Irene

It’s important to acknowledge the male lead’s feelings, but we’re talking about the female lead's journey here. Her healing process and trauma are central to the story, and while the male lead’s support is admirable, it doesn’t invalidate her struggles. It’s not about disregarding his pain it’s about showing that the story focuses on her emotional growth. Both characters have their own challenges, and the male lead's devotion is a reflection of his love, but that doesn’t mean the female lead’s journey isn’t just as significant.

His actions aren't about seeking validation; they come from genuine love and care. Moving on isn't always an option for people who are deeply committed and emotionally attached, especially when they believe in the relationship. It's not about being passive; it's about being patient and understanding, even when it’s difficult.

The male lead's devotion isn’t just "simping." It’s about his emotional attachment and love, even when things are difficult. Relationships aren't always black and white, and sometimes the most important part is sticking through the tough moments, even when it’s not easy.

The ML isn’t just “over simping” or dependent on the FL he’s reacting to the weight of her past and how it affects her, even if it doesn’t always seem balanced. His role isn’t just about serving as a plot device to protect her; it’s about how he supports her through her struggles, even if it’s not always the easiest or most obvious path.

As for the abandonment letter, it’s not poorly written it’s tied to the FL’s emotional history. Her past is why she acts the way she does, and it’s reflected in the way she handles things with the ML. It’s not about disregarding his feelings, but about showing her own emotional turmoil and how difficult it is for her to confront those feelings.

She will do more when they are finally together again

she has cooked for him in the drama.

I see what you mean, but I personally didn’t feel like it was unnecessary misery or that it undid her years of growth. I think it highlights how deeply trauma can stay with someone, even after they've fought so hard to move on. To me, it’s not that she can't overcome things alone, but that she shouldn’t have to. It's more about how healing isn’t always about standing alone forever sometimes real strength is in letting yourself lean on the people who love you. I get that it’s not everyone's favorite direction, but I find it believable and honestly pretty heartbreaking in a good way.

To me, it’s more like the story showing how healing and standing your ground isn’t always a straight path. You can make progress, but sometimes when the past hits you again in a different way, those fears resurface. Yi Fan already proved she can fight back, but this time it’s showing how exhausting it is to keep doing that alone. For me, it wouldn’t take away from her growth if SY supports her. It’s not about him saving her, but her realizing she doesn’t have to carry it all by herself anymore. I think that’s a powerful message too

While trauma doesn't excuse this behavior, it's important to recognize the complexity of how trauma affects individuals. People who’ve experienced pain often carry that burden in ways they might not fully understand or control. It doesn’t make their actions right, but it's crucial to approach them with empathy, as healing from trauma is a long and difficult process. Understanding why someone acts out, even if it’s hurtful, can be the first step toward addressing the root causes and finding ways to break the cycle.

I left a comment about Yifan, but honestly, it doesn’t seem like she was ever really liked on this app. I’ll need to keep watching to figure out what went wrong because the reactions here are honestly surprising.
https://kisskh.at/722171-first-frost#comment-21039776

With the latest episode, I’m really enjoying it so far. Amid all the heated debates over Yifan’s decision, I can’t wait to watch on Friday ❤️

The leads are absolutely gorgeous
if the plot were lacking, I’d still tune in, but thankfully, the storyline is engaging and their performances feel so natural.

Something I’ve noticed while reading through the comments is that the people who dislike it rarely have any solid critiques, so they just end up embarrassing themselves every time.

You probably didn't finish the drama. The only thing missing at the end was the leads’ wedding, but everything else was really happy. And I read what you wrote; otherwise, I wouldn’t have responded.

It was a happy ending, so what are you even talking about?

I do doubt that it will rise back up but i agree that it could have been at 8.5

I understood the plot and enjoyed it overall. While the last two episodes weren’t the strongest in terms of writing, it still deserves higher praise. and which teenage girls?

8.5 is at least good

I agree with you

Okay next.... It deserves higher

Exactly 😭, they should give it 0 and call it a day what's the point of dragging it.

Personally, I’d rate the drama a 10/10. I loved the plot, the acting, and even the clichés most K-dramas have them, and I like that for me. If you’re not a fan of the reviews, why not write your own?