Diva70

I agree. I also have come to the conclusion that. basically these people are cheating because that’s what they want to do.

The writers keep portraying her in a negative way. Is this to justify her husband straying. I’m not buying it.

You may be right but I think the other two are older and just more coy.

So after looking at ep 10 which made no sense are we to expect some crazy twist in the plot....so far it’s been more of the same....I’m just curious now

What was the point of ep10? Each husband states right up front he’s married. Each woman gets involved anyway. More lies...more deceit?did the writer just get tired!!!!!

Thank you for that information. Now I understand why I was laughing so hard at ep9 and had already said this is too outrageous to to take seriously??

I am hoping that each of the wives can realize their true worth and that their happiness is not defined by any man. I hope when the second wife discovers what her husband has done that she does not repeat her mothers behavior. I also hope she realizes that it’s her husband who has the problem not her. No groveling, no crazy hysterics, no desire for vengeance. No accepting things on his terms but putting on her big girl panties and taking control of her life on her terms.

Season 2? I guess looking at the seedy side of life makes money. Heaven forbid showing couples who can weather the storms of life together.

You know the thing is I grew up around men like these. These were churchgoing , hardworking men who society gave a pass. And the women were shameless. They knew these men were married and had families and just didn’t care. The wives just looked the other way because divorce would put they and their children in an even worse position. I just thought in 2021 there would be a harsher view of this type of behavior.

It was confusing but I think it’s to show how this mess got started. I really don’t get the point. I still feel bad for the wives and the husbands and mistresses seem even worse .

No we haven’t seen where they’ve actually gotten together although there was a call in an earlier episode where someone calls and is apparently having stomach problems and he says he will stop by. Then he calls his wife and makes up some lame excuse. If nothing wrong is going on why wouldn’t he tell his wife a patient called.

I guess you’re right. She’s not some innocent naive teenager. I guess what bothers me is how easy this seems for the two of them. It’s obvious that they will be meeting again. Am I just old fashioned?

Interesting perspective...thank you

Yes who does what he did...walk in going through cabinets, telling you not to go clubbing, who to see, who not to see and she just gleefully replies yes. And she just met him and has given him her whole life history. She was ready. If he had wanted he could have had her right than and there. Both sickos.

I was thinking the same thing. I keep watching because I can’t believe this is set in the 21st century. I keep waiting fir the wives to break out of their emotional prisons. And you are right. This is a sad commentary on men/husbands.

You are not an idiot. There are some good people in the world but good or not if a married man is that attentive both parties should beware.

Probably so but I would find that just as repulsive. I think for me I keep watching because I just want these men to be publicly exposed and get some payback. And I hope the wives come out winners. We are halfway through. The tides have got to change. After this I’m going back to watching my BLs.

Me too...you ask how a woman does that with a man she just met. You do it if that’s what you’re used to doing....using your youth and looks to get what you want. She’s not a naive teenager. She knows what she’s doing. This is like reading a trashy novel.

When you lie to your wife and to your fantasy ., when you take a young woman you just met out to dinner and then proceed to take her home all without telling your wife you are cheating and on top of that you give her an expensive gift you are cheating. Some people call it grooming.

At the very least I think Seo ban would be man enough to own his stuff.