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How many people were laughing crying at the last scene with Yong Shik & Dong Baek at end of ep6? I’d love to see the BTS of that bc I don’t know how they kept in character and didn’t just burst out laughing. Hippo Dong Baek is my favorite. She made my blood boil til that last scene. Glad to see ratings last go past 12%. I hope it stays a hit because this will make Kang Ha Neul a superstar - deservedly so. He’s becoming one of my all time favorite male leads.

People with dementia or Alzheimer’s go in and out of their illness until it becomes full blown then they completely lose all memories and sense of reality. It’s heartbreaking and confusing when someone you care about one moment seems like their old self and don’t know you or how to use the bathroom the next .

I literally clutched whatever was next to me and flung backwards and let out a sound of pain as if I was physically punched. I am beyond distressed and saddened to hear yet another amazing human being and entertainer has lost their life to depression. When will this deadly illness be treated more often and consistently as the deadly illness that it is?

One of the scariest things is that people seem to think that depression has to sound or look a certain way to be taken seriously. How many people sound fine and even cheerful because they feel pressured by society or others to not show their sadness or burden others by being honest about their struggles? Please don’t let this just be another death you forget but remember that if you have someone in your life struggling, please comfort them and be patient and compassionate toward them as long as it takes them to get over their pain or if it’s a brain chemistry issue, please help them to get professional help and let them know how much they mean to you and the world and they are not alone.

People who kill themselves don’t actually want to die, they just feel so hopeless and think that’s the only way to end their pain or they feel the world is better off without them. Think of all the amazing people in history that could still have done so much more if only they had the right support when they needed it? Please don’t let this tragedy be in vain but let it be something that you’ll always remember to help someone else not feel the stigma of depression or feel alone or ashamed that they are struggling and can’t feel safe to reach out for help. It’s the feelings of shame, aloneness and that their problems or pain will never end that make so many people end up taking their lives.

However, it doesn’t have to be like that. My fried who’s an engineer struggle with severe depression for years to the point of being unable to work or function and almost killed himself and had to be hospitalized but luckily through the love, support and gentle care of his doctors, family and friends eventually he was able to go back to work as a rocket scientist and his judo that he loves so much. We were all clueless and didn’t know how to properly support him at first but eventually we and he learned what depression really is and how best to be a support to someone with depression. He still has to manage his depression so it doesn’t get so out of control and we all have to work hard at not letting him isolate and put up a fake strong front and be a safe harbor for him to go to when life gets stormy. It’s a daily management but one worth doing. Not everyone is blessed with such a network of support but most people only need one person to give them unconditional support and caring. One person that they feel safe to be able to ask for help from or show their pain to and know that person won’t judge them or tell them to get over it or stop being sad and smile, but allow them the grace to know it’s okay to feel what they feel as long as they feel it and they are not alone. Please consider trying to be that person for the people in your life if you aren’t already.

Some gentle suggestions so next time you are tempted to say:

1. “Get over it.” Say instead, “I’m sorry that you’re hurt or sad. I’m here for you.”
2. “Don’t be sad,” instead more helpful would be, “Its okay to be sad, we’ve all felt this way. What made you so sad? Please tell me about it.” Or “it’s ok if you don’t want to talk about it yet but I’m here for you and you’ll feel better letting it out. You are not alone” and lists all the people and things to remind them they are not alone and that they have safe non judgmental people to go to for help and support.

Many suicides are preventable if those people could be reminded in time that they matter, they are loved and cared for and they are not alone in facing whatever trouble or problems they have. That you’ll be there with them and let’s just take one step at a time. Help get them as much support as possible especially professionals trained in depression and trauma management. Judgement, harshness, impatience and turning your back on someone severely depressed is as dangerous to them as germs are to a weak very ill person trying to fight off deadly infections.

I felt compelled to share this because it breaks my heart to lose someone still so young whose gifts I’ll never see in new projects again when it doesn’t have to end like this for anyone. May she Rest In Peace and let's turn our grief into determination to help others on her behalf.

Actually I find www way more depressing. I even love and enjoy ALML even more now that I FF all of Yeon Seo’s relatives’ parts. The www cast is bigger so there may seem to be more good guys but I feel the number of evil people are the same if not way more. The executive female lead that’s in the show’s poster is someone I absolutely consider a more heinous villain than any of Yeon Seo’s relatives. She betrayed and physically assaulted her close friend. I skip all her parts now. The villains here are catoonish so they don’t scare me as much. The villains on www are terrifying because such evil people do exist who think that money gives them the right to destroy other people’s lives with a snap of their fingers. Killing someone physically is no different than destroying their lives or killing them emotionally in my book.

OMG! See how insidious it is? Even I was too indoctrinated to notice that point! I wish I could give you 100 hand clap emojis and love votes for your smart insightful comment. THANK YOU!!!!

The insidious sexist comments by some are disappointing and sad. How many male leads are way older than the female leads and I don’t hear because he looks older than her, they don’t have chemistry or have only brother sister chemistry? The reason I say insidious is because our society has mostly allowed men to age on film and keep fading out and replacing their female counterparts with younger versions so many people don’t even realize that their problem with older women younger men pairings is due to indoctrination not actual logic. Having said all that, Shin Hye Sun looks to be the same age as Kim Myung Soo because they are only two years apart. This is one of my favorite OTPs of all time. Their chemistry is fire and I can’t disagree more with the sudden criticisms.

I love that love is blooming so beautifully on this show. I think it’s so refreshing that we have a female lead who says what she feels and isn’t afraid anymore to wear her heart on her sleeves. Their chemistry is amazing. Though they have many sweet skinship moments, I’m greedy and wish they were written and directed to do even more natural kisses like Its OK that’s Love but I’m glad they have so many sweet, flirty, deep moments that make me root so hard for them as a couple. I have no idea why some are saying they only see brother sister chemistry. That’s disturbing to me to see a couple do romantic sweet flirty things couples do and some people call that brother sister chemistry. Is this a Game of Thrones effect or something?

Plus why are some people predicting a city of angels ending? I didn’t like that movie whereas I love this show and the characters history are nothing alike and the stories are very different on many levels. So why suffer needlessly making far fetched connections or conjectures and missing out on enjoying the beautiful story happening right now?

It’s depressing that these people are makjang level evil without any punishment. I’ve started skipping all their parts. It’s the only downer to this wonderful beautiful show.

I skip all their parts at this point for better enjoyment of this show. Let’s destroy Yeon Seo to steal Fantasia, Rinse and Repeat. I don’t miss anything and can easily figure out what they did by the three leads’ reactions to them.

This show is ending, people need something else to see that's good. When I like something and think it will bring value to other people's life, I like to share it with others. I think I have a right to promote whatever& whereever I want if it's of good quality and most people will like. These shows have a lot in common. They are both romantic comedies and this one is about an obsession w/ an idol and currently I'm obssessed w/ this show starring an idol. I would think after watching a show about not judging people for their obsessions and what they do because of it, you'd be more understanding, but clearly the lesson sailed over your head. Plus this show wasn't getting enough viewership it deserved because the leads are still on the rise of their careers and promotion was needed. How is my sharing something good deserving of your rudeness? This is not your world, the rest of us are not here to make sure we don't annoy you. You're comment is very self centered and annoying but you have a right to it.

I’m sad to see this show end. In response to one of the complaints, I don’t mind cliches if they are done well by lovable characters. For those of you looking for another show or complained that this one was too boring (I like the sweetness), my current & MANY peoples current OBSESSIONS rn is Angel’s Last Mission: Love is mind blowingly good and its tv & mdl ratings are already pretty high but still steadily rising. Whereas I love this show for its sweetness, I’m obsessed with ALML for its amazing acting, cliffhangers (this week was a doozy) and just everything is so mind blowingly good and directed by the director who directed one of Park Min Young’s biggest hits, Healer. Thank you HPL for the weekly dose of warm gooey sweetness. I will miss you!

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I’m telling you, this one you want to watch while airing bc the love comments, articles, buzz it’s getting & is so much fun to read in real time. Plus this is so good your gonna be mad that you delayed it once you do watch. This is by far Shin Hye Sun’s best work and show!

OMG OMG OMFG! How are we going to survive til next week? My mind is blown, my heart is fluttering up a gale storm and I’m so excited for episodes 9-10 & beyond! This is by far the best kdrama show I’ve ever seen. The pacing, acting, chemistr, story - everything is mind blowingly good. It’s a good thing this is helmed by the Healer PD. He’s seems trustworthy. I hope he will steer this show as well as he steered that one. I’m so glad I’m watching this while it’s airing because I love the comments, reporter and fan reactions. It’s been 99% love. This makes the pain of waiting for the next episode hurt so good. This show is getting the ratings and obsession it deserves. This has been so enjoyable, even the wait is worth it!

We can all thank the international hits My Love From The Stars and Secret Gardens for this trend.

Fair enough. Sorry to hear that. Though I thought opposite of you in that it was so different and refreshingly well made. I was hooked at first ep ‘ thought how beautiful everything was. It was a joy to my eyes , brain, and it touched my heart.

Lol. I didn’t get your joke tho knew it had to be an inside joke til someone posted later that Yeon Seo’s house is the house in that show as well (plus another blind heiress show “That Winter the Wind Blows”).

Lol to first part & sniffles at 2nd part. Yes.

I hate waiting every week too but this show is so good that it’s worth it.

Don’t miss out on how good it is - it’s worth the wait every week.

You can’t judge this show wo watching it first. Read the reviews of those who have actually watched it and you’ll see that the overwhelming majority of people don’t just like the show but love it.