Subtility is not yours it seems. The metarphor is so obvious I didn't think I needed to explicitely talk about it but here we are : outing someone is NOT right, especially when it can affect their job or their life in general. You are the only one who can out yourself and the partner doing it in your stead without even asking the permission is just an horrible person. That wouldn't happen in an healthy relationship.
I started watching this still ongoing, but stopped after few eps. Can someone spoil me the ending to prepare myself…
He rapes him, kidnaps him, is violent psychologically and physically, he tries to fuck someone else in front of him. Verdict: "he has bipolar disorder" and they live happily ever after...
May this love never find me.