her husband actually acted so immature with a lot of jealousy, having a bad experience with his ex-wife should…
I agree with you, 4th is wrong on this one. Thereās no way to justify her behavior. Her hiding the truth is what started this mess.
I also think itās unfair that the op is blaming Fang. I donāt see what makes her think he is so bad. Is he old school? Maybe. Is he horrible to 4th? He supported her choice to work hard, he took care of the baby, she didnāt attend the 1month party because of work. He has always been honest about his past and patient when 4th when she throws her tantrums etcā¦
4th is wrong here, if sheās so miserable in her marriage, she can divorce. With her personality, she can handle and be the first one to ask for divorce.
her husband actually acted so immature with a lot of jealousy, having a bad experience with his ex-wife should…
1) there are many ways to cheat on your partner. You can cheat physically, financially and emotionally. What Q and 4th are doing IS cheating. If it wasnāt, they wouldnāt be acting secretive.
2) this is not about watching dramas, this is also real life. Hiding and meeting opposite gender and hiding it to Your spouse is questionable behavior.
3) Fang, regardless of we like him or not, has always been honest with 4th. She at least knew the woman was the ex wife, he told her. He didnāt lie and say it was a neighbor. He gave 4th many options to leave, he didnāt force her to marry him. Unlike with Q and 4th, there was no love feeling left between Fang and his ex wife so we canāt compare.
her husband actually acted so immature with a lot of jealousy, having a bad experience with his ex-wife should…
Q. is premium trash, he doesnāt love 4th sister and even if he did, sheās now married. Sheās off limits and he should respect that.
I donāt blame Fang for what heās doing here. He is protecting his wife and marriage from Q. He is also protecting himself as a man. He clearly sees what Q is doing.
4th sister should be the one setting the boundaries but sheās not. I DONāT CARE IF Q. and 4th sister have feelings for each other. I DONāT CARE if Fang is suffocating to her, right now itās not the issue. The issue is that 4th sister and Q are disrespecting Fang.
Q. is garbage. He got divorced and now he's back, he wants to take someone who is still married just because of āold feelingsā? Get out of here Q.! He clearly doesnāt love her, he goes after her because sheās easy and āsafeā for him.
If 4th sister is unhappy in her marriage, she can divorce and venture with Q. What she cannot do is flirt/meet/ exchange suggestive looks with Q while sheās still married. If Q wants her, he should wait until sheās also divorced and that should be her choice. He cannot do whatever heās doing now to a married woman. Call me old school but adulterers make me sick. Divorce is not that hard.
her husband actually acted so immature with a lot of jealousy, having a bad experience with his ex-wife should…
The fact that Fang held her hand like that, I can see how it can be toxic BUT she also didnāt do anything to put the strong boundaries and have the āexā respect her husband. She didnāt introduce him when they shared the cab from the airport. She went for coffee and still didnāt set the record straight . She was going to hide the coffee meeting if her husband didnāt happen to see her⦠sheās being shady and the husband can tell the āexā is looking at his wife with impure thoughts.
4th sister is to blame for all this.
Also, the āexā knew she loved him and he didnāt address it then. He just went on and married someone else. He kept calling 4th āhis best friendā.
4th has low self esteem. Sheās forgetting how the āexā ignored her and played with her feelings. Now sheās married, out of respect for her husband and herself, she shouldnāt entertain the foolishness going on right now.
That 4th sister is so annoying Everyone from the 4th sister is annoying me
Logic deluded after the third sister, after her, they are all a mess. Not sure who is worse among the last 3. The last one is bossy and immature at the same time. 5th immature and delusional and 4th is well, whatever she is.
I have a feeling they will do well but GuangMing, Iām hoping, will be the one that will stand out and his paternal…
With his little drawing, I agree š. I hope he doesnāt end up like his dad. Hopefully useful art that will help him pay the bills and be a productive person.
Hii amanah šš been looking for our past comment. Writer is doing us dirty too. Weiguo was such a nice guy,…
Heeyyy friend š!
I cried so much, I had to blow my nose š. I cried more than when the dad died. When he was saying āgoodbyeā holding their hands āwe will meet againā⦠I LOST MY NERVES!! šš¤§
I'm looking forward to seeing the next generation of the He family. I was checking the cast and all the children…
I have a feeling they will do well but GuangMing, Iām hoping, will be the one that will stand out and his paternal side will shamelessly try to claim him then but itāll be too late cuz they donāt deserve him.
I never thought Iād like this genre but here I am loving it. Itās unfortunate that it looks like season 2 will not happen? The ending, pheewww š®āšØšš½
Tbh, I was not going to watch because I ASSUMED it would not be my type of drama. I went in out of curiosity to see what type of drama can deserve the 4.2 I ended up watching the entire first episode. I LOVE IT! Iāll continue watching because Iām intrigued by the flās āconditionā.
I also think itās unfair that the op is blaming Fang. I donāt see what makes her think he is so bad. Is he old school? Maybe. Is he horrible to 4th? He supported her choice to work hard, he took care of the baby, she didnāt attend the 1month party because of work. He has always been honest about his past and patient when 4th when she throws her tantrums etcā¦
4th is wrong here, if sheās so miserable in her marriage, she can divorce. With her personality, she can handle and be the first one to ask for divorce.
2) this is not about watching dramas, this is also real life. Hiding and meeting opposite gender and hiding it to
Your spouse is questionable behavior.
3) Fang, regardless of we like him or not, has always been honest with 4th. She at least knew the woman was the ex wife, he told her. He didnāt lie and say it was a neighbor. He gave 4th many options to leave, he didnāt force her to marry him. Unlike with Q and 4th, there was no love feeling left between Fang and his ex wife so we canāt compare.
I donāt blame Fang for what heās doing here. He is protecting his wife and marriage from Q. He is also protecting himself as a man. He clearly sees what Q is doing.
4th sister should be the one setting the boundaries but sheās not. I DONāT CARE IF Q. and 4th sister have feelings for each other. I DONāT CARE if Fang is suffocating to her, right now itās not the issue. The issue is that 4th sister and Q are disrespecting Fang.
Q. is garbage. He got divorced and now he's back, he wants to take someone who is still married just because of āold feelingsā? Get out of here Q.! He clearly doesnāt love her, he goes after her because sheās easy and āsafeā for him.
If 4th sister is unhappy in her marriage, she can divorce and venture with Q. What she cannot do is flirt/meet/ exchange suggestive looks with Q while sheās still married. If Q wants her, he should wait until sheās also divorced and that should be her choice. He cannot do whatever heās doing now to a married woman. Call me old school but adulterers make me sick. Divorce is not that hard.
4th sister is to blame for all this.
Also, the āexā knew she loved him and he didnāt address it then. He just went on and married someone else. He kept calling 4th āhis best friendā.
4th has low self esteem. Sheās forgetting how the āexā ignored her and played with her feelings. Now sheās married, out of respect for her husband and herself, she shouldnāt entertain the foolishness going on right now.
I cried so much, I had to blow my nose š. I cried more than when the dad died. When he was saying āgoodbyeā holding their hands āwe will meet againā⦠I LOST MY NERVES!! šš¤§
You are right, they did us dirty. Iām not well.