It’s insane to excuse it as ‘only fiction’ and act like rape is fine. The fact that this is coming from…
What is insane about excusing it as an ‘only fiction’? It is a fiction. Laws don't punish this. Laws don't punish stealing politicians and killing your animals either, at least in most of the world. Is it surprising that a fantasy is not punishable if those deeds aren't either? And have you seen how laughable some punishments for the real deal are? On top of that, very rarely (or at least I don't watch these) in audiovisual project means on a symbolical level rape a rape. So you can only throw stones at it if you read it literally (and it is your right to do so and in any other way you come up with, yes) - but the interpretation is up to you. Then again - if you really hate it and it makes you feel sick, or have trauma or issues or experiences with it, you shouldn't be watching it in the first place (probably - I do know people who had experiences and still go into watching/reading it).
Btw, ok, this is what I imagine if you say good cut/editing: https://youtu.be/z-fpfAdTk9M?si=xYvZwfzjvpEXZ5x6 ; it is 10 000x more flattering esp. to Jiang Heng's acting and experience and the interpretation of "flat" leans way more to "he is not really angry, hateful, intetntionally hurtful, spiteful or does not rage" because he does not mean what he says, he says it to prove to Gao Tu he is the person that matters in his life. And then we have the series way longer cuts... and we see what sould look smoother. *sighs* 😮💨 On the brighter side I really appreciate JH and LPE can pull out normal good old acting when JH doesn't try. My point is, many things could be saved with good editing too.
Hua Yong aka Huang Xing starts to get more and more gravitas in the story and I LOVE. IT. and DID want to see this happening since trailer + going to rewatch trailer, however now, finally, F.I.N.A.L.L.Y. with brilliantly emotionally set scenes of Sheng Shao You aka Qiu Ding Jie it finally unlocked my brain to start pondering and considering not only how Hua Yong, but as well how SSY's changes in character might make him so much more interesting if handled well (is already making him, to be transparent here). Again we unlock a well of possibility – possibility to show that in no way, form or shape is a submissive or bottom person less important, valid or weaker, and to actually show the process of realising you (I) on this side, HOW WILL I DEAL WITH IT now *knowing* *I* am considered the weaker now? What will I do, how will I cope, what ARE my options now? What do I lose, but what will I gain with this new role? So I really hope it will not land again in the hysterical scream noodle of denial and not wanting to be on this end of things, but I have a hunch it won't.
I saw some poeple saying there is no chemistry 🤦♀️
there is this quite thick layer of quality of this series that might be at fault; btw i am not among those saying they dont have it, but i do se why ppl might have difficulties reading it as such
i think its importance to not-be present heavily depends on the story and dynamics, but this is a perspective not from human or representations in drama and audiovisual projects, nor social perspective of any kind, nor moral or philosophical (more or less so) perspective
30 minutes later and I still couldn't dare to press play😭🙏
by this point, with last scenes of last aired episodes of Shine and kinporsche's naked asses, imma really gonna keep tabs on what parts of male body was showed to the world... 🤦♀️
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Don't, cause *I* need to wait too: 00:21-00:28 And you got teeth like a wolf But you cry like a sheep, yeah Don't be mad, mad, you did it Caught you red hands in it You're so bad, yeah, I get it You made your bed, now rest in it🤣🤣🤣🤣
On top of that, very rarely (or at least I don't watch these) in audiovisual project means on a symbolical level rape a rape. So you can only throw stones at it if you read it literally (and it is your right to do so and in any other way you come up with, yes) - but the interpretation is up to you.
Then again - if you really hate it and it makes you feel sick, or have trauma or issues or experiences with it, you shouldn't be watching it in the first place (probably - I do know people who had experiences and still go into watching/reading it).
And then we have the series way longer cuts... and we see what sould look smoother. *sighs* 😮💨
On the brighter side I really appreciate JH and LPE can pull out normal good old acting when JH doesn't try. My point is, many things could be saved with good editing too.
Again we unlock a well of possibility – possibility to show that in no way, form or shape is a submissive or bottom person less important, valid or weaker, and to actually show the process of realising you (I) on this side, HOW WILL I DEAL WITH IT now *knowing* *I* am considered the weaker now? What will I do, how will I cope, what ARE my options now? What do I lose, but what will I gain with this new role? So I really hope it will not land again in the hysterical scream noodle of denial and not wanting to be on this end of things, but I have a hunch it won't.
But you cry like a sheep, yeah
Don't be mad, mad, you did it
Caught you red hands in it
You're so bad, yeah, I get it
You made your bed, now rest in it🤣🤣🤣🤣