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Firstly I dont have a problem with FEM PRESENTING QUEER PEOPLE using the same bathroom.

I do have a problem with unisex bathrooms as they compromise the safety of women,

Likewise you dont speak for all women and dont have the right to dictate how woman should feel about sharing bathrooms.

Data most certainly does show that unisex toilets puts woman at risk - you are welcome to do your own googling. I dont even feel safe in a womens only bathroom because I know I am vulnerable and in a confined space.

If there was a security guard at a bathroom I would be indifferent to sharing it with men.

I was actually surprised about the data showing that transwoman are more likely to be violent and incidence aligned closely with male patterns. In the uk there have been incidences where transwomen raped other women in prison.
Do you think trans women should be put together with women?

What is more important is how a lot of women feel about their safety and that should not be compromised and ignored - and you are doing that when advocating for unisex bathrooms.

ohhh wow - it is messy. Didnt see that bit.

It was tradition in our culture over NY and other holidays in the year to gamble amongst friends. The amounts were not huge.
So a bunch of friends getting together and gambling is also illegal I gather.

I hope rumours are untrue and that he comes out okay .

"You don't know/dictate how all women feel, or even sexual assault victims. "
Neither do you. But you could have empathy for those that dont feel the way you do. And a lot of woman will fear men.

A lot of Trans people do deserve protection - but it doesnt necessarily mean you should do it at the expense of others and take away their safeguards and their rights. I would be indifferent to trans using woman's toilets if not for safety issue. Its less safe.

LETS WORK ON THE FACTS THEN
the Swedish and British study provide similar evidence.

Data on criminal convictions for transgender women compared to women reveals significant differences particularly violent and sexual offences, aligning more closely with male patterns than female patterns.

https://committees.parliament.uk/writtenevidence/18973/pdf/
TMtF transitioners were over 6 times more likely to be convicted of an offence than female comparators and 18 times more likely to be convicted of a violent offence

Thank you. i think i may also have commented there - i comment when ever I can.

Its a major annoyance of mine. We would not be laughing if men, gays, blacks, (insert group) are portrayed in such a manner.

You find misogyny amusing or are you just dense and ignorant of how it portrays women?

" if a man wants to do something nefarious in a woman's bathroom, they wouldn't need to dress like women"

So then lets let all men in the bathroom. If one can get in let us allow men to use that same confined space.

A lot of women and particularly sexual assault victims do not want to share a bathroom.

What is obvious is that your arguments have no respect for victims or women.

like wise you cant change the mind of how some women feel - particularly sexual assault victims.
And I dont really care what your arguments are.
Woman have the right to demand privacy and security - and unisex toilets does not offer that option.

Stop being so patronising and coming up with spurious arguments to tell women and particularly sexual assault victims how they should see the situation.

Being in a confined space with a man could be traumatic to a sexual assault/rape victim. End off. Why force women to be in a confined space with various strange men ?

Your argument is - there is a possibility that a man can enter the confined bathroom space - so why dont we allow all men to enter. There is a great possibility that someone can easily break into my house but I still lock the door.

What is obvious is you do not respect how some women feel, and sexual assault victims needs and instead try to diminish them with irrelevant arguments.

I really dont think Prima will be written this way. It would spoil the show for me if it was.

You reminded me about the bl fans. I think i dislike the bl trashy fans more then the bl trashy woman character.
I have watched shows on viki and I am disgusted that bl viewers post comments calling for physical violence to bl woman.

i think for most people bls are about romance and the main couple first. And then the story.

I think that it would have been more impactful if it was directed differently - if he had tried not to cry(holding in tears) in front of his love interest but cried and fell apart when he was alone.

its not negative reviews about the series - its discussions on plot issues.
And what people like or dont like or would want to see more off.

People throw the word hateful comments without basis sometimes.

lol - apparently romance is more important than being alive. I mean he almost forgot about the curse, So did Jet for that matter.

I dont find this trope amusing as you do. Its usually misogynistic and lazy story telling as its been done so many times

its annoying when bl series make women the idiot for falling for a man who is gay. And they tend to make them a figure of hate as the women usually never accept the man is gay. so they continue pursuing ml and harass and plot against the mc.

I think in reality most woman would back off - be disappointed which is understandable, but accepting as there is not much you can do if your crush is is gay.

Im getting bored on the GMM type series that is derivative, filled with tropes, and uses the same of formula.
Just finished watching On Cloud Nine and looking for similar type series that are more original and offer a more meaningful story.
Your review convinced me to watch this show.

You are spot on. They actually sell us the "couples" and not the series.
Unfortunately the market seems to accept it.

lol - I really wanted and tried to like it - i even like the actors but i couldnt continue to watch it. Im just left bewildered at the ratings and wondering if they are smoking something else.

I think its part of a herd mentality.
We are influenced by others and jump on to this bandwagon and brainwash ourselves. Otherwise we would be missing out or lonely.

I enjoy it but its not as engaging for me as My stand in or Only friends.

I myself am trying to understand why my My magic prophesy is so popular and rates so highly. Khemjira is a bit different - more original and its NOT GMM. Also I believe the book is popular

Im with you there as well. Most shows are becoming derivative -same old tropes with diff actors. I have watched to many now and I get embarrassed when i see grown men tending to wounds, patting each other on the head or talking in baby voices thinking its cute. (particularly GMM)