Do you have separate bathrooms for men and women in your home?
I get your point that predators don’t follow rules anyway, but having sex-specific spaces gives women the confidence to CHALLENGE someone who doesn’t belong. If you remove that, you risk normalising situations where women feel unable to question who’s in their space.
The race/gay comparisons don’t really fit here, because those were about excluding people based on identity alone. Women-only spaces exist to protect privacy and reduce risk in situations where our bodies are exposed. That’s not the same thing.
Of course unisex single stalls are fine, but when we’re talking about large public changing rooms or bathrooms, it’s not unreasonable for women to want boundaries.
I think it’s easy to forget that women’s spaces aren’t just for women, they’re also for little girls and teenagers. That’s why SAFEGUARDING matters. For me, the risk of depriving women and girls of truly safe spaces outweighs the benefits of allowing trans women into them. And I don’t think this responsibility lies only with women, it’s everyone’s duty, including queer people, to help maintain spaces where women and children feel secure.
Ok, guys, help me out here with the omegaverse specifics. Now that Mr, Sheng thinks our Enigma boy is an Alpha…
I don't think Shao ran for the hills cause he's not into alphas, I think he's rejecting Hua because of what he'd done to him especially the SA at the X hotel. he realised that's not the type of sex he's into.
Sheng could choose to die, that is his choice. It is unambiguous that Sheng's half brother planned the kidnapping,…
There's not much of a choice for Shao to be fair! of course he won't choose death. No one would (except for me, I'm the vindictive bish). That's why I keep saying Shao lost agency since Hua entered his life. The decision to be permanently marked is clearly a major one, yet Shao’s other choice would be death!
Sheng could choose to die, that is his choice. It is unambiguous that Sheng's half brother planned the kidnapping,…
That's exactly what I was looking for within the "redemption arc" something to make me - as a member of the audience- believe in Hua/Shao as a couple, because so far all I feel is heartache for Shao 😢. I want to see him fall in love with the Enigma Hua. I want to see a character development for Hua as well not too much to ask I hope 🙏🏻 Sorry I haven't read the novel as there's no official translation into a language I can read and understand
I'm not going to claim I'm not "Hua biased" because this character has given me too much entertainment…
Trust me, if anyone is having fun with Hua's character it would be me 😂... the guy is a lunatic in love and if it wasn't for "Kill to love" playing at the same time I would've given him the title of the darkest Yandere in BL history Anyway, ... Ah... wedding?! who's getting married 👀? Hua is delulu AF 🤭 in order to get married, your other half needs to say "yes"! Hua is over here planning weddings and I love Yous without his lovers approval 🤔 Hua desperately needs a reality check. Because if his plan was to subdue his Alpha and force him to accept the proposal then there was no point doing what he'd done before 🤔
Sheng could choose to die, that is his choice. It is unambiguous that Sheng's half brother planned the kidnapping,…
but let me ask you this: Who did Shao REALLY fall in love with? Was it the “Omega HuaYong”—the broke, helpless version who couldn’t afford treatment for his dying sister? The same omega who was gangr*ped by a group of alphas as punishment from WenLang after Sheng’s PA planted a bug on him to “spy” on HS Group? The same omega who “sacrificed” himself to WenLang—who planned to h*re him out to other alphas—in exchange for one dose of cancer treatment for Shao’s father?
Do you see the pattern here? It was all an elaborate scam, designed for a single purpose: to make Shao fall in love with Hua.
But here’s the truth: who is Hua really? That’s the hard question. After the big reveal, Shao is forced to question every decision he’s made since Hua entered his life. How could he believe a single word Hua says now? And honestly, would you?
Perhaps they'll do a season 2 just in case we didn't sustain hypertension due to WenLang's stupidity and HuaYong's…
I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't make much profit sadly! The series got banned on multiple platforms after 4 episodes only! I had to switch to Viki because back then I didn't have Gaga
Oh no he didn't! 😨 listen y'all! I think one of us needs to act on behalf of HuaYong's mother in law here but since y'all are Hua biased it'll have to be me 😌 You mean to tell me that Hua is giving Shao an ultimatum, whether he accepts the permanent marking or basically die?! Well, what choice does he have in the matter 😥? Of course he'll take the mark and tie himself to Hua until death do them part 😒... So where is the redemption 👀?! That's not how you make amends 🥺... I wanna divorce 😫 I bet when Shao regains consciousness he'll think Hua staged this whole kidnapping and poisoning thing just to get him marked, and honestly, I wouldn't put it past him 😂. How would he believe anything Hua says after everything he'd done 🤨? If I was Shao, I would "do a ShuHe" and die on his a** just to teach HuaYong a lesson 😈....
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOGVIhujHVA/?igsh=cnZzaWVwYXB5cjky
The race/gay comparisons don’t really fit here, because those were about excluding people based on identity alone. Women-only spaces exist to protect privacy and reduce risk in situations where our bodies are exposed. That’s not the same thing.
Of course unisex single stalls are fine, but when we’re talking about large public changing rooms or bathrooms, it’s not unreasonable for women to want boundaries.
I think it’s easy to forget that women’s spaces aren’t just for women, they’re also for little girls and teenagers. That’s why SAFEGUARDING matters. For me, the risk of depriving women and girls of truly safe spaces outweighs the benefits of allowing trans women into them. And I don’t think this responsibility lies only with women, it’s everyone’s duty, including queer people, to help maintain spaces where women and children feel secure.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DORp5Mzjf99/?igsh=OW1na3o5YXVqZ2ky
you're welcome 😊
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOYpsIMjNaI/?igsh=MTNmOWEwaHdiNmtzdg==
this series is going to stay with me for a long time
not too much to ask I hope 🙏🏻
Sorry I haven't read the novel as there's no official translation into a language I can read and understand
Anyway, ... Ah... wedding?! who's getting married 👀? Hua is delulu AF 🤭 in order to get married, your other half needs to say "yes"! Hua is over here planning weddings and I love Yous without his lovers approval 🤔
Hua desperately needs a reality check. Because if his plan was to subdue his Alpha and force him to accept the proposal then there was no point doing what he'd done before 🤔
Was it the “Omega HuaYong”—the broke, helpless version who couldn’t afford treatment for his dying sister? The same omega who was gangr*ped by a group of alphas as punishment from WenLang after Sheng’s PA planted a bug on him to “spy” on HS Group? The same omega who “sacrificed” himself to WenLang—who planned to h*re him out to other alphas—in exchange for one dose of cancer treatment for Shao’s father?
Do you see the pattern here? It was all an elaborate scam, designed for a single purpose: to make Shao fall in love with Hua.
But here’s the truth: who is Hua really? That’s the hard question. After the big reveal, Shao is forced to question every decision he’s made since Hua entered his life. How could he believe a single word Hua says now? And honestly, would you?
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listen y'all!
I think one of us needs to act on behalf of HuaYong's mother in law here but since y'all are Hua biased it'll have to be me 😌
You mean to tell me that Hua is giving Shao an ultimatum, whether he accepts the permanent marking or basically die?! Well, what choice does he have in the matter 😥? Of course he'll take the mark and tie himself to Hua until death do them part 😒...
So where is the redemption 👀?! That's not how you make amends 🥺... I wanna divorce 😫
I bet when Shao regains consciousness he'll think Hua staged this whole kidnapping and poisoning thing just to get him marked, and honestly, I wouldn't put it past him 😂. How would he believe anything Hua says after everything he'd done 🤨?
If I was Shao, I would "do a ShuHe" and die on his a** just to teach HuaYong a lesson 😈....
#AutonomyForShaoYou