LesbianAbyss

The plot with Krit (the creepy man lol) was so triggering to me because of past similar experiences I had, it's horrible 💔. It made the series realistic in a way, because those things actually do happen to queer women in real life, but I agree with you that did not had to be added tho😅

I didn’t watch that episode yet actually, just the preview. When I posted the post, I finished episode 5 and was about to watch episode 6 but didn't cause I needed a little break. So, I'm a little behind. But in the preview it made it seem like she accepted his offers. That's why I expressed my disappointment from that. But now that you mentioned it was just part of a plan to expose Krit, then I'm actually relieved 😭 I'm sorry but the series has some elements that triggered me so that's why I might have sounded a bit harsh in my previous post.

I'm watching this series with my girlfriend, and it started really good from the beginning. Now we are on episode 6, and I have to admit that the plot with Krit triggers me so badly. The way that man thinks he has a chance with a lesbian woman who is married to another woman disgusts me to the core.

The sad thing about this is that many men in real life think the way he does. They think that because they are men, they can treat a woman better, provide her a luxury life, protect her, and change her sexuality with s*x. Which is so disgusting because it only shows how their ego blinds them to that extend. A lesbian woman will never look at a man and want him, unless they are bisexual which is a totally different case. But the issue here is that these two women are married and he is trying to break them apart, thinking that he will succeed with money and because he is a man. This is so triggering to watch. Idk if there are other lesbians or queer women here who also felt disgusted and triggered lol. Hopefully I'm not the only one.

I'm enjoying the series so far, but I don't like the fact that Fun is now accepting Krit's offers just because her wife lost her job and they are short in money. That's just so stupid. She knew that man was into her and was trying to win her over with money and luxury, and she still went with the offer. I just think that's dumb...What do you guys think?

Just because we comment our concerns and disgust here, doesn't mean we hate the series or the actors as a whole. We can hate the actions/abuse happening in the series while still appreciating the hard work put into it. Some are even allowed to drop it if they feel like it is too much for them.

Idk, I just think that after everything they went theough they shouldn't be together. Just imagine going through everything they went through, would you wish to go back to the person that have hurt you the most? I don't think so. It wouldn't be realistic💔 Their love was real back in high school, now it is all destroyed with pain and severe abuse, I don't think that can be fixed.😔

EXACTLY, THIS IS WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING!!!💔 You explained it so well!

You wrote everything that was in my mind so perfectly! Thank you😔

Before I comment how I feel, I just want to clarify that I've never watched the movie of this series or read the original novel, so I literally dived into this BL series blindly, not expecting things to get this dark. I also want to say that I don't have a problem watching toxic/dark romances, and it is not my first time doing so. Sometimes I can even enjoy them without taking things to heart too much. At the end of the day, each series tells a story whether it is good or bad, happy or sad, healthy or toxic, etc.

I do have to say that reading many of the comments here and on tiktok make me sick to the stomach because some people can really be so hypocrite and ignorant, justifying wrong actions, r*pe, ass*ult, especially in these types of series where it happens to a gay man. This is why I say that these people are hypocrites. Just because the r*pe is happening to a gay man, doesn't make it less significant! I'm sure that if Yichen was a woman, many of y'all would be insulting Lu Feng. The assa*ults are also not less just because Lu Feng is hurt/suffering. It's basically like saying: "R*pe is okay, as long as the person who commits it is suffering." Like are y'all even hearing yourselves???

Another thing I find hypocrite is that many of you are saying that Lu Feng suffered more than Yichen. While I do agree that Lu Feng went through a lot of pain, maybe even more pain than Yichen at the beginning since he literally left his family behind just to be with Yichen, it still doesn't justify the fact that he is getting all aggressive and possessive. It just shows his lack of self-control and desire of manipulating and controlling Yichen, whether Yichen loves him or not. It's so sickening to the stomach. That's just an evil man.

It's so funny, cause I've heard many people saying that they love Lu Feng because he is so hot, so it's fine to be colorblind for him and defend him like he is a freaking little child who needs a mom's protection, it's so crazy to me lol. I understand that the actor is attractive, but I'm talking about Lu Feng, the character of this series. I'm sure that if he was unattractive, y'all wouldn't be praising him so much. Whether Lu Feng suffered or not, his crimes and actions should NEVER be justified. Because if this were to be real life, no one would want to go through what Yichen went through. Not only did he lost his mom, but his brother was also hurt by the man he once loved so much. That's just too much! Come on!!!

I understand y'all are angry that Yichen chose his family over his lover, which I understand that it must have been extremely painful for Lu Feng. I can't imagine myself in his shoes. I would also be depressed if my girlfriend did that to us. But that doesn't mean that now Lu Feng has the rights to do these nasty things to Yichen, it's literally a crime!!! Please guys! Open your eyes and stop justifying r*pe in these series.

The series is cute, but sometimes it feels like it's lacking. Spoilers ahead: I especially didn't like that Lin lied to Ing. She told her in episode 4 that being with a woman is new to her after ING told her that herself. She basically lied because later in the episode it gets revealed that she was with the baker, and they even kissed and everything. So, she does has prior experience with another woman. I don't like that she made it sound like she never touched a woman before. I feel bad for Ing

I'm so sad seeing Duang sad goshhh...💔

Makes total sense omggg. The details in this series are crazyyy🙈

THIS EPISODE WAS SO GOOOD OMG I WAS SCREAMING!!! I love Qin and Duang so much. I wanna add though, (spoiler ahead): the kiss scene of this episode was a little sloppy. I'm not sure if they did it on purpose or not, but it was a little messy. I want to believe that they did it on purpose though because this is Qin and Duang's first kiss ever cause they have never kiss anyone before this so it would make sense why their first kiss is sloppy and obviously heated with passion because of their attraction and tension for each other. If they did the messy kiss on purpose then it makes so much sense here since is their first kiss ever, which makes the scene ten times better omg!❤️

honestly we are all confused here lmao. When she is not wearing the makeup, she looks fine and pretty but when she wears the makeup she looks uncanny so idk lol

Yeah, I understand why this would make the audience upset cause it does look very uncanny. Let me know if you do rewatch the special episode and what you understand from it.

Are you sure? Then it might be my bad. I maybe misinterpreted the translation. I thought they were saying that only the first episode was edited out. Idk...I do agree that her face looks weird, but not as bad as the first episode. On the first episode her face barely showed any expressions😅😭

Oh, I'm not trying to convince you...I'm just explaining what was said in the special episode about the AI face on the first episode. But yeah, I understand what you mean.

She is not completely AI though. From what I understood was that episode 1 was recorded with another actress that left and so only episode 1 was edited with AI to add the new actress' face that will now be in the rest of the episodes. But the rest of the episodes don't have AI on her face. That's her real face, it's just that she uses heavy makeup making her look weird but she is a real actress now from what I understood in the special episode. Only episode 1 has AI, the rest don't.

it took me so long to finish this cause of so much toxic things happening. Don't get me wrong, I have watched a lot of toxic BLs before, but this one was another level. You really need to be emotionally well to watch this lol. It was a good series overall though.

This series was so simple, goofy, and cuteee! I definitely recommend it to everyone. I rate it a 8.5 out of 10 because yes, it was not perfect, but it was still good. I watched it with my girlfriend and we laughed so much and felt so related to the couple from time to time because they felt like a realistic lesbian couple once they got together. It was so good❤️

I agree! All the Chinese BL coming out this year has been a blessing~