YingYang 05

I think I didn't make it clear, my mother in law has her own pension, but it is in the lowest rank, as she didn't work all years that are required for full pension, so her's is smaller for certain percentage. She also didn't have well payed job so it also results in smaller pension. Her husband's was slightly bigger, so she got a difference from her to his, to summ up. My pension is gona be much bigger and I will be able to live a decent life, no matter if I have a partner or not. I'm thankfull that I could get my education and a good job after that...
Our love storry: we are together for 25 years and have 3 kids who are our blessing. I can say we did well, no matter our age gap. And I beleive that everyone can do it, if they are the right person for each other and that is all that matters... !

Only after I started watching Asian dramas I realised how in many parts o the world women are still in very arhaic social setup. I live in Europe and don't think everything is ideal here, but status of women is way better than anywhere in the world, I think. I can't imagine to be restrained by so many social rules and being forced to follow them. I wish everyone, not only women, would be free to choose the way they want to live and whom they want to love.
In my country being a widow is not something stigmatic, but ye, it influences widow's financial capability, especioally if one lives alone. My mother in law got an addision in part of her husbands pension when he died, but, should she live alone, she might have trouble paying for all expences, like electricity and other monthly bills. As we live in same house, we pay those now and she has her pension for herself. I think she doesn't lack anything so far, except companion...

I wouldn't know about his personality, if he is nice, but he's deinitelly cute... If video for song Lover means something .... ? Anyway, wish them happiness...

I agree with you about age limitations - one can get a younger man until she is abot 40-45, later on, ye, men like younger ones... I don't know if it's women's choice to marry older men, but deinitelly is men's choice to marry younger women... it is probably bilogically and socially conditioned. But, generally, the age itself doesn't really matter in love. The personality is much more important for good marriage then stability, money, status etc... all those things that people think that will make them happy, but they never do... not withouth kindness, respect and love...

I have a partner five years younger and we never had any problems because of that. We simply liked each other and didn't care about age.
Being with younger man has many advantages, too. He keeps you active with surpassing energy and vitality... until he does, of course... unfortunatelly, in fifties men start to age faster... On average they don't care about their diet and health very much and burn out sooner... So, girls - get a younger man, if you find the one who suits you and keep him fit, so you can love and accompany each other longer...

I have a partner five years younger and we never had any problems because of that. We simply liked each other and didn't care about age.
Being with younger man has many advantages, too. He keeps you active with surpassing energy and vitality... until he does, of course... unfortunatelly, in fifties men start to age faster... On average they don't care about their diet and health very much and burn out sooner... So, girls - get a younger man, if you find the one who suits you and keep him fit, so you can love and accompany each other longer...

I also liked all this short dramas! Firstly, because they are - short... After eating a lot of fillers in long dramas which make me bored, this shorties are a real refreshement. Fast paced, quite interesting stories and good looking cast. I especially like that female actresess are mostly really beautiful - in long dramas we often get a stunning ML, but average FL, while both of them often can't act... Most of FLs in shorties are strong and smart, I love that, too, even acting is usually suprisingly good... So, I'm actually becoming a fan of this type and hope they make a lot more of good ones...

This is so meaningless drama that I couldn't watch it anymore....

As much as I picked up from various comments and rewievs, they didn't die. Obviously they recovered from injuries and lived as mortals.

Ep.3: "Even if he is destroyed, he can only be mine... " That's, what true love is, isn't it.... Oh, my....

That is interesting, I thought that marriage between siblings is banned because of incest issue, but obviously, there are other takes on this matter, too...

Uh, you are really obidient! And patient... I didn't have good relationship with my mother so I can't imagine to live with her... I left home at 19, rented a flat, got a job and lived alone for more than 10 years...
Being back home at 9.00pm? You even can't go to the cinema in this time frame... how can you actually meet anybody to marry by sitting at home? Well, yes, you really are patient.... and obidient... good luck!

I feel you about this living at home and obeying controlling parents trope... it's also sad that this is a reality for lots of asian kids... Fortunatelly, some cultures are not like that and mine is one of them.... luckyyyy... I left home by 19 and lived alone for ten years, my daughter also left at same age, but son stays at home. I'm not too happy about it, so I try to limit "mama service" to minimum, he cooks, washes his clothes etc. If he wanted to leave, we wouldn't mind, property can always be sold when owners die. For me, that is a normal course of life.

I don't understand what creeps you out as they are NOT siblings, not even step siblings as they don't have the same biological parents. None. If they lived together under the same roof for some time - what the heck is wrong with that? If two people live together in the dormitory for four years - does that makes them siblings? You wouldn't say that they are, would you?

I think we have a different definition on what step-sibling is. In my c. step sibling is only the one that you have one common parent with - which automatically means, you ARE related by blood and can't get married. We also call this siblings half- brother/sister. All other relations that happen by adoption, remarrying etc, we have no name for such "siblings" as they are actually NOT siblings, even if they live together in same household. So, there is no legal restriction about marriage. Which is logical, by my opinion.

In J dramas and anime there is very lot of such plots, sometimes I think it's kinda of japanese obsession with this stuff....

In my country we don't have such family registers, there is no such categorization in goverment documents. One only gets a birth certificate with parent's names on it and that is the only document of your family origin. Even, if you are adopted later, birth certificate stays the same, your adopted parents are only guardians. With very little babies it may be different, depends, who is written on the bith certificate in month after birth. For marriage you need only this document. So, if you have different surnames, you would have no problems getting married.

Just started and must say, I like AB acting, she is natural ans not posing, it seems she needs the right directing and can do it well. I loved her in General and I, I think, that was her best role till time. Let's hope for the best with this drama!

Chinese do often ease it down in matters of toxic relationships and make it more palatable... I'm big fan of Nodame Cantabile, watched all versions there are, starting with anime, J and K version... Actually I liked chinese version the most, because, in the final line, it was most humane and "normal"... so, lets hope for this one to be a nice story, told in an interesting way.

Now, she is what I would call a really beautiful and talented actress. I hope she gets good projects in the future and shines brightly.