thank you for not creating division between fans of different media genres. obsessive behaviors emerge within any fandom. they're not specific to a group or genre
obsessed fans are a byproduct of celebrity culture. the more a person is in the public eye, the greater their chance of attracting fans who develop unhealthy obsessions
the correlation between public visibility and the likelihood of attracting obsessed fans is nonlinear. high-profile public figures, while attracting more obsessive attention, have the financial resources and institutional support to mitigate its risks. less famous public figures avoid obsessive attention, but don't have the financial resources to safeguard themselves should they be exposed to it
"When I looked back, he'd crossed over and started following us and did so for a few blocks ... When I looked behind one last time he'd vanished, it broke my heart"
there’s something bittersweet and moving about the image of the little fox trailing behind you, searching for comfort and/or sustenance. if you cross paths again, please give him something to eat
do you also feed stray cats and dogs? i make it a point to feed the strays. two stray cats even started following me home. now, they’ve claimed our yard as their own, and my sisters and i feed them daily
assigning disproportionate blame to bl audiences in discussions of invasive fandom behavior is analytically unsound and historically inaccurate
fans of mainstream, "straight" media have been projecting their fictional narratives onto their favorite actors and actresses and tracking their every move long before bl gained traction. if there were an olympic event for ignoring personal boundaries, they’d be taking home the gold
actors and actresses are positioned within "straight" public personas by the entertainment industry to be optimized for mass consumption and sustain their market appeal. the unspoken rule? don’t deviate, or risk losing fans. most actors and actresses sidestep bl/gl roles altogether, not out of disinterest, but out of risk management. as a result, the most fervent cases of obsession, stalking, and invasive speculation thrive in mainstream, "straight" media's fandom spaces
before we nitpick at the mice (bl/gl media fans), we should address the elephant in the room (the larger, more influential system of "straight" media and its fans)
if medical dramas are "boring," what does that make the coma-inducing monotony of the "romance" dramas you've…
"romance" is your thing, not mine. pure medical, action, mystery, psychological thrillers—those are the true romances, to me, that explore the complexities of human health and morality
doctors heal, relationships hurt. i'll take the former any day
So they're back to doctor-praising dramas? How did the latest strike end, BTW?
are you referring to 2024 south korean medical crisis?
the problem of doctor shortages isn't unique to south lorea. countries around the world are struggling to attract and retain enough medical professionals to meet the needs of their populations
praising doctors in media is a small gesture, and a meaningful one that can make a big difference in the lives of healthcare workers who feel undervalued, overworked, and overlooked. it can also encourage more people to pursue careers in medicine, helping to address the shortage of medical professionals
"He didn't commit any major crime"south korean law prohibits the distribution of pornographic material, including…
you're oversimplifying the history of feminism. feminism emerged from grassroots movements/grew out of women's suffrage movements advocating for human rights and equality. it wasn't/isn't a top-down conspiracy
the increasing gap between workers and ceos is tied to deregulated capitalism, weakened labor unions, and tax policies favoring the wealthy, not to women entering the workforce
some women in japan report feeling trapped by housewife culture. they're not envious of housewives
"... both men and women have a responsibility to both their ancestors and society to bear and raise children"
what has society done to deserve its continuation? nothing. society hums along on the backs of miniature laborers-in-waiting, showering parents not with gratitude, but with sleepless nights, rising costs, dwindling bank accounts, and the question of what tomorrow holds for their children
society's push for more people is more of a corporate advertising campaign than a duty. "you birth them, we'll monetize them"
i don't buy into the belief that we're indebted to our ancestors. they were as prone to poor decision-making as most people are today. their advice isn't a rulebook i'll adhere to
We've got s*xual abusers, multiple DUI's, a homophobe, a cheater, r@pists and now a r@pe p*rn watcher 😪Casting…
homosexuality is a natural, beautiful expression of love and intimacy. it's a source of diversity and richness in society
no one is innately repulsed by homosexuality. homophobia is a learned behavior, often indoctrinated through religious or political messaging
"Those with more religious (i.e. MORAL) upbringings/beliefs definitely see homosexuality and promiscuity are problems"
religion has been responsible for some of the most immoral acts throughout history. it's not a source of moral guidance
"... which, I'm sure you can agree, is completely immoral and plain wrong?"
contrary to the myth spun by ill-informed individuals, education on diversity isn't "corruption." it's an antidote to the toxic plague of fear and intolerance that'd otherwise fester in society if left untreated. expanding young minds to the complexity of human experience instills in them the value of respect for differences and recognition of the commonalities that bind us as a human family
"... gay parades are disgusting and an affront to morality" "... why do dudes get parades for sucking another man's dick?"
gay pride parades aren't about the explicit display of sexual acts. they're meant to be a transformative, affirmative space for gay people to express their identities, overcome societal stigma, and connect with others who share their struggles
"straight" identifying people have no need for affirmation or pride parades. every day, the "straight" lifestyle is paraded in media and public spaces without fear of repercussion, exposing the youth to concepts of adult sexuality they're not prepared to handle. this is the "straight" propaganda that needs to end
Same actors over and over, give change to other people, im sick of seeing the same actors,
i appreciate your push for more diverse casting choices. however, ju ji hoon has proven himself well-suited to these types of serious roles. it'd have been a shame to see the part go to another actor. i always eagerly anticipate this man's next roles, thanks to the skills he brings to the screen
"Back in 2009, Ju Ji Hoon was sentenced to 6 months in prison, 1-year probation, and 120 hours of volunteer service for the use of drugs. Lawyer Lee Jae Man announced, “Ju Ji Hoon tested negative for drugs, but he confessed to using them during the investigation." It was shared that Ju Ji Hoon decided to confess to the crime because he felt embarrassed and ashamed about his behavior, and believed he couldn’t lie and he deserved to pay the price"
it speaks to his character that he didn't hide from or circumvent justice. he respected the court proceedings and owned up to his misdeeds. we should reciprocate the same respect in our interactions with him
as a person and an actor, he's developed and flourished, with standout roles in "kingdom" and "light shop" exemplifying that. the intensity and depth he brings to his thriller, mystery roles is a rare talent, and i'd like to see him continue taking on challenging parts in these genres
To read Knetz comments: https://pann.nate.com/talk/373727427Some examples:"Korean men have no sense of masculinity…
"He didn't commit any major crime"
south korean law prohibits the distribution of pornographic material, including that which depicts sexual assault, something i believe should be prohibited everywhere
however, society is indifferent towards sex-related crimes. this is evident in the two-year maximum prison sentences received by the perpetrators of burning sun scandal, who were found guilty of trafficking girls and women for their vip clientele to abuse. male celebrities wouldn't be punished for their other sex-related crimes
They have nothing better to do, and a lot of fandoms obsess over BL even when it's not relevant. Like they're…
"canon" is a starting point, not a finish line. it's the first chapter in the ongoing conversation between creators and audiences
like a lump of clay, "canon" can be molded and reshaped into countless forms by the hands of its admirers. enriched with new nuances that the creators might not have considered (a romance between strangers, enemies, or acquaintances, for example), it speaks to a wider range of experiences
history is littered with stories that have been rewritten to suit the whims of those in power/the majority. it's weird to cling to “canon” as if it were "the word of god," untouchable by human hands. even religious texts have been touched and rewritten
shipping has always been a part of fandom culture. it might not be for you. that doesn’t diminish its validity as a form of creative expression or a source of enjoyment for others
They have nothing better to do, and a lot of fandoms obsess over BL even when it's not relevant. Like they're…
people like you are obsessed with bl/gl fans. there must be better uses of your time and energy, or do you have nothing better to do?
canon is a suggestion, not a commandment. roadblocks, such as a canonical spouse or canonical friendship, don't stand a chance against the imaginative power of a shipper
I’ll never understand why some people ship Gi-hun and In-ho. It seems like some individuals ship any pair just…
it's easy to understand. shipping allows for creative reimagining of identities and relationships that deviate from canon. this involves transforming antagonistic or "platonic" same-sex relationships into romantic ones, or turning "straight" identifying characters/individuals gay. the possibilities are limitless
character identities or dynamics aren't static or facts set in stone, they are constructs of the original author's imagination. through the act of shipping and reimagining, we expand our understanding of characters and challenge the original author's preconceived beliefs
noticed films from award winning directors and writers rated a 7 on average on this site which is such a joke…
the movie's complexity is overstated
disagreement with the popular consensus/opinion regarding the greatness of a film doesn't reflect a lack of intelligence or understanding. it reflects a difference in taste and interpretation
the correlation between public visibility and the likelihood of attracting obsessed fans is nonlinear. high-profile public figures, while attracting more obsessive attention, have the financial resources and institutional support to mitigate its risks. less famous public figures avoid obsessive attention, but don't have the financial resources to safeguard themselves should they be exposed to it
there’s something bittersweet and moving about the image of the little fox trailing behind you, searching for comfort and/or sustenance. if you cross paths again, please give him something to eat
do you also feed stray cats and dogs? i make it a point to feed the strays. two stray cats even started following me home. now, they’ve claimed our yard as their own, and my sisters and i feed them daily
fans of mainstream, "straight" media have been projecting their fictional narratives onto their favorite actors and actresses and tracking their every move long before bl gained traction. if there were an olympic event for ignoring personal boundaries, they’d be taking home the gold
actors and actresses are positioned within "straight" public personas by the entertainment industry to be optimized for mass consumption and sustain their market appeal. the unspoken rule? don’t deviate, or risk losing fans. most actors and actresses sidestep bl/gl roles altogether, not out of disinterest, but out of risk management. as a result, the most fervent cases of obsession, stalking, and invasive speculation thrive in mainstream, "straight" media's fandom spaces
before we nitpick at the mice (bl/gl media fans), we should address the elephant in the room (the larger, more influential system of "straight" media and its fans)
doctors heal, relationships hurt. i'll take the former any day
the problem of doctor shortages isn't unique to south lorea. countries around the world are struggling to attract and retain enough medical professionals to meet the needs of their populations
praising doctors in media is a small gesture, and a meaningful one that can make a big difference in the lives of healthcare workers who feel undervalued, overworked, and overlooked. it can also encourage more people to pursue careers in medicine, helping to address the shortage of medical professionals
the increasing gap between workers and ceos is tied to deregulated capitalism, weakened labor unions, and tax policies favoring the wealthy, not to women entering the workforce
some women in japan report feeling trapped by housewife culture. they're not envious of housewives
"... both men and women have a responsibility to both their ancestors and society to bear and raise children"
what has society done to deserve its continuation? nothing. society hums along on the backs of miniature laborers-in-waiting, showering parents not with gratitude, but with sleepless nights, rising costs, dwindling bank accounts, and the question of what tomorrow holds for their children
society's push for more people is more of a corporate advertising campaign than a duty. "you birth them, we'll monetize them"
i don't buy into the belief that we're indebted to our ancestors. they were as prone to poor decision-making as most people are today. their advice isn't a rulebook i'll adhere to
no one is innately repulsed by homosexuality. homophobia is a learned behavior, often indoctrinated through religious or political messaging
"Those with more religious (i.e. MORAL) upbringings/beliefs definitely see homosexuality and promiscuity are problems"
religion has been responsible for some of the most immoral acts throughout history. it's not a source of moral guidance
"... which, I'm sure you can agree, is completely immoral and plain wrong?"
contrary to the myth spun by ill-informed individuals, education on diversity isn't "corruption." it's an antidote to the toxic plague of fear and intolerance that'd otherwise fester in society if left untreated. expanding young minds to the complexity of human experience instills in them the value of respect for differences and recognition of the commonalities that bind us as a human family
"... gay parades are disgusting and an affront to morality"
"... why do dudes get parades for sucking another man's dick?"
gay pride parades aren't about the explicit display of sexual acts. they're meant to be a transformative, affirmative space for gay people to express their identities, overcome societal stigma, and connect with others who share their struggles
"straight" identifying people have no need for affirmation or pride parades. every day, the "straight" lifestyle is paraded in media and public spaces without fear of repercussion, exposing the youth to concepts of adult sexuality they're not prepared to handle. this is the "straight" propaganda that needs to end
it's been sixteen years since he was convicted of drug use: https://www.koreaboo.com/stories/ju-ji-hoon-confession-drugs-evidence/
"Back in 2009, Ju Ji Hoon was sentenced to 6 months in prison, 1-year probation, and 120 hours of volunteer service for the use of drugs. Lawyer Lee Jae Man announced, “Ju Ji Hoon tested negative for drugs, but he confessed to using them during the investigation." It was shared that Ju Ji Hoon decided to confess to the crime because he felt embarrassed and ashamed about his behavior, and believed he couldn’t lie and he deserved to pay the price"
it speaks to his character that he didn't hide from or circumvent justice. he respected the court proceedings and owned up to his misdeeds. we should reciprocate the same respect in our interactions with him
as a person and an actor, he's developed and flourished, with standout roles in "kingdom" and "light shop" exemplifying that. the intensity and depth he brings to his thriller, mystery roles is a rare talent, and i'd like to see him continue taking on challenging parts in these genres
south korean law prohibits the distribution of pornographic material, including that which depicts sexual assault, something i believe should be prohibited everywhere
however, society is indifferent towards sex-related crimes. this is evident in the two-year maximum prison sentences received by the perpetrators of burning sun scandal, who were found guilty of trafficking girls and women for their vip clientele to abuse. male celebrities wouldn't be punished for their other sex-related crimes
like a lump of clay, "canon" can be molded and reshaped into countless forms by the hands of its admirers. enriched with new nuances that the creators might not have considered (a romance between strangers, enemies, or acquaintances, for example), it speaks to a wider range of experiences
history is littered with stories that have been rewritten to suit the whims of those in power/the majority. it's weird to cling to “canon” as if it were "the word of god," untouchable by human hands. even religious texts have been touched and rewritten
shipping has always been a part of fandom culture. it might not be for you. that doesn’t diminish its validity as a form of creative expression or a source of enjoyment for others
canon is a suggestion, not a commandment. roadblocks, such as a canonical spouse or canonical friendship, don't stand a chance against the imaginative power of a shipper
character identities or dynamics aren't static or facts set in stone, they are constructs of the original author's imagination. through the act of shipping and reimagining, we expand our understanding of characters and challenge the original author's preconceived beliefs
disagreement with the popular consensus/opinion regarding the greatness of a film doesn't reflect a lack of intelligence or understanding. it reflects a difference in taste and interpretation