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if you meant what Chairman told her? yeah, he was so crude!!!!! but also... he said - hey I have seen the worst of you and I still like you. So actually that was the best love confession ever bc he is SURE

Hairdresser is super immature. She has good intentions but she sure has plenty of room to grow up. Throwing stuff at him was also part of the loser image. Luckily he isnt a loser so much anymore, he fessed up and took steps forward...

Yeah but she shouldnt help him to keep denying it :) Also, he himself took action to address it, luckily. His karma is starting to clear up ....

Yeah, I agree, the key to getting out of under the paws of her parents is her financial freedom. If she can pay rent and food, then she doesnt have to obey her parents.

:) She said NO but went super nicely sexy dressed to the meeting at the end of Ep 27.... She said no but apparently called him to her house... LOL Now seriously: she must feel guilt towards her late husband, to find someone else so soon. She will have to reconcile that

I think for a true love story, we need to see how BAD the main characters were LOL and that part is frustrating... but we must see their faults, in order to appreciate where they came from and what they had to overcome, which demons to fight..... and then.. we need to see how they OVERCAME. We need to see the process of their inner and outer battle and growth. And some "win" at the end, because always there is some win.

No matter what exactly the end is, the process and effort is what matters, Our characters cancan end up each going their way, fondly remembering their college crushes and their growing up. Or end up as lifelong marriages or friends. Whatever!!!! the point is to get clean. CLEARLY SEEING ONESELF, ACCEPTING IT, AND TAKING STEPS TO OVERCOME THE BEHAVIOR AND CHANGE THE OUTER EXPRESSION. The ending will always be appropriate for the karma of that person.

****So, we MUST see the ugly. That is what makes a story. Seeing the effort the people put to develop their character into a better human being. *****
If that doesnt happen then we just have a bitter remainder what not to do :) but we all see too much of that in real life, we do not like watching that again on screen LOL

And, a true art is something that educates and uplifts and we SHOULD see how this particular couple and people, in their particular unique way, in their particular situation, changed and grew, and then we take the lessons and apply it to our own life. SO no wonder we as audience would get so impatient and frustrated to watch the crap for too many episodes.

In summary: it is episode 7, make the characters grow real fast, or else the drama will be wasted.

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(Even if the ending is not "happy ending" even if the character dies, there is a win. Kdrama "Plankton" comes to mind. Plankton changed some but not enough and it was enough to make him die peacefully. He did the best HE could. Sometimes the growth is not as full or complete, like in "Discovery of Love" the FL never really fully grew up and ML had to pull her up, but she did a lot for her ability and made quite progress.... from the muck she came from!!!! Wow she was slimey. I highly recommend that drama to see how devious and slimey going-the-easy-way confort way can be. Also, the Flower of Evil is another kdrama where the ML makes a lot of progress but still is not ah so great at the end.

Very often in kdramas, the woman is the weak irrational loser one and male KEEPS saving her, but that is sooo sexist and downgrading, I hope it is eventually obsolete.

It is totally ok to have the ending as in the webtoon and nobody ends up pairing... That's why it is called "crushology" these are just crushes, not true love. Everyone is chicken and not ready for love.

Bunny is an oblivious naive little girl, definitely not ready for a relationship. She didnt want a relationship, she wanted a pretty guy. The guys are not ready to be in a relationship either. Yeol is a control freak, selfish, arrogant, vain, weak... Ji Won has a toxic relationship with his sister and is so timid and never comes out of the closet to say WHAT EXACTLY he wants and how he feels... Bunny is a snowflake, very passive and weak and lazy, and expects the guys to do all the work while she pretends she doesnt know anything, and does not want to talk. She is a little naive good princess girl who expects everything to come on a silver platter, she is MAJORLY spoiled and weak. If you want a man, you gotta be there to receive his love and reciprocate. She isnt doing that.

The guys are also not men but little boys. One fixes ah so gently the microphone on his ex's chest, in public, after he promised to draw the line with the ex, he NEVER puts in that effort, he eems to chase Bunny as a toy he likes instead of a person he cherishes. Kissing her to just cling to her and escape the ex is ... wow!!!!! psychotic. The guy is mentally off to do that to someone.

and the other never says what is in his heart. IF there is anything there. If he is not saying it, then it is not there so much that he feels like risking, or he knows deep in his heart that this chick Bunny is not a real love for him. Or he is simply weak.

EXACTLY!!! Bunny is a snowflake, very passive and weak and lazy, and expects the guys to do all the work while she pretends she doesnt know anything, and does not want to talk. BUNNY IS DEFINITELY NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP . The guys arent ready either. That's why it is called "crushology" these are just crushes, not true love.

It should be NONE since none of them are ready. yeol is a stupid selfish arrogant jerk, ji won has a sister and is a scaredy cat, and bunny is a passive weak snowflake - SO NOBODY IS WORTHY OF RELATIONSHIPS HERE. The title was "crush" and that is what this is - crushes, not love.

EXACTLY!!!!!! Bunny is a snowflake. Very super lazy passive weak

Good job. So taht is the test, to see how ready you are for a relationship. If you are Yeol, you would have to feel kinda that way and PUT HER AWAY FIRMLY, and if you are Bunny, you would have to throw her into dust. And see what they do??? Yeol fixes her microphone and Bunny leaves her alone with Yeol and does not check if she lied or not and does not walk in to say hi to Yeol.

We have to see ugly at some point and then overcoming it if this is a true love story. A true love has to overcome tests... people carry murky evil character flaws in them and that all has to be made visible and cleared out IF THE PAIR IS GOING TO SURVIVE. If they dont clean up then.... they cant make a pair for long :) That's why so many divorces.. So... we are watching them come close and show their weaknesses and flaws. AND IT IS UGLY AND FRUSTRATING, If they dont make it, sayonara, baby, they are not it. Right not, they are definitely not a pair, no pairings are possible, all 3 are super immature and weak.

yeh bc they are immature and weak therefore not ready for a relationship. So if there is no pairs out of this, it would be ok. But I wonder what the message of the drama would be then. What not to do?

Nah... that kiss in front of ex AFTER he stood there with the ex for such a long time and let Bunny walk away ... that kiss is just ... toxic!!!!!!!! Can you imagine your first kiss being used for a DISPLAY in public like that... ??? that was abusive.

Yeol was abusive. Bunny is correct, they should have been alone and expressed love for each other and acted out of that. INSTEAD, Yeol acted out of "clinging onto her" (in his words), and Bunny was shocked and humiliated, to have to PERFORM on stage for his ex. Yuck!!!! please dont do that to anyone :) It is not ok.

Exactly. I agree with you. Read my post above.

he IS a fake friend, he is lying to her that he is a friend. He hints that he isnt but he never is brave enough to be open about it. He is a wolf in sheep's clothing :( and Bunny is a selfish IDIOT to be so oblivious and just keep taking advantage of him as if she didnt know.

I dislike that they are dragging it too long. We need to see the PROCESS of them growing up. The process so far is very sloooow - as always is, in life. So it is tricky to show the process properly within a limited time of 1 hr x 12 episodes. The script writer has to know the process well. Perhaps this script writer does not...

I really like your diagnosis you really explained them well :) and I like your explanation of liking the mess - bc only going through the mess will get them to grow up and be a pair. IF they dont make it, sayonara, baby ...

Bunny character is not worthy of even one suitor so having 4 would be waaaay too much

someone needs to slap some sense into Yeol, fixing her microphone ah so gently on stage. HE IS THE LAZY VAIN IDIOT WITH THE PROBLEM. He never put the effort to draw the hard line with the ex.