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Replying to Tabong Sep 21, 2025
The only thing we know about Jeong Hui is her name. And the girls only had like one pseudo conversation with the…
There IS a love triangle already. Boxer likes Pretty Girl and have his phone #, but Childish Girl likes him
Replying to louloudi Sep 21, 2025
We also know that she was abused from her ex boyfriend or ex husband.That s why she left him but he is after her…
omg how did I miss that? Which episode and time is that?
Replying to GalacticTheory Sep 21, 2025
I also think the title and narration suggests that he and Yeong-Rye will not end up together, if at all. Or maybe…
It is romantic, remember his heart beating fast? She acted as a WOMAN, she had the courtage to step in and help him. That is super attractive
Replying to GalacticTheory Sep 21, 2025
I also think the title and narration suggests that he and Yeong-Rye will not end up together, if at all. Or maybe…
rewatch the very very end of ep 1, also start of ep 2. I think they will end up together but much later, when she grows up, right now she is 3 yr old kid
On A Hundred Memories Sep 21, 2025
Ah yet another kdrama made on the sexist plot, showing FL who is like a scared inecure bunny and mentally/emotionally at the level of a 3 year old child. BORDERLINE AUTISTIC, DEFINITELY MENTALLY DISABLED TO A DEGREE
Men do not like to date children nor unhealthy ppl.
ML has it right, he goes after a WOMAN, after someone who behaves like an adult, who stands by him and cares for him and helps him, without any fear or holding back, who is strong and capable to do what is right, who is bringing something to him, who can be by his side as a contributor

Kim Da Mi character is a child requiring babysitting. Not attractive at all. She does not dare to even throw the medicine packet at him before she runs away. HE IS NOT IMPORTANT TO HER. **** HER ANXIETY IS MOST IMPORTANT TO HER. **** SHE CANNOT LOVE ANYONE ***
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In short, she is mentally off and disabled immature weak individual. Yeah she has traum and maybe that caused it, but the end result is - she is a 3 yr old scared child.

And boring, honestly... this "childish immature loser FL" trope of kdramas is just ... disgusting. Korea is super extra sexist. And for the screenwriters and directors to keep milking this old rotten stale trope, is just LAZY CHEAP.

This drama better make a fast U turn and make Kim Da Mi character grow up real fast and become capable of romance and standing by a man as his equal companion and partner.

As is, Kim Da Mi character is super weak insecure anxious confused lying LOSER who is incapbable of communicating and who will never have a chance at life, not to mention dating.
Replying to Berealinapretendingworld Sep 21, 2025
Take your complaints to the directors. Da-mi is one of the top actresses in the Korean industry — that’s a…
Exactly the screen writers and directors always make FL into some scared little child. Pathetic SEXISM
Replying to cherrypie Sep 21, 2025
her character in this drama is young, and in nine puzzles she acts "childish" because of her trauma. she's…
No she is acting out sexism, acting as a small child. Typical portrayal of FL in kdramas
Replying to Meiraaaa Sep 21, 2025
I know some people are not liking the way youngrye talks but I think it’s only being done to portray her as…
she is like a 3 yr old scared child so that is important, there is no way a child like that is ready for a relationship with a man
Replying to nobodyknows Sep 21, 2025
ko yeong rye is she autistic ?idk if i even wrote that right
That's the sexism in kdramas. They almost ALWAYS put FL who is like that, a scared little bunny, 3yr old girl requiring a baby sitter and a daddy, not a man, unable to communicate, unable to stand up for herself, and yeah practically autistic, that term descibes it very well
Replying to Temmielee Sep 21, 2025
Who do you all think will end up together ?So far, there hasn’t been any clear sign that Jae Pil might develop…
There was a hint at the end of ep 1, the very end. Rewatch that
Replying to junlovebot Sep 21, 2025
idk but i cant find the chemistry between jonghee and jaepil. they both have similar trauma but that doesn't mean…
she is a little girl, not older than 3 yrs old. She is cute but she is NOT a woman and so ... a guy is not going to pick up a child to take care of. She has to grow up first
On Our Golden Days Sep 21, 2025
This series is an excellent social commentary on ppl over 50 having to work. In the USA, they all have to work, in low paying manual jobs, like stocking shelves at Walmart etc
This series is also an excellent social commentary on self employed, etc etc
On Our Golden Days Sep 21, 2025
The ancient dilemma: an old person taking up resouces and life from young people and preventing them from living ... Eskimos, Japanese and Native Americans all left their elders alone to die after the elder could not contribute anymore... In stark contrast... to basically PUSH BACK AND DOWN 3 kids to keep an old person barely alive for 30 years... is ... well...... welll..... is a reason why we hate that old stucko John Wayne here....
On Our Golden Days Sep 21, 2025
wow the script makes EH such a pathetic loser without any sense for business, emotionally reactive and self destructive... JH was able to rope in a bunch of customers and EH just kicked out one big customer... What a LOSER incapable of doing business.

She even refused an opportunity to make money in easy pleasant ways. As if she could care less about her future. In fact, she keeps clinging to ML by always trying to be nasty to him. Wow the script is so sexist.

Ok so then some male buldozer can come in to offer to be her front... but .. will she ever grow up? She might be best as a coordinator under a domineering male who protects her and it is ok for her not to have to be master of all things including being the front protector, but still... WILL she ever grow up to be strong enough to stand on her own???
Replying to Mucholove Sep 21, 2025
Title Our Golden Days Spoiler
The ML gives off peak “I’m not like the other guys” energy.Go home, apologize to your family, and rebuild…
ML's company is taking off super fast and is already successfull and will be a huge success. He is too proud to show up before it is confirmed
Him being a "teenager on the run", this is ok since he DID inform his mother he is around and will show up one day when he is ready. That was enough from him except that
he is an inconsiderate jerk and his mother is an inconsiderate jerk. He didnt let anyone else know and his mother didnt tell.
Replying to johnjcw Sep 21, 2025
HONESTLY I JUST DON T FEEL THE CONNECTION B/W ML AND FL WHERE AS THE SML CONNECT WELL WTH THE FL AND ALSO WITH…
I disagree. 2ML treat's ML's sister as some small brat kiddo
On Queen Mantis Sep 21, 2025
Title Queen Mantis
That scene of policewoman practicing how to smile reminds me of a similar scene by ML in Flower of Evil, who hid his true identity for years
Replying to lemony Sep 21, 2025
Title Queen Mantis
It's 100% the friends wife. She is way too little on screen to be even written in the story. They could have easily…
FYI Google search on "is psychopath the same as antisocial disorder"uncovers ZILLION articles and they all say PSYCHOPATHY AND ANTISOCIAL ORDER ARE DIFFERENT,
PSYCHOPATHY IS A LOT MORE SEVERE
Some say that psychopathy is a more severe version of antisocial order and some say it is two different things, In any case, antisocial order can feel, even some remorese, and psychopath canNOT
you were right, psychopathy is not an official diagnosis but there is a Hare Psychopathy Checklist
https://www.google.com/search?q=is+psychopath+the+same+as+antisocial+disorder&client=firefox-b-d&sca_esv=fba13440f52890fe&ei=9MTPaL6qM56X9u8Px7isuAQ&ved=0ahUKEwi-9MP4xOmPAxWei_0HHUccC0cQ4dUDCBA&uact=5&oq=is+psychopath+the+same+as+antisocial+disorder&gs_lp=Egxnd3Mtd2l6LXNlcnAiLWlzIHBzeWNob3BhdGggdGhlIHNhbWUgYXMgYW50aXNvY2lhbCBkaXNvcmRlckgAUABYAHAAeAGQAQCYAQCgAQCqAQC4AQPIAQCYAgCgAgCYAwCSBwCgBwCyBwC4BwDCBwDIBwA&sclient=gws-wiz-serp
Replying to lemony Sep 21, 2025
Title Queen Mantis
It's 100% the friends wife. She is way too little on screen to be even written in the story. They could have easily…
And fyi there is a LOT more beyond antisocial order. There are psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists, antisocial order, and many other isms .... For starters, I recommend reading this:
https://www.recoveryplusjournal.com/2017/10/the-empathy-trap/

Narcisist is not actively seeking to harm ppl for the sake of enjoying harming them, but just manipulates to get attention and benefits for themselves and if harming others is necessary, WILL do it to get the job done. A mild narcissist is vain and /or simply selfish and inconsiderate and arrogant, like the ML in "what's wrong with secretary Kim"

Antisocial order is someone like "Its ok not to be ok" she is not out there seeking to harm ppl but to get away with her own life as she wants to live it, and if harming others is necessary, she will do it. These ppl are isolated from society and quite visible.

But psychopaths and sociopaths are often popular, successful, charming and INVISIBLE :) THEY LOOK NORMAL :)
Antisocial order and sociopaths can feel, they are aware of what they are doing, and psychopath canNOT feel and think that harming others is normal, they do not even think about it.

Psychopath is activelly seeking to control others and harm them if not obeying, that is how they live their life. They have no remorse and no moral compass that they are doing something wrong. Seems like, they do not feel... A psychopath will enjoy harming others, and will do it on their own, for the sake of enjoying it, having fun, and also to get something done to benefit themselves. But they ENJOY to cause suffering of others. That is the classic bully, like the main villain in Glory drama. Psychopathy is not a medical condition but there is Hare Pshypatchy Checklist. ... I would say, any tendency to without any thinking or remorse ELIMINATE what is in your way, is psychopatic. Psychopaths are often successful people and even charming :)
Many "big heads of big companies" are in this category, and ppl like Gengis Khan and many other rulers and other smaller killers and serial killers. This is the kind of AGGRESSIVE CONTROLLING and often charismatic :) A classic example of a psychopath is what New Age calls the reptilian species :)

Sociopath will enjoy controlling torturing destroying killing others AND will do it by having other people do it for them... Sociopath forms alliances and pulls other people in to destroy the sociopath's enemy. Sociopath stays "looking good" and is never suspect. OTHER people do the dirty work.
Typically the reason is not just pure enjoyment but for the benefit of the sociopath - they are stealing, etc and you are in their way. Like ... judge Cha in "Lawless lawyer", . These are MASTER social engineers and liars and are often politicians and ppl in power or public light. Anyone "politicking"... spreading gossips.. ... using divide-and-conquer strategy behind the scenes ... backstabbing... etc... THIS IS SO COMMON... your sibling getting your mother to diss you for something the sibling did - anything from stealing cookies to stealing your inheritance.... ... sweettalking the media to get out of stuff... like the AssemblyMan in the drama Defects.... all the way to colonizing countries by making different groups inside the counrty fight each other... all the way to murder and mass murder ,,,, THIS IS THE SLIMEY KIND