Honestly, I did feel it during jiyeon and wongyu dates that he hasnāt given up his heart or let down his guard yet. Even though he was the hardest to read, and I didnāt expect him to have much lingering feelings. That guard he had tho made me wonder what happened with his ex.
I just want all of them to be given time to talk to their exes and get whatever thatās in their chest. Iām…
their date with their exes are usually given towards the end of the show because it shakes things up so much. If they are to talk to their exes and to decide a reunion so early, that would result in poor production of the show
Iām curious about one thing, are their dates paid for by them, or by the production team?
you can see that the places they go to has no people, itās because the production team rents the place (not just because of the date, but because they have to film too). Theirs groceries and everything is also paid. Theyāre probably given a credit card to make it seem more natural.
I havenāt watched the korean version, but I hate the helpless main character trope. Even though itās revenge driven, I donāt feel much revenge is happening. I really wanted to like this. Dropped.
I'm totally on woojin's side, because yes, he made a mistake by talking in a harsh way, but people make mistakes…
I can understand both sides. It was probably a hard time for both of them. He had to physically have a hard time, losing sleep and being always busy. Meanwhile she struggled emotionally; feeling neglected and lonely. If you hit crisis mode and someone tells you theyāll change, youād expect that to happen immediately, so you can put an end to the pain you are going through. So yeah, jiyeon is not evil, or making excuses to break up with him. She was probably protecting herself. Having her father passed away recently couldāve also added to the pain of feeling neglected.
wow I did NOT expect woojin to be this sharp with his words. I understand why jiyeon is completely out of feelings. His situation is obviously understandable tho. Approaching it differently and speaking from a place of love couldāve made things less hurtful, but he was probably upset that even though he was going through major changes, she couldnāt give him that space to grow financially. He was probably stressed too so he sounded mean and insensitive. Still giving the way he speaks during their conversations, he should definitely work on his tone for better conversations and communication
You might feel like you own a person after knowing them for 9 years? no? I am not saying its right, I am just…
understanding where theyāre coming from is one thing, and addressing their behaviour is another. Thereās a right thing to do, and meanwhile we canāt expect them to always do that, specially giving their complex relationship and the mentally challenging place that theyāre in (the house with all the participants), we canāt completely discard accountability. If you keep doing the wrong behaviour over and over, you do deserve to be called out, in hopes for the behaviour to change. If you donāt hold yourself to a standard of doing better, at least in front of a person you possibly want back, how are you expecting any progress going forward?
Okay, one thing with preview, its that they're never to be trusted. But you nailed your point precisely. I guess…
Just to get this out of the way, I donāt think he hasnāt dated anyone for 5 years. He never stated that. He just said he hasnāt dated for a while, plus on their first restaurant date, they said that they wanted to travel together but never got to, but they did go with their next bf/gf(s). Anyways, I do agree with you that the previews are evil. I like the boy, my comment is not coming from a place of judgement. Iām rather concerned he will ruin his chances of getting back with his ex, specially that she doesnāt seem to hate the idea for now. Even before the preview, he has been acting the same way, pretending to be indifferent to his ex, even though no one directly asked. Iām afraid heās also ruining his chances to be with other women as well, because heās obviously concerned about his ex. He goes out of his way to be dishonest, probably to protect himself, but regardless of the place his coming from or his intentions, itās not going to go well if he continued to act like that.
Yooshik isnāt even developing a romantic interest in anyone (not that heās not allowed to), he is just hanging out with other participants. Minkyung doesnāt have the right to control him like that, even if they were in a relationship. I hope she can speak frankly about her feelings instead of giving him an earful every time.
missing this so bad