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I really enjoyed the series but I would have preferred it if it had gone through a time skip (maybe with a second season?) to truly reach a conclusion with the marriage-centered conflict between Tami and Morgan. In their relationship, they will eventually have to reface this as they said themselves and I thought it was a shame that they ended it on the "let's live in the now" especially because they had already gone through that multiple times. However, I'm glad that the show respected both of their perspectives on the matter, especially echoing how Tami's view is at an unfair disadvantage (as this reflects a larger problem in society for romantic relationships). Other than that, rather than their final reunion, I really loved the funeral scene. That, to me, solidified the relationship between the two as one that will last despite many hardships. It was very compelling.

I like it a lot actually, just hoping they don't drag the upcoming conflict too much which kdramas tend to do around this stage of the narrative

I think people are undermining one important aspect: the cheating. It's totally valid to want or not want to date someone who has marriage or doesn't have marriage in mind for a relationship. I can understand Yoo Jin's reason for wanting to break off the relationship (having different core values/intentions for the relationship). However, it still doesn't justify the cheating. Both Yoo Jin and Ki Joon should have first broken up with their partners if they realised that the relationship wasn't working anymore. But they didn't. They kept it a secret until they were caught. So I feel like Si Woo's actions are justified even if it was still an immature and petty act. Though I do appreciate how the show isn't demonizing the ones who cheated either. I also do agree with you that there should be more to it than just dating the one person who did have marriage in mind. Let's see how it unfolds :)

agreed, was excited after ep 1 but now they've butchered the story, it's a shame :/

thank you for sharing! this just goes to show how much Not Me reaches many different types of audiences in breathtaking ways

the way i cant even deny-

i find it sad that, with the exception of White, Todd seems to be the only one who truly understands Black and appreciates him for who he truly is, and that's the same person who is after his life...

when you mentioned that Gram was not there during the confrontation scene, it made me think about why the director would do that, considering that we would just see him react but probably not say anything anyway. And it made me realize that we actually have not seen the actual Black and Gram in the same shot at all. So maybe they're waiting to unfold the "mystery" between Gram, Black and Eugene once we finally see Black with him. Cause I think that from Black's POV at least, there is more to this. So had Gram been at the confrontation scene, maybe Black would have reacted to his presence more rather than Dan's IF for ex he either knows G likes Eugene or if Black had feelings for G. So yh now im lowkey kind of excited to see their interaction for the first time. But ofc this is all just speculation..

this is perfect! xD

that would be hilariously cute, I just hope Sean is teasing White more than anything after all that angst, but I don't mind angst either, it's just the wait for each episode is pain.ful.

that option kind of scares me tbh because it ties in with the scene of Sean putting down White's button on the ground, it kind of felt like he was giving up on White and that would be the worst outcome (from my perspective at least) :/

Would be reasonable honestly. Sean has already lost so much, I'm not sure he can bear to lose White. So def possible

yh i remember for ex with the lovely writer episodes, they just kept on getting longer every week, I felt so lucky. So when I watch new series like Not Me I always think back on that lol. But at least we were blessed with this series airing this year (cause with cdramas like Immortality, I'm not even sure they'll ever see the light of day TT)

me hoping that the gun he handed Dan has no bullets in it and he was just testing him

the sweet revenge had me hollering. It's like the moment he figured out it wasn't his love, White, he straight up was not going to hold back anymore

yess there definitely is that kind of tension for sure but they are quite violent with each other...but tbh what really made me think that it could be romantic is that Black looked surprisingly emotional around Todd for someone who seems so uncaring and relentless toward others, which makes me think that he may really have had romantic feelings for him, but that he suppressed them (his hesitance, his almost teary eyes etc). Whereas from Todd's perspective only, it seems more platonic/sexual solely because of his nonchalance in certain moments and also how he literally tries to drown Black. He's definitely fond of Black tho
I need an explanation for that card that White found in Gram's room tho. Where we are now in the story, it really confuses me. Gram obviously likes Eugene. Black hasn't seemed to show any special interest in Gram. So I'm confused highkey. I want answersssss

you put it so perfectly! I totally agree with everything you say. This show is just chef's kiss from beginning to end. I honestly think i've never seen anything like it

I would love this! it's the least angsty option too but the most interesting for sure

Thoughts on why Sean suddenly says he never wants to see White again in the preview?

Debunking some ideas:
1-feels betrayed about White hiding his identity: if this was it he would've looked sadder or angrier when Black revealed the truth. Instead he looked relieved and joyful
2-(this was my sister's idea) White trying to disappear after Black returned makes Sean feel dejected: if this was the case, he would have reason to be angry or frustrated for sure but i don't think it would be enough for Sean to say he NEVER wants to see him again. Afterall, he literally got beaten up by Black thinking it was White and still slept peacefully next to White the next day as though his head hadn't been bashed in the night before. So I find it too extreme.
3- Sean finds out about White's privileged background and this puts him off (especially if the dad is involved in shady stuff): fair but again, not enough for him to reject White so harshly esp as he knows that White shares similar views as him
4-Black convinces Sean somehow that he is putting White in danger and he shows some kind of proof about that. Now this to me feels like the most likely reason for him to say something so extreme. But then again it would really have to be convincing for it to work.

Feel free to share your opinions with me :)