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I’ve finally finished the drama and honestly, I skipped a lot. I’m not a fan of this relationship dynamic because I’ve been in similar situations where my partner casually throws insults and harsh words. Trust me, it can seriously impact your partner’s mental health and self confidence. So I hope this drama teaches us a lesson. please don’t romanticise this kind of love in real life, especially Luke from episodes 1-21. Luke’s version of the episodes from 22-24 is fine and much better. However, I doubt people can change in real life. I give Flora a round of applause for leaving everything after six years of hard work. I understand why she finally blew up in episode 21. she’s been keeping it all inside. It was the right move for her to leave everything behind and start fresh. That’s how she slowly regained herself.

But Boran and Sun Qian did well in their acting. Hope to see more works from them in the future!

does not matter how mad you are , you are letting your ego run the show and let other guy touch your gf when she is drunk?!! are freaking kidding me. his ego and jealousy is more important than letting other guy touching her? we not able to prioritise which one is more important in certain situations? he can just call her next day and COMMUNICATE his feeling. ask her why you never tell your ex that i am your boyfriend? are you embarrassed of me? did he do this? nope he use his filthy mouth to hurt her verbally again. that is his nature. when he is angry or jealous , he will be very generous with his verbal attack. the fact that you guys are ok the way he belittles her is already such a big red flag. he is a grown up man, way older her but he is the immature one in this relationship.

exactly what i tried to tell people. they forgot that for the past 4 years, he threw all the mean words to her and did any of them think of how this will impact her mentally? yes she forgives but does not mean the damage is not done. it’s done. he also did alot of mistake but never once flora uttered any mean words to him. the matchmaker and ex boyfriend, yes that is her mistake but doesn’t mean he can casually throw insults words just to hurt her. that is his nature, when he is hurt, he attack her verbally. he apologises then repeat. but the damage is done. i dont like the part when he allows her ex boyfriend touching her when she was drunk. any partner doesn’t matter how mad you are that time, i will never allow anyone touching my partner especially if they’re drunk. he can just be a man and say “bro,she is my girlfriend. back off” but no, he let his insecurity/ego run the whole show. he just sits there and watch her being taken care by her ex boyfriend, how pathetic he can be? if this happens in real life, i dont think any of us want to stay in this relationship. it’s exhausting and too toxic.

can he be a man for once and tell him i am his boyfriend and you may go? why is it so hard for him to do that. the fact that he allows other guy touching her because of his jealousy is disturbing enough. you know he is not a kid right? in normal situation, there’s no one will allow someone touching their partner. why is she the problem here? plus she was drunk, even worst

it’s because he is attractive , so people close one eye instead. he literally belittles her calling her cheap, obedient, weak, no brain, stupid multiple times, around him, she literally walking around the eggshell with him while when she is with her friends, she can become herself. idk why they treat him like a kid when he supposed to be the matured one in the relationship. when he made a mistake and repeat it again, people said thats how he grown up, but when flora did something wrong, oh its freaking red flag. it looks like flora always need to be the one understanding him and become his laser mouth punching bag .they said why she never tell him anything, because from the start, he never created that safe space for her..if this happens in real life,this is literally a no go in the relationship. but they are just too blind with his appearance. maybe thats why people date handsome man eventho he is a red flag

I know right. if this is in real life, we will be the one tell our friend “girl what are you doing, leave him now, you deserve better !!” 😆

Honestly, I don’t enjoy their relationship dynamics. it feels toxic AF. A lot of people have asked why Flora never tells Luke anything when she’s in trouble, and honestly, I think the reason is simple. he never created a safe space for her to do that.

From the very beginning, he already looked down on her. After their first night together, Luke set the wrong tone. First, it was “this is just casual,” then “friends with benefits,” and eventually, a secret relationship.

Because of that, Flora has been insecure since day one. She feels like she doesn’t belong in his world, so she tries her best to reach the same level as him, especially career wise. All she wants is for him to see her as an equal.

But even though now he’s her boyfriend, I honestly don’t see much equality in their relationship. Luke always seems to be the dominant one. He’s older and the experienced, while she’s younger and the naive one. Yet somehow, he’s the one acting immature here.

He casually throws hurtful remarks at her, and of course, that affects her mentally. Flora looks up to him, so when someone you love says something hurtful, it cuts even deeper. It’s like being stabbed in the heart.

Yes, he apologizes, and yes, she forgives him. But she’s always the one trying to understand him and focus on his good side instead of his ugly side. Still, the more someone’s limits are pushed, the more exhausted they become. You can really see that in Episode 18. When Luke gets jealous of her ex boyfriend and matchmaker event. Flora already seems tired of explaining herself.

That’s why the conversation at the end of Episode 18 really broke my heart. Flora finally asked something from him, but instead of listening to her, Luke let his jealousy take over and said something hurtful yet again. At that point, it felt like all the previous hurt and frustration had finally caught up with her

Honestly, if this were real life, I feel like that would be the final straw for a lot of people. It doesn’t matter if you’re the girlfriend or the boyfriend. At some point, enough is enough. Everyone deserves to walk away from a relationship that constantly makes them feel hurt and insecure.

agreed. I’m speechless to see lot of people care more about his feeling than the victim herself. he cant even do a bare minimum by asking “how are you? you must be really scared” , hug her and do something nice for once! but no, its all about “me, me, me”

he has right to be angry but there are time and place for that. he is obviously has low EQ

there’s no such thing loyalty in corporate world. plus both of them agreed to have a clear boundaries between work and relationships. when he freeze flora bonus/increment/promotion because of her mistakes, he also didn’t tell flora beforehand. and it’s impacting her emotionally too. but he did what he need to do as a GM. if you are mixing work and feelings together, its a perfect recipe for
disaster. she didnt do anything wrong at all. that’s her right. she doesn’t have to tell her superior about everything. yes he is the boyfriend but he still her superior. luke also admitted his mistake and during hr meeting, he actually tell her professionally that he wants her to stay. she as an employee, feel appreciated which makes her to stay. there’s no such thing about loyalty at work. its all about me or you. if you are too nice, you’re losing out. thats the thing both of them need to figure out. if they cant figure this out, either break up or someone else need find other job so they can keep the harmony in relationship. thats why people said “dont date your coworkers or even worst, your superior”

thats why this is a special case. she is dating with her boss. by telling him meaning he knows alex is trying to make offer with her too. then its gonna be the same thing, he will tell her what to do and not to do. plus he is a GM. this is not his first rodeo dealing with this kind of issue. he knows alex is bringing others too. he is not that stupid. this is not uncommon things happen in corporate world. he is more angry with her for not telling him that alex made an offer to her. not because it’s gonna cost him a problem. its more about he wants to control her life (subconsciously)

Based on what you said, it looks like she has to accommodate him all the time and constantly think about his needs, but who’s going to think about her if not herself? This is the problem when you’re dating your boss. You need to have boundaries between your relationship and your career. Even if she goes ahead with the offer, I honestly don’t see anything wrong with it. Yes, it may hurt their relationship, but this is something you can’t really avoid when you’re dating a work colleague, and even worse, your boss.

Even if she told him beforehand, do you think it would really make any difference? Looking at his personality, he would probably still try to influence her decision by saying things like, “Don’t listen to him, you’ll regret following him. Staying with Lime is a better career path for you.”

I’m glad she’s being selfish for once. She needs to stand up for herself. Being with a man doesn’t mean she needs to be a fool. She’s her own individual, and she has every right to decide what she wants to do with her own career and life.

do you expect her to understand him forever? she doesn’t need a boss at home too. she needs a boyfriend who understands her. sometimes boyfriend/husband will listen to you without judging. try to understand your point of view. did he did any of that? he immediately become boss mode “you are young, naive, no experience, stupid, cheap and obedient, no firm principles ” how do you expect her to react? 🤦🏻‍♀️

huh? if someone give you an offer, did you immediately tell your boyfriend AKA boss? or colleagues who is your senior? about you are getting an offer? don’t tell me everything you do in life need to tell the team straight away? especially when its related to your career? how does this make sense

cheap and obedient?! 🤦🏻‍♀️ Seriously I want to smack his head so bad. I’m not mad when flora decides to block him. i hope she won’t forgive him so soon but looks like the next ep she is being nice to him again. urggh. can’t wait for their break up era. he needs to learn his lesson. so what if she wants to leave the company. its her career and her choice. who is he to decide for her.

he is her boyfriend but also boss at work. even if she tell him about alex, will he ever support her decision? he will do the same thing like how he did today. you are “stupid, naive, thoughtless, you are young, no experience, listen to me if you don’t want to regret it, you dont have firm personality” . that is luke nature. he always has this “boss” mode. he won’t understand it because he can’t differentiate to be a boss or to be a boyfriend first. so for her to think about it by herself first, i dont see any wrong with it. plus its her career and its her choice. who is he to decide what she should do or shouldn’t do!? if she made a mistake so be it, thats how she learn and grow. if she only stay behind his back under his care, then prolly next time he will say “you only grow this far because of me”. i hope break up era come soon. he needs to learn his lesson

whatever they did after his birthday literally reaching my bottomline too. now i just don’t really care about the drama anymore. i just want this to end. i’m beyond speechless with their public stunt and delulunes. but the fact that their strategy failed on his birthday, they even came out with traffic issue, backfired again. it’s getting embarrassing at this point. more people started to see their real agenda. 🤦🏻‍♀️ i feel like we are having back to back negative searches from months now after we started getting involved with them. its getting annoying and annoying 🤬

done!

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