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In my opinion, it's part of my theory that LR loved PWX in her past life. The more you love someone, the more their betrayal hurts. PWX's betrayal hurts more than SRQ's because she truly trusted PWX and when he broke her trust, she was deeply betrayed and heartbroken. Meanwhile, in my opinion, she didn't trust SRQ's love for her fully, so she doesn't feel as betrayed by him. Also, let's not forget that the PWX that she interacts with is also the one from their past life who made all of the mistakes, while the SRQ that she interacts with is the one that she perceives to not be from the past. So, that's probably another reason why she treats him well.

also just an advice, avoid the comments on here because the commenters here are bringing up gender unnecessarily and using personal attacks. watch the drama if you want, form your own opinion abt it and then go to the comments here if you feel like it

it's very nice to hear about PWX's family background and can hopefully lead to more interesting discussions about how his past affects his personality and actions. it's clear from when he "accidentally" kills General Yang and his uncle immediately throws PWX under the bus to defend himself that they are not close. His uncle is such a villain!

I think it's interesting to share different opinions and perspectives about the actions, behaviours and personalities of the characters, and the unique and complicated premise of this drama has a potential to have engaging and interesting discussions. However, commenters are too childish and not only expect the main characters to be perfect from the moment they realise they are wrong, and even make personal attacks.

While commenters are attacking LR, they are ignoring the problem of SRQ. I think this is mainly because LR does not have a problem with his betrayal (which, by the way, is part of my evidence as to why she doesn't love him, because when she thought that PWX loved someone else, she was completely heartbroken and upset, meanwhile, when she knows that SRQ emotionally manipulated her and then killed her and PWX, all she does is shed a few tears and then ignore it. The more you love someone, the more their betrayal hurts, and in my opinion, the less you love someone, the easier it is to forgive them for that betrayal.) Yes, LR was cruel to PWX in the past life. But I would say that SRQ was equally as cruel, if not (with my bias towards LR) crueller. He knew that LR was heartbroken from PWX and that's why she turned to him. He led her on for 17 years with his final intention to kill both her and PWX. This is emotional manipulation at its finest, taking advantage of her when she's in her weakest state.
In comparison, I would not label LR's actions as emotional manipulation, as by the point she got involved with SRQ, PWX had said that he didn't want anything to do with her, and she had asked him for a divorce. Even though she had knowledge of his love for her, I can also understand her thought process that if he could not deny that he was in love with QZZ, then his love for her wasn't that deep to have hurt him as much as it actually did.
So, what SRQ did is crueller than LR in my opinion, and too many people are ignoring it in favour of blindly bashing LR.
SRQ can go die!

I agree with this.
Even though, from a fairness perspective, LR should be making more of an effort with PWX, they have completely different starting points in their second life.
PWX is in the second life with the hindsight of knowing that he made mistakes, and in addition, him being alone for 17 years has been time for him to deeply reflect on his mistakes and regret over how he would have fixed them and what he would have changed so that their marriage would have had a better outcome.
Now that's he's in the second life, he's able to put into action what he has considered and reflected on for over a decade.
Meanwhile, LR is in the second life without understanding what she did wrong. In her mind, what she did wrong was marrying PWX, not the lack of trust that she had of him and her "cheating". Not only is her EQ originally low, in addition, the fact that SRQ came in immediately meant that she didn't have any time to reflect on her past behaviours or actions. Her reactions during the campfire scene and the carriage scene show that she really is dumbfounded that she was wrong in that sense.
Thinking of it this way, PWX has a 17 year head start on LR in terms of figuring out his feelings, reflecting on his mistakes, and figuring out how to prevent them. While it seems unfair to the viewers that after being left alone for 17 years, he still has to chase after her, after deeper thought about the difference in their circumstances and personalities, it's more realistic that he's the one chasing after her.

Exactly, people ignore the fact that SRQ led LR on for 17 years just to kill her and PWX.

'he's just kind of like grrr aargh' that made me laugh aloud it's so true

ikr it's so funny every time it happens bc if you step back and think abt the situation it's just ridiculous

I'm so glad that you're excited to watch my favourite scenes and I'm happy that you also like my favourite scenes. I love how the leads are supporting each other so far but I just wish that LR would be more open so that they can completely become a power couple.

very true. it's uninteresting if all of the couples have just love at first sight with no depth of understanding their feelings. I don't mind that PWX had this love at first sight tho bc he had abt 17 years to sort through his feelings.

this is so real. the chemistry between the two leads is so natural and the dynamic is also playful and refreshing. in the first eps she does seem unlikeable at times but as the drama gets further we get to understand her character more and understand her as a character in her thoughts and motivations. my favourite parts of the drama have to be the weiqi game when they find out that they're both from the future, when they talk over the fire, when she buys him the candy, when he leans against her to sleep, when he asks her for money and when they're together in the prison. just wait until you watch the wedding night scene and the scene of the carriage in the rain.

exactly. although i enjoy debating and thinking about different actions of the characters based on their morals and principles, it shouldn't be such a huge issue to the point of commenters attacking each other.

that's amazing to hear. it's also something that i would prefer as it's more realistic then having one moment when her mind completely changes and she suddenly becomes the most in love person ever.

i like to just share my opinion about different parts of the drama and try to be as neutral/positive as possible. still, i like to hear about different opinions and perspectives and debate on different topics.

as she deals with political conflicts she can become more mature and self assured, which will also lead to a healthier relationship.

ngl it's so refreshing to be interacting with a commenter in a positive way in this comment section. rare sight.

I don't believe that LR being intimate with SRQ is the most horrible thing in the world. I also prefer to take on a more nuanced perspective. It conflicts with my moral code but I don't watch dramas to learn how to live from them, or to see characters that act according to my moral code all the time.

That's very true. If she can concentrate on politics first and then the romance comes a bit later then there hopefully won't be as many conflicts while they fall in love. Patience is a virtue.

thank you, I'm excited to see how it will unfold