Irene

I didn’t plan to reply, but your comment started by calling them obsessive. These users were just explaining the situation to you if your main comment had been different, no one would have responded.

If this drama had only 16-20 episodes, it wouldn’t have handled Yi Fan’s healing as well. The slower pacing allowed for a more in-depth portrayal of her journey rather than rushing through it. There were also insightful and deep conversations, especially in how the characters processed their emotions and past experiences. The mix of heavy themes with lighter moments wasn’t just for fan service it reflected how people cope in real life.

Is MDL playing a game or what? The ratings keep fluctuating back and forth what is the admin even doing?

I don't think its stalking

yes he did.

I get where you’re coming from, but it’s not as simple as just 'choosing' to open up. It’s easy to say she had people around her, but trauma and past experiences don’t just disappear because someone is there for you. It’s not always easy to open up to the people you care about, even if they want to help.

Yi Fan’s struggles are deep, and even though she has Sang Yan and others now, that doesn’t automatically make it easy for her to open up. It’s a process. Sometimes people push others away not because they don’t care but because they’re afraid of burdening them or feeling misunderstood. She doesn’t make the best choices, but it's about her internal battle and how she’s learning to deal with everything around her.

There’s nothing funny about this situation, so I don’t get the laughing emojis. And since you’ve seen Sang Yan in Hidden Love, you already know that this is his love story one that’s connected to Wei Yi Fan. The focus on her trauma and struggles doesn’t erase his presence; it just means the story is tackling their relationship from a different angle.

Yes, he told her they’d face things together, but that doesn’t mean she was in the right state of mind to fully believe it at the time. Her leaving wasn’t about doubting him it was about not knowing how to deal with herself. The drama made him a green flag from the start, so if they had shown more of his struggles, people would’ve still said it was unnecessary because he’s already understanding. Just because the focus was on Yi Fan doesn’t mean Sang Yan’s role or feelings were dismissed.

it would make no sense if they made her separate with him for a short time.

She is slowly apologizing to him in her own way. Every time she tries to talk, Sang Yan already understands her and doesn’t let her say much he knows her well enough to read between the lines. It’s not about whether she should apologize but about how their dynamic works.

And about her being a reporter that was never really her dream. That’s why they showed the flashback of her jumping and getting injured. When she went to HK, she started helping out in the ballet class, and for the first time in a while, she felt a little happy again. Her decision wasn’t the best, but it wasn’t about taking the 'easy way out' it was about her being stuck in survival mode, not knowing how to handle everything at once.

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I don’t really agree with this take. Just because Yi Fan is focused on healing and chasing her dreams doesn’t mean she doesn’t care about Sang Yan. Love isn’t just about doing things for someone it’s also about understanding, growing, and being there in ways that aren’t always obvious. She’s not a 'simp' FL, but that doesn’t mean she won’t show love in her own way. Also, just because some dramas have FLs who center their whole world around the ML doesn’t mean that’s the only valid way to show love. Relationships can be balanced in different ways."

The drama actually does a good job of showing why she reacts the way she does. She’s someone who has struggled with feeling worthy of love and stability, and while it might seem like she just left selfishly, that’s not entirely fair.

First, she did apologize for the first time she left. That alone shows she has started to open up more, acknowledging her past actions instead of avoiding them. She also admitted that she doesn’t feel like she deserves Sang Yan this isn’t about choosing the easy way out but about deeply ingrained self-doubt. She spent years believing she was a burden to those around her, and her instinct when things got serious was to protect him in the only way she knew: by removing herself.

As for Sang Yan, he’s not a "simp." He’s someone who understands her struggles and has always been patient with her. He’s hurt, yes, but his actions come from his own feelings, not just blindly chasing her. If anything, the fact that he’s still there despite everything shows how much he genuinely cares rather than just reacting out of impulse.

If she truly hadn’t changed in six years, she wouldn’t have apologized, and she wouldn’t have confronted her own emotions at all. It’s not a perfect journey, but it makes sense for someone with her emotional baggage.

Sang Yan definitely understands the female lead’s emotional struggles and has been incredibly patient with her. His love for her is unconditional, and he’s aware of her trauma and the reasons behind her emotional distance. However, I think it’s important to recognize that the FL’s journey is just as complex as his. She’s not intentionally being cold or indifferent her inability to express love comes from the trauma she’s been through, which is why she can’t always show him the affection he deserves.

Let’s not forget that the FL pursued him first, and it wasn’t her intention to make the harsh decision to distance herself from him. The show actually does a good job of explaining why she does what she does, especially in terms of her own emotional pain and fear of hurting him. It’s not about her not loving him it's about her not knowing how to handle those feelings because of her past. So, while the ML is wonderful for being understanding, you should try to understand where the FL is coming from, too.

The ML is a great guy, and I agree that he doesn’t need to apologize more than her. His selfless love for her is evident, but at the same time, it’s crucial to acknowledge that the FL’s actions (or lack thereof) aren’t about him failing in any way. It’s about her struggle to open up and trust, not because of a lack of love, but because of the walls she’s built due to her past experiences.

I understand that it might seem like the ML is "simping" or sacrificing too much, his growth is shown through his understanding of her pain and his decision to be there for her, no matter what.

I see where you’re coming from, but I thought I read a comment here that mentioned she sought medical help in the drama. Also, I don’t think her leaving was extremely selfish I get why it was hurtful, but considering everything she went through, it’s understandable why she felt the need to step away. In the Episode 28 trailer, the male lead seemed to open up more about how he felt he was telling the female lead that he loves her but also that her words can affect him. So I do think the drama would touch on it.

You can ignore them or report the account.

same here but i think it is best to not argue with the person.

have a nice day.

Your comment is confusing me now. Did Precious ever wish death on you just because of your comment? I’m also lost because what do you mean by several users taking legal action? This is just a fansite, and it’s not widely known. I’m sorry, but your comment seems made up. Have a nice day, and feel free to reach out to her if you want.

Creating an account just because you disagree with her seems a bit strange, especially since she’s already explained the situation to me. I think it would be better if you both try to reconcile and avoid turning this page into more of a mess. Thank you for understanding.

That’s so sad some people can’t understand that it’s okay to have different opinions. If they didn’t agree with your comment, they should’ve just stopped talking to you. But honestly, I find their actions now so weird.