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That doesn’t give you the right to cyberbully someone here just because you had an argument with them. If you had an issue with them, then you shouldn’t have created another account it’s another level of stupidity, and I find that really weird. Not every user has the time to create new accounts like you.

what did you do to the person ?, this is so weird

I am confused here why are you using the user's name if you dislike them and throwing false accusations.

I think Yi Fan’s response is a reflection of her inner struggle and trauma, not a lack of emotion or care for Sang Yan. She’s been through a lot, and sometimes it’s hard to express feelings, especially after everything they’ve been through. While Sang Yan’s actions are more outwardly expressive, Yi Fan’s feelings are more subtle and complex. Her coldness might just be her way of holding back her emotions, not a sign of indifference. I felt like she was apologizing in her own way, even if it wasn’t as obvious as we might have wanted.

yes i agree with you !!!

Yes i agree with your comment too thanks for understanding mine.

I understand your perspective, but I still disagree. I don’t think the issue here is about deflecting blame; it's about understanding the complexities of Yi Fan’s situation. Yes, she made mistakes, but that doesn’t mean her actions or emotions should be disregarded. She was dealing with her own trauma, and while it doesn’t excuse her, it explains why she acted the way she did.

Sang Yan didn’t really make mistakes in this situation, so it’s not about two people making mistakes. It’s about one character’s emotional journey affecting the other. I agree that Yi Fan should’ve communicated better with Sang Yan, but I don’t think it’s as simple as just justifying her actions.

I understand Sang Yan’s pain, and it’s definitely valid. But the story is about growth and understanding, not justifying bad actions. It's about seeing the reasons behind them and how both characters can heal and move forward.

t I don't think it's fair to generalize everything by using the term "simp." It's important to acknowledge that Sang Yan's character is being shaped in a way that emphasizes his care and understanding for Yi Fan, even when it’s difficult. His actions are driven by love and concern, and I don't think that makes him weak. As for Yi Fan, while her trauma doesn't excuse all her decisions, it's part of her complex journey, and her emotional scars aren't just something she can quickly move past. The story is showing her struggle to heal, and it’s not about her not feeling remorse it’s just not as immediate or obvious.

Like you mentioned, Sang Yan really does understand Yi Fan. I’d love to see another scene where they have an open conversation without any misunderstandings. It would be great to see them connect on a deeper level, where both of them can express their feelings clearly and move forward together without any confusion or barriers.

I agree with you too

I totally understand where you're coming from. The way Sang Yan is portrayed can feel almost too perfect at times, but I think that’s part of what makes him such a comforting character. His unwavering support and care for Yi Fan are idealized, especially when compared to the flaws we often see in real life. But that's the beauty of fiction, right? It gives us the opportunity to escape into a world where these perfect, caring characters can exist, even if only for a moment.

When it comes to their relationship, it’s interesting to think about the dynamics. In many stories, we see characters who are flawed in various ways, and their growth involves learning how to navigate those flaws in a relationship. With Sang Yan and Yi Fan, there’s this delicate balance where Sang Yan provides support, but Yi Fan’s trauma and her own journey are just as central to the story. It’s not one-sided both characters are growing in their own ways, and that’s what makes their connection so meaningful. Despite his perfection, the relationship isn’t just about him being ideal it’s about how he complements her growth and healing process.

SANG YAN WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN 💝

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I totally get where you're coming from! It is frustrating at times, but that's what makes the show interesting it highlights different relationship dynamics. Relationships aren't always one-sided, and here we get to see how each character reacts to their personal struggles. It's not about one person giving more than the other but about learning to grow together despite the imbalances.

Yifan believed she couldn't give Sang Yan the love he deserved because she hasn't fully healed yet. Her actions are driven by her own unresolved trauma, and that’s what makes her push him away, even though she cares for him deeply. The drama isn't hard to understand when you consider that it's about her journey to heal and learn to trust.

Relationships always have different dynamics in real life.

I get where you're coming from, but I disagree. While the drama does focus on Yifan’s healing process, it doesn’t mean Sang Yan’s feelings should be ignored or invalidated. His pain and struggles are real, too. The issue is that people often seem to focus only on Yifan’s trauma and healing, forgetting that relationships are a two-way street. It's not fair to expect Sang Yan to always be perfect, supportive, and selfless while having no room for his own emotions. Just because the plot centers on Yifan’s healing doesn’t mean Sang Yan’s journey, especially his emotional well-being, is any less important. It’s not about him being a mere support character, it’s about both of them learning, growing, and healing together, which is what love should be.

Not interested.

I understand your point about both characters needing healing, but I think it’s important to remember the difference in what they’ve been through. Yifan's trauma, especially with her experiences of almost being raped, is incredibly complex and doesn’t compare to what other characters like Duan Jiaxu or Zhang Lurang faced. Their struggles are valid, but Yifan’s trauma shapes her actions and her capacity to love. This isn’t just about love and relationships it’s about survival and healing from deeply rooted fear.

Comparing her to other characters without acknowledging the weight of her past doesn’t really reflect the complexities of her journey. Healing for Yifan needs to be on her own terms, and it doesn’t diminish the love between her and Sang Yan it's just a different, more difficult path to get there.

The relationship isn’t just about who’s done what for whom it’s more about the emotional journey both characters are going through. She has her own struggles and trauma, which impacts her ability to express her feelings the way he does. It’s not that she doesn’t care for him, but healing isn’t always straightforward. The show is exploring her growth, and while he’s been incredibly supportive, it’s clear she’s still working through her own issues. Her love for him will likely come to the forefront in her own time and way.

you are misunderstanding my comment.