nearly died saving her.

For me, it was clearly one-sided love. I’d argue with anyone about it. She always put herself first, never trusted or believed him. And even when she did, it wasn’t strong or lasting. One small misunderstanding, and she’d make him out to be the villain—while treating everyone else as better than him, even someone who sexually assaulted her.

He loved her unconditionally and sacrificed everything for that love, but she always prioritized herself. Even after realizing how terribly she treated him and how he was always there for her, she made him suffer again—leaving him sad and lonely after marrying another man first. Now that she’s single, she still rejects him because she’s ashamed of what she did.

But she never thinks about what he wants—which is just to be with her. He’s not angry. He loved her even when she was married to someone else. Now, when there’s finally a chance, she makes him suffer again. They made his love so strong that even when he had amnesia, he remembered her and the promises he made to her . Meanwhile, she just went on living her life normally, helping others calmly. how it's a good romance when just one making effort to love the other!?