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True, but that's why I said, at the end of the day, the heavy lifting is done by the family or someone else close to the patient. Doctors are there to diagnose, that's basically all they do.

Sure, I can't diagnose anyone, I'm not a doctor, but in many cases you can help a mentally ill person without a doctor. Unless it's a really serious problem and they need medication or something else.

People with DID, like FL, usually have to live in hospice care. Unless it's not as serious or the doctor just doesn't care. Like I said, my friend has DID for 20+ years and he has to take shots every month.

He didn't have any childhood trauma or anything like that, so no one knows why or how his DID developed.

As I said, every case is different, and that's why I think Muhui's case is not unrealistic.

Yes, sadly. I get if people don't like it, but blaming the writers and characters is insane. Also, it's not like in typical romcoms the romance isn't dragged out for "decades". Even if they get together in the last couple of episodes the writer usually breaks them apart before the finale.😂 At least that didn't happen in this one.

People do dumb things, especially in a relationship, so this was pretty realistic. Especially if we understand that both have personal problems, and one is a huge star too. I was actually surprised they didn't make a big fuss in the media about their dating. I was waiting for that plot but not in a good way.

Sure, but she thought they are together now, and it's not like our smart guy said anything about it.

It was like the worst table tennis match ever.😂

Jokes aside, you know why she didn't have the courage. That's the whole Dorami exists.

Most people can only see the surface, that's why romcoms are the most watched Kdramas. They don't have to think about the story that much. Sad, really.

Girl, come on, you never heard about time skip? 😂

But she didn't do it because she saw him with the other girl. So, it's not pathetic. Would you go there and interrupt them?😂

I'm sorry, but I'm so done with people blaming Muhui and calling her irritating, because keep chasing Hojin. Why are Kdrama fans such hypocrites?

Hojin literally asked her out in Japan, when she had the accident, she visited her 3 TIMES, and asked about her from her manager. That's not something a random guy does to someone who he doesn't like. Let's not act as if he didn't send her mixed signals. He had nothing to do with the other woman, he just loved her, it was more like an obsession than love. That's all. It was clear since the 1st EP that he already liked Muhui, he was just in the denial phase. That's why he kept rejecting her.

He kept saying he doesn't want anything from Muhui, yet he always kept looking after her, helped her etc.

We should make a betting site for Kdrama fans. I could win so much money because of the protective fangirls.😂

I know it's different, and neither can help more than a family member or a friend. Doctors don't care about you, and don't know you at all. The mentioned examples above are the proof.

I'm not saying every doctor is crap, but saying family members can't help someone with mental illness is ridiculous. At the end of the day, it's family who keep protecting and helping the person, not doctors. They only see the doctor once in a while.

That's why I don't like or even hate when people praise doctors in cases like this, because the heavy lifting is done by the family, and that's a fact.

I mean, if you have a good family or friends who care about you. If you don't have anyone, well, you're pretty much fcked. Just like our FL was till she met our guy.

That's why I said it's not unrealistic, it's just not usual.

It doesn't matter if you call me out or not, it won't change my opinion. I've had multiple encounters with the so called EXPERTS and all they do is ask for money, sit in a room for an hour and that's all.

You can be ignorant and think doctors can solve everything by listening to you, but family and friends can do that for free. There's literally no difference between the two other than doctors aren't free. I have a friend who has DID, and after 20+ years they still haven't helped him at all, he just has to take his medicine and that's all. And no, he still has big problems with his DID. My 8 year old nephew had metal health issues as well, my sister paid for a doctor, he struggled to be with other kids. The doctors said it's nothing serious, he's just too young, he will grow out of it. After he left that school, he's totally fine.

I can mention 100s of cases when doctors didn't help their patients, they made their health issues worse. Including my own grandmother's. So let's not act as if talking to a doctor can solve everything.

You said "Close relatives are likely not qualified to understand what it takes to treat you."

But the funny thing is, they're more qualified than any other doctor, because they know you.

For new viewers: Turn on the ENGLISH sub on Netflix, not the ENGLISH CC.

Also, ignore the comments, because most people are only trashing the show because they thought this is a typical cute romcom, even tho the trailer already spoiled its dark side as well. It's a romance and a comedy, but also a realistic drama about real life struggles and mental health issues and childhood trauma.

So, no, this is not just a fun, fluffy romcom. I don't get why people act as if Kdramas always had 1 genre.

If you can handle slow-burn romance, a dark past, and real life struggles with a story that is a bit more complex than a usual romcom, this is for you. If you can't, just skip it now. You can find 100s of copy and paste romcoms anyway.

99% of the negative comments are about the fact that it's not a typical cutesy romcom. Most romcom lovers don't like real-life dramas about real people and complex stories. Not sure why they thought it was another typical romcom when the trailer already spoiled the dark turn.

"Can they listen, absolutely. However, their suggestions could harm you as again, they are likely not qualified to understand what it takes to treat you."

Just because someone has a PhD and is listening to your problems for money, doesn't mean they can do a better job than people around you. They might be more qualified on paper, but their "suggestions" can harm you as well. Not to mention, they don't know you at all. So, how can a doctor help you if they don't know you and care about you? If they care about their patients they should work for free, not just prescribe medicine. That's the opposite of help, actually.

What are you even talking about? She didn't do anything wrong. Why are you acting as if she commited a crime? And she IS a victim.

You completely misunderstood the story, so I'm not surprised by your review.

If you can't figure out what genre they were aiming for, you should stop watching shows and movies in general I think. That's the most basic thing. I don't even want to talk about the rest.

Looks like I don't have to, because @Bluescenery explained it pretty well down below. 😅

I don't care if PSH has to play a girl in her 20s, because she eats this role up like nothing. It's funny, intriguing, and if you lived in the 90s like me, and love complex stories, this drama is for you.

Sometimes it's cringe, but in a funny way, and it's cringe on purpose unlike many dramas.

I think that part is pretty obvious, because there was only one person there.😅

What happened in that scene has nothing to do with her closing her eyes. She was stressed out. Personalities usually change after a shock or when they wake up just like what happened on the plane when she kissed him. Just because she closed her eyes doesn't mean that's how she can change her alters. The scene was meant to show the viewers she wanted to force Dorami out, but technically she came out because she was struggling not because she closed her eyes.

I get that the scene didn't explain it properly, but if I understood it, everyone can.

Just because you step on the gas pedal harder the car won't accelerate faster. The same logic can be used for the scene you're talking about.

"- I did, girl where is your reading comprehension cause I literally said that I have one, + with Cum Laude honors. wheres your credentials that you have the audacity to talk about DID lol"

First of all, I'm not a girl. Secondly, how did you finish it if you can't understand sarcasm? Not to mention, you're talking like a dumbass teen.

I don't have a degree in this, but I know people with DID, and the only thing the so called experts do is prescribe medicine that doesn't help, other than making the patient even more depressed.

"THEY DIDNT EVEN DIAGNOSED PROPERLY IN THE SHOW, COULD BE DELUSIONAL DISORDER, MULTIPLE PERSONALITY, DISSOCIATIVE IDENTITY DISORDER. THE KDRAMA TREATED IT AS A PLOT DEVICE FANTASY"

Here we go again, you didn't pay attention to the details. Someone already mentioned this, I won't tell you again. You're saying you have a degree yet you don't know what DID means. I'm not a doctor, yet I still understood her problem. Wonder why someone with a degree can't.

"Psychology is an art and a science which translates to therapy and medication. BOTH IS NEEDED. Which Muhee didnt even bother to go and the show didnt properly show that shes working towards her RECOVERY (MEDICINE) AND SHE SAID THAT IT MIRACULOUSLY "DISAPPEAR" LOLLLL (WHICH SHE SAID IN THE END OF EP 12)"

What a load of nonsense. Do you know what the point of therapy is? People are paying a lot of money for someone to listen to their problems, even tho they could talk about it to their relatives or friends for free. So, let's not call this ART. It's not even real science. A therapist just sits in a chair and listens. That's all.

You proved my point again. She didn't miraculously cure herself. She hid her past to defend herself. She had no one to talk to, and even her family lied to her and hated her. She was confused about her past all along because they lied to her. She was struggling with DID since she was a kid. Just because she never talked to a doctor, doesn't mean she couldn't be cured without one. ML did something that a doctor would never do. He helped her move on and trust in someone. An actual doctor would never care about this.

"Idk why you're defending POOR REPRESENTATION OF PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER IN A BIG KDRAMA SERIES. Its NOT SOMETHING YOU SHOULD ROMANTICIZE EW"

Do you know everyone with DID? If not, please stop talking. Every time a show includes some disability or mental disorder, many people act like they know everything and these things can be portrayed only one way. No one is romanticizing anything. You just need to use your brain to understand that everyone is different. Just because someone has DID or any other problems, doesn't mean they're all the same. Everyone is different even if they have DID, ADHD, ASD etc.

For example, I'm diagnosed with epilepsy, but I don't have the same symptoms as other people. I don't have seizures if I take my medicine but many people still have them even if they take their medicine.

Now, if you still can't understand, don't waste my time please.

Totally agree, and this shouldn't be surprising because most Kdrama and Korean movies in general have multiple genres. So, I don't get why people are confused.

The only problem here is you. My ratings and opinion have nothing to do with her or other actors. Pull your head out of your ass and start thinking like a normal human being and not as a toxic fangirl.