This series is so good and a very realistic plot that some could relate to whether you are lesbian, bisexual, straight, etc. Parents can be controlling and opposing no matter your sexuality. Obviously I believe that the LGBTQ+ community has it the hardest. I am going to be honest, this series is probably the first GL series that has triggered me so much to the point of crying and having an anxiety attack. I can say that I understand what Prem is going through because I am basically going through a similar situation as her with my girlfriend. What I'm about to say is something personal and it might be triggering to some so I am just letting you know ahead just in case you don't want to continue reading this comment for your own good.
This is my summarized story. I am a lesbian who came out to her family at the age of 16 years old. My family is Christian but they have always been supportive in my life so I thought that maybe they would understand me if I told them something so deep about myself. But obviously I was wrong. Just like Prem's parents, my family didn't support me for being Lesbian and they even brought me to a church for a liberation, which obviously didn't work on me because sexuality doesn't change even if you pray the gay away like they did.
I continued to like women even after everything I went through. My mom started treating me wrong (emotionally abusing me with verbal abuse) and she even tried to look for men for me to marry (At least like 4 men, but I rejected ALL of them, so her plans always failed). My mother thought that if I dated men I would finally snapped out and like them. But we all know that's not how sexuality works. If I could choose to be straight, I would, so I wouldn't have to go through all of this. But it just doesn't work that way. Sexuality is NOT a choice. I went through so much in 5 years, and now I am 21 years old. I am still living under the same roof as my family cause I don't have enough money yet to leave. I am all on my own in this. I also have a girlfriend who I have been with since I was 18 years old. My family also found out about the relationship because I went on a flight to see my girlfriend cause she lives in another country. (Yes, we are a long distance relationship), and they don't support me at all. They have told me that I am a disappointment and that they are embarrassed to be my parents (I am an only child btw). My mom literally prays every day for me to break up with my girlfriend.
Anyways, the reason why I am telling you all this is because I wanted to let you all know that what Prem and Pat are going through is really real. A lot of lesbian, bisexual, and even gay couples are going through this. And this is what makes this series so good. That it is so realistic. I am not trying to say with this that every lesbian relationship will end up like Pat and Prem, because I am sure many lesbian couples have been able to have the life of their dreams and fought the negatives together. But it's so refreshing to see that my life is being portrayed in the series. Obviously I am different than Prem in this case because I would never leave my girlfriend for my parent's sake cause I choose my happiness above everything else. At the end of the day, what matters is my happiness. I would NEVER marry a man cause I don't like men. Even if that's my parent's wish. But I really hope Prem and Pat get their happy ending, just like me and my girlfriend are fighting for ours. But even if they don't get theirs, I am glad this series was made. So that the message behind their story spreads around the world. This is reality guys. But please never give up. I truly believe there will always be a rainbow after every biggest storm. Thank you guys, for reading.❤️
This episode was so good! But goshh, I got really triggered. What Prem is going through with her parents and Pat is the exact situation I am in with my parents and my girlfriend. I couldn't help but to get triggered really bad. But despite that, the episode was really good. I really want to see what will happen next.
I've watched a lot of Thai GLs and BLs but this one felt just a little more dramatic with that. But I think it's getting better in episode 3 since it felt more natural.
The story and plot is amazing! I am really loving it so far...my only complaint is the fighting scenes were a little off..I'm not sure why exactly, and I'm not sure if I'm the only one who felt like there was something off. Maybe it's the angle they chose or something. But regardless of that, the story is so good so far!
this series is good but not great. It has amazing chemistry but it started getting messier towards the final episodes. I'll give it a 8.5 because I did enjoy it, but it was just too messy.
I like this series. It's giving 23.5 vibes and I love it. It's so refreshing to see another romcom GL. Let's see how the story develops. I really love clumsy/loser girlfriends like Kee.😍🤭
Everytime I listen to the song "Forbidden Fruit" by Tommee Profitt, Sam Tinnesz, and Brooke, it reminds me to this series aahh...so perfect. Am I the only one?
I’m glad that you and your girlfriend could talk it over and decided to keep watching. If you ever have questions…
Thank you so much! We really appreciate it. It's hard to stomach and process some scenes, but with a better understanding we can get through it for sure lol. Just hoping the boys have all a happy ending. Everyone is suffering now :')
Hello BL fans! I just wanted to come back here after a few days of being away. Just wanted to say that after reading a few comments and doing some research, my girlfriend and I, both decided to continue the series despite it's few triggering scenes. We both started watching the series together blindly, not knowing a lot about omegaverse, just very basic stuff we heard about. We both are very new into the ABO universe, so we were slightly ignorant about certain stuff. I have heard and read a little about it beforehand, and also in the series it was really helpful how they explained everything to the audience in the beginning, but there were so many other things that we didn't know about. So, obviously reading the comments here made us understand better and also doing more research about it. We still don't know many things, but I guess we understand this world a little better in order for us to mentally prepare ourselves lol. Just want to make clear that in no moment we disliked this series or threw hate on it. We just felt a little uncomfortable with some scenes and my girlfriend got triggered due to some past trauma experiences she has. But we both really like BL and the actors, so we want to continue to support the series so we can get more Chinese BLs in the future.🖤
It's different for everyone tbh. Some people are more sensitive towards those terms because they might have triggers…
Everyone has the right to say their opinion openly, as long as it is respectful. Hateful complains both in support or against the series isn't right. But as long as they are just sharing their concerns or dislikes in a respectful way there is nothing wrong with that😅 Also, a lot of people who come in, despite knowing the triggers, might not know how bad it could trigger them. So it's valid if they wanted to give the series a try, but later realized that it was not for them. It doesn't mean the series is bad tho. It just means that it's not for everyone.
Why are people so offended with the word rape? Rape, murder, blackmail, kidnapping, etc. They are all bad. Would…
It's different for everyone tbh. Some people are more sensitive towards those terms because they might have triggers from trauma experiences. It might sound dramatic, but it's reality. Some people who experience trauma like rape, SA, etc, are able to move on, while others will stick to that trauma their entire life, and it can affect them negatively. But it's not their fault for feeling that way. You might be thinking: "Well, it's fiction. They should be able to tell fiction with reality apart." Some people can, while others cannot depending on how severe their trauma is and how badly certain scenes can trigger them, giving them flashbacks of their traumatic experience. It's not that those terms are taboo, but they definitely can trigger certain people, not all.
It's not ok in any show but the hypocrisy goes both ways because I see a lot of the same people here on this page…
I appreciate your concern for us, but it's my choice whether or not I come back here. I'm not here to talk bad about the series. I support the actors, and appreciate the making of the series overall, I just won't continue it for a valid reason (related to mental health). It's not to throw hate. I just stated my opinion respectfully and that's it. Please refrain from telling people what to do. I am asking politely, please.
This is my summarized story. I am a lesbian who came out to her family at the age of 16 years old. My family is Christian but they have always been supportive in my life so I thought that maybe they would understand me if I told them something so deep about myself. But obviously I was wrong. Just like Prem's parents, my family didn't support me for being Lesbian and they even brought me to a church for a liberation, which obviously didn't work on me because sexuality doesn't change even if you pray the gay away like they did.
I continued to like women even after everything I went through. My mom started treating me wrong (emotionally abusing me with verbal abuse) and she even tried to look for men for me to marry (At least like 4 men, but I rejected ALL of them, so her plans always failed). My mother thought that if I dated men I would finally snapped out and like them. But we all know that's not how sexuality works. If I could choose to be straight, I would, so I wouldn't have to go through all of this. But it just doesn't work that way. Sexuality is NOT a choice. I went through so much in 5 years, and now I am 21 years old. I am still living under the same roof as my family cause I don't have enough money yet to leave. I am all on my own in this. I also have a girlfriend who I have been with since I was 18 years old. My family also found out about the relationship because I went on a flight to see my girlfriend cause she lives in another country. (Yes, we are a long distance relationship), and they don't support me at all. They have told me that I am a disappointment and that they are embarrassed to be my parents (I am an only child btw). My mom literally prays every day for me to break up with my girlfriend.
Anyways, the reason why I am telling you all this is because I wanted to let you all know that what Prem and Pat are going through is really real. A lot of lesbian, bisexual, and even gay couples are going through this. And this is what makes this series so good. That it is so realistic. I am not trying to say with this that every lesbian relationship will end up like Pat and Prem, because I am sure many lesbian couples have been able to have the life of their dreams and fought the negatives together. But it's so refreshing to see that my life is being portrayed in the series. Obviously I am different than Prem in this case because I would never leave my girlfriend for my parent's sake cause I choose my happiness above everything else. At the end of the day, what matters is my happiness. I would NEVER marry a man cause I don't like men. Even if that's my parent's wish. But I really hope Prem and Pat get their happy ending, just like me and my girlfriend are fighting for ours. But even if they don't get theirs, I am glad this series was made. So that the message behind their story spreads around the world. This is reality guys. But please never give up. I truly believe there will always be a rainbow after every biggest storm. Thank you guys, for reading.❤️