Nauriya

How ironic it is, because of someone having prejudice against the FL for not conceding to ML affection, are rating this show low - is a bad example of a "watcher". I mean you only watched this drama for FL to fall for ML? What about their journey, pain and growth? Other characters.

May be this series don't give nay life lesson, or philosophy on life, but it does leave you with a sense of satisfaction.

XJ above all is the most human character in this drama, who pursued her love, even knowing she will fail. And so did ML. No one was wrong, each three loved the person who couldn't love them back. But in the end they came where the belonged.

I can not fathom, what more she could have done to please all the naysayers.

If it was other way around everyone would have blamed boy.

You also have this in mind, he could have stopped her, because he is man and he is more powerful than her.

But thats not the case, masculinity can not overpowers vulnerability.

Rape is not ONLY a forced sex.

Rape is taking advantage of someone who is not ready or don't know anything.

She threw herself on him, kissed him, invited him with ulterior motives, and then she talked dirty, and pulled him to a room, and had SEX, not initiated by both but one person.

When you are growing sure you have all kind of urges, Qiqi, "was snot insane", I admit - but he was oblivious, she observed him in school, and she found her prey and hunted him. So yes it is a rape.

And that shameless women, told him to take care of their daughter, parents and even pathetic women asked him not to let anyone take advantage of him, as SHE DID.

And he could only say, "he did it because he wanted to" - no he didn't but he could not refuse anymore, the shame and all the pain he went through.

His parents in law giving him money all, doesn't cut the humiliation and pain he went through.

If things are bad for women, and we say all kind of things, but in rare cases when men are truly innocent, we don't voice for them. This I hate the most.

I know women has always suffered more than man, but it is not about men or women, it is about destroying someone live, no mater what the gender is.

It was for engagement anyway. That's why they considered it big. In East Asia for example China these days nobody do engagement stuff. Only rich people. Or some South Asian countries still do grand engagement parties such as India, or Pakistan etc.

I also attended a wedding of my close friend in Nanjing. Though it was small wedding but the table counting is just a number.

Yes

you know your bags.

but he still need to give her a fucking reason. you can't fucking say i stopped loving you thats why he ran off from engagement. and how the fuck he is in love with her. My ass. if he really stopped loving her, he is jerk and bastard. son of bitch and dog.

His performance in BD is bomb, I just can't believe he was 17 when he did this such difficult role.

GagaOOLala keep giving us films, that has unsatisfied and unrequited endings. I just don't understand the meaning of it.

What things you wanna talk about. In my review and comments i have tried my best to explain.

Actually these are the stories of ordinary people. Think of them ordinary, their crises, failures and rejections are ordinary. If you take them special, you will be dessapointed.

KJ is a intriguing character, however, there is nothing extraordinary background story... because to feel at the bottom in life, you don't have to have bad childhood or some tragic past. Unhappiness and depression aren't stemmed from tragedy.

she gets settled don't worry.

i think people came in for Shen Yue, they didn't noticed, she wasn't the star of show.

In fact if we see Vivienne Tien is the main lead here. her scenes are almost 70% in each episode. When SY has almost 40% screen time in each episode.

Also the ship is odd, I don't like it either, but SY has no story thus far, apart from that she is falling for a guy.

This drama actually is not about leads, rather it is an ensemble cast, and there isn't one principal actor but all of them are.

they are this close to physical touch, but knowing that will not happen, breaks my heart. It is unfair.

I hate and loathed when FL has to go through screening of stupid dumb people. ML should clean her feet with water everyday. And he should have told her why he is rushing for marriage...even though he loves her. I would have felt betrayed if marrying someone had one of the reason of saving some business.

Also ML has put FL in some strong position. I feel her aura is gone only ML is left. I fucking hate this shit. ML should make shutup call for people who looks down on her. I want FL mother to give a big slap to ML side... I just hope ML shows some deep affection towards her...And not just being considerate. Because she dearly loves him..And he is being nice as if he is forcing himself to like her.

I dont know prequel but please tell what is the shit with his brothers to be wife?

OMG this is so good... Addictive... I like these type of villains. The business type. But they are all joke... In this series however they mean fucking business. And gosh ML mother is super fake.

My kissing prejudice has gone like a dust. I can't bear sad that ending if one person so left alone.if both have sad ending. I am super into it.

Simei is not naive. She knew he wasn't going to change and she knew she had dug her grave. When in epsiode 21 or 22 during a wedding dinner her brother told her why Chengang was dismissed and she realised the moment what mess she is in...But she was so embarrassed that she took a punishment to herself for not listening. This is what I think. Because I want yo give SM a benifit of doubt. Because the man she dreamed, talked years and traveled this far...How could she accept he was a trash. Sometime you know the reality but you still want to go in that darkness because it is your fate. Poor children of wreck less father.

I seriously don't like anyone of the spouses of the children new or old. Not even YiDing.

The best women in this drama is perhaps YiCheng cousin's wife. They all should learn from her.

But for me the girl is rapist. And nobody said a word. She did the same thing a cunning boy would do to a girl. She lured him in her home and talked dirty and led to him bedroom. He was naive, and slow and she knew it.

And nobody here talked about this. If we are so fare and opinionated, this should have been addressed here. I am so sad, and my heart-ached that Qiqi took the blame and beating.

We live in a society where men oppress women all the time, but we don't believe a women can also do the same, it has nothing to do with masculinity.

if you don't know they are ver very very close friends, they do videos, lives and what not.

I miss xinjaing restaurants. The food is good. The smell is good. And they were eating...And I was getting my memories. Xi'an is as beautiful as it was before...

Can someone explain to us woo won't watch prequel. As apart from enemies there are no second women chasing or plotting and male lead? Right? Also if possible and kind enough you are explain the arc a little of previous. Not the MDL synopsis

Thank to whoever do this for me...😇

I hate sniff-kiss.

Either do proper or not do it at all.

This Thai-BL seriously need to drop this shit. It is a serious put off for me.