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yes , if you didn't respect yourself, it doesn't matter if others respect you or not, and this is what we see in this kind of dreams, that mls don't respect themselves so they don't have no problem others disrespect them in any way or stop them, because they have no self respect.

if ml respect himself he wilynot chase after fl so long and get pushed many times and still sacrifice things for her to just look at him. 🙃

have a good night 🌺

and we see that it's not what she was needed to get Heald , after she just start dating him she left him again for six months and this time she gets a therapy, not continue pretending like everything is okay and she's strong and she moved on from her trauma.

it's the most thing in relationship even more important than love or anything else, because like you said it's the foundation nit just one of it in my opinion, if anyone respect himself he will leave a relationship even if he love the other person and the other person love him , but he didn't respect him , ( like in most Cdrama romance fls love mls but don't respect them but mls still chasing after them and disrespect themselves too by that)

lol I get many blocks because of it in it's page lol .😅😂 I don't care I just say my opinion and if it's offended someone it's his business, like if he likes a drama it's kit like everyone should like it too 🙃

like I mentioned to you this one is just another last minute happy ending romance drama that have zero romance and it's even at Start it was just a shallow relationship just because one sided effort it was last for so long, or it was never meant to be a long relationship.

I still don't see any Cdrama fl has to make effort to win ml exept one old Cdrama I didn't remember the name fl after killed ml for many times in many lifes he had enough simping and make her cry blood before he forgive her lol , exept this one I don't know any Cdrama fl making effort and it take her many episodes to win ml back not like the cliche in this recent Cdramas mlmjist pretend to be hard to get ( like the first frost) ml act hard to get for one episode lol and she didn't decide to chase after him till she stayed with him for a year Lola dn her chasing was not even a couple of episodes lol,

you will never find the answer not just for this drama but in all Cdrama romance when mls fall from first Sight and act like the fl is the only woman in the universe and most of times they never dated someone else or will exept her even if take years to get toghether lol

What do you wait from a materialistic woman who only thinks about work work, and doesn't even think to understand her boyfriend or what happening in his life like he does, he's not someone she respects after all the self-humiliation he does to himself by running after her like she's the only woman in the universe even when she didn't do anything to make him love her like that

I bet she will not even be sad for long before find another love interest chasing her and she play hard to get and just focus on her materialistic life lol

tell me about it I dropped first time because of that exact scene, and how she take it seriously about that she's not the one who fell first like it's degrading if she's the one !!!? and in that scene how rude was the sfl ordered her boyfriend sml to be quiet and go cook for her and he just say yes !?? I was like is this really happening!? how they disrespect their men , and what absurd is the ml start to watch the samean his girlfriend admiring, and another annoying scene is how they make them sleep toghether for first time by making her forget her keys and have no one to help her so she has to sleep in his house!!!

and convince me how it's good and like you said they drag fl one side love till until very last episode and ml also, and how they get engaged directly because they don't have more time for dating!? and how she didn't do anything for him romantically and he was always just in friendzone, and he was like a sml not ml get the girl at the end lol !!!
I really Still don't understand how iys one of high rated romance Cdramas!?!

lol , yes he act like let her experience another man and if she didn't like it after I'm still waiting till she get satisfied and just me in line she will chose me lol

Lol, I remember fl double standard about ML cheating and getting cheated on, when he was the cheater she got mad and talked bad about him but when she understood that his girlfriend cheated she didn't say anything and even humiliated him that he cheated on by his girlfriend and she didn't say anything to his ex !!?

I still don't understand how he can be in love with her for so many years and even watch her date another man in time she rejected him and still wanted to be with her when she agreed to be with him !?

I didn't watch just read comments and watched some clips.

In all drama if you remember what she did to show her love for him or in the relationship!? Or it's just one-sided love and he has to make everything and it's his luck that she accepts to be with him so he has to not ask for something else!!?

thank you

but fl was not green flag and they get together just because ml low his standards and what he wants from the relationship to be with her , but she never give up anything to be with him, like he did, yes it's mature because he accept to be below her and do what she wants to be with her, if he was like her they will never be together because she will never low her standards or give up something to be with him, and let's not forget that she has more body count then the women he shake hands with lol so imagine lol

yes, her logic is not normal women will think lol to sleep around with men because men do it and don't get stigma for it so she sleep around and give it to the men she hate and she thinks she take revenge for women lol any women think by sleeping with men she take some revenge or she will make them sad is an idiot to think like that unfortunately majority of men will sleep with anything and take it as an achievement and that they win and specially if it was someone like the fl they will talk about it for years lol not that she did them bad !!!?

oh boy lol, I read comments about it and I will never watch it even if they give me money lol , I hate something called love triangle and fl have multiple relationships and ml still chasing her and specially if he didn't date anyone else and was just waiting for her , and I read she was even so close to her boss and if he was not married she will have dated him lol and she have less time with ml than her boss!!! waw Cdrama years ago was Soo frustrating to watch with lov triangle and cold fls and simps more than now,

yes , mature relationship that both partners make effort for each other and love each other, and respect each other, not only on one to make the relationship successful,
I like the Cdrama with this kind of mature relationships like; road home/ forever and ever/hidden love/the brocade and sword ( after she knows she misunderstood him she make more effort to win him back and apologize sincerely and show her love )

this dramas remember with mature relationship that both make effort even if someone make more than the other but not like this fantasy romance about Simps and red flags fls

Yes, it's a toxic way to show them loving fls like that and they always fell in love from first sight, and chased after fls even if fls rejected them a couple of times and they low themselves to be in friendzone and do everything to make fls fall for them !!! What is absurd is when they write mls as CEOs and high-value men fall for fls and all the time chase them and make all the effort, and help them, and give their jobs less time and focus more on chasing fls who are more interested in her job and career ( and she never in drama make him more important than her job), and they write that kind of men never being in relationships and perfect green forest that do everything in the relationship and never ask for anything from their partner lol, even being friends with men that also like them romantically is okay because they are afraid to make them angry if they say something about their jealousy, so they don't have any boundaries or standard.


like you said it's pure fantasy, like how someone will wait faithfully for years and years without even look at another women thinking always about some ex that he don't even know is she's married or in relationship!!! and still love her and want to be with her even if she is married or in relationship or she don't love him anymore!? and who is this man who accept to get humiliated by her and her friend and her love interest and still act normal and accept it, and has to apologize every time but she never apologize for her being a bad girlfriend in past!?
this is just in tv shows specially asian shows

You're the minority here who think logically about these Cdramas with simps and red flag fls that only think about themselves and their careers, and mls has to do everything in the relationship and tolerate everything from fls, and apologize even if he didn't do anything wrong and never wait for fl to apologize, or do something for him in the relationship except give him some intimacy when she wanted lol.

I was waiting she make more effort to win him back and show her love like she did for the sml but no this crazy writer make ml a big simp and made fl act like he has to do everything to win her, and she don't give a dam if she ended with him or not, and what is crazy is that she didn't make them get together earlier to see fl doing something for him and even date for some time before get engaged from start without give FL time to make it for him and show her love , not just him !?

Yes, it was the logical thing he had to do but no he got back to her and chased her and she acted hard to get and humiliated him and acted like she never did anything wrong, and it's his fault that he likes her and she was just using him like a boyfriend take her in dates and always beside her in time she was running after the other guy that doesn't look at her and was liking another girl, she did for the sml more she did for ml in all drama, and she always blaming him and she never says it's her fault lol,

I still don't get how that drama is one of the best romance Cdramas for the majority of viewers and has a high rating,

the writer is a girl who writes her dream men and how she likes to make them love slaves that don't see any other women in the world except fls, and fl has multiple men around her and even she loves and makes more effort for someone that doesn't like her but for the one who loves her, she makes him suffer to be with her and has to deserve her !!!!