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calling ML "too green" doesn't mean they want to watch a Duchbag ML.

what makes this hard to digest and ML called SIMP is probably because FL doesn't reciprocate or at least has a similar love experience. after breaking up even though we don't know her heart she dated another man but ML hasn't even tried to move on from her in the past 8 years. he cares so much and only has her but the girl has a life. it's not so much different with a virgin male who is happy when a streamer calls his name and says thank you after he donates a certain amount of money. it's not both ways that why he got called SIMP. if he does that for his wife they will say that he is a devoted husband but he is not a husband.

try watching this "Love You Forever (2020)" a real green flag ML but the girl is very worth it to be devoted to and compare it to this couple

https://kisskh.at/32586-time-for-love

idk about you but for me this drama is the opposite of the good bad mother. In The Good Bad Mother ML's character is smart decisive and loves her mother very much. In this drama (at least until now) I don't think ML is on par with TGBM ML.

You're not entirely wrong. this drama can easily become a reverse harem tbh.

yeah they are great. after his entire life in that family its hard for the ex husband to sudenly stood up but he definately try and i hope he will suscces.

we got to see a glimps of revenge in episode 12

yeah

what authority did she have to do that? because ML's dad beg her daughter to stay away from them? he did not slap or humiliate her. if we trace it back FL's mother is the reason ML's father wants to get away from them. FL's mother needed to confront ML's father but she did not have an upper hand in this matter because she was also part of the reason ML and FL needed to be separated.

it's for marketing I assume. this is a drama, not a movie that will compete in a global award so i doubt that she did it for art

i bet after honeymoon phase cooldown they will divorce.

he is too green to his partner its weird

actually, it's weird seeing yong-pil look like doesn't Botherer by Sam Dal mother has a connection with his mother's death at all. we as third person obviously understand that Samdal mother is not at fault(at least not 100%) that his mother died but how can he same like us? he doesn't have to be like his father but normally there will be a distance in their family relationship.


some comments point out that Yong-pil is a simp and maybe it's true to some extent because he thinks his world revolves around her. She in seoul moving forward in her career and relationship (has a boyfriend) but he did not even try to move on.

i think 6/8 episode is good

its not why he not buying me a bucket of rose or why he never bring me to fancy diner but he did not ask what she want to drink, he Never give up what he want for her to eat what she want.

its not that he not romantic but he doesn't care about her.

here is the quote that ML is a very self-center person
"Did you even ask what I wanted to drink? (how is that important)
when we went out did you ever bring me water, cutlery?
did you ever save me a seat first?
did your shoulder ever get wetter than mine on a rainy day?
did you ever give up what you want for me to have what I want to eat?
did you ever tie my shoelaces?
whenever I wanted to see you did you ever run to my home? did you or did not?( i did, of course) you came because you wanted to have S*x"

from what she says it's not that he changed to become self-centered after 3 years but, he ALWAYS self-centered and she became aware recently.


did not ask what she wanted, never compromised for her, and only ran to her when he wanted S*x do you still think he needs a second chance? it's not a mistake but his nature. Who is he that she needs to fix her nature that possibly can't be fixed (needs a loooong time) and life miserable like her mother?


I even wonder how they can be together in the first place

when I read a male lead who doesn't know how to express love I imagine a male lead who loves her but does not express it in a ritual way ( buying flowers, saying I love you time to time, dating in a fancy restaurant) but what I get is the self-center male lead.

with how deep hate he has( he still hates them after multiple years) the father should let her son with Sam Dal, cut ties with them, and move alone to other places. his son happy and he can try a new life

he tells her to break up with his son, I agree he caused emotional damage to Samdal but that's not what I mean. what I mean is he did not tell other people every time that Samdal parents killed his wife/made a fuss in Samdal father's bus so he would get fired etc. When they meet he just shows his hate on his face but does nothing.

actually, I hope Yong Pil learns what his father doing to Sam Dal. Yong Pil needs to know that his father is the reason why Sam Dal broke up with him.

there are at least two possible outcomes. he becomes aware of how his father is heartbroken and hates Samdal's family so he chooses to let go of Samdal or go back together with Sam Dal because the reason they broke up is not because sam dal doesn't like/hate be with yong pil.

rational thinking yes but it's not. his wife already died long ago but he still hates samdal parents and he is still sad about his wife. it's different but has similarities. two of them separated because of an accident, one because his wife accidentally drowned and the other because his lover's family is someone who related to his mother's death.

the analogy is two children were forbidden to eat cakes containing a lot of sugar, the difference is that one of the children has acute diabetes and the other not.

sure what he does is self-destruct and ruining his son's life. what he does is not good but it's sad. he is not Villain who harassed Samdal family he just doesn't want to get tangled with their family again too bad his son love Sam Dal

when we talk about emotion, it's hard. Like ML who doesn't try to move on his father also does not let his wife go. two of them are stubborn and love their partner so much. if one of them gives up the other can be happy no matter who is it

he is selfish but he will be alone and unhappy for her son's happiness if he lets Yong Pil with Samdal (he hates Sam Dal parents). there are a lot of girls in Korea, and maybe his son does not have the same level of happiness compared to when he was with Sam Dal but he thinks his son can be happy with other girls too.

who says that Yong Pil must be with Sam Dal? In his father's POV, they do not. it's not like if he is with other girls he will die