Diva70

This is why I feel the writers are really insulting our intelligence. Does it make any difference if the mistresses are “good” people. Wrong is wrong. These are grown, intelligent women with low self-esteem and low morals. You can’t wrap a bow around poop and call it pretty. It’s still poop. Whatever happened to just say no and walk away. It’s obvious that this was just about putting money in the bank. The audience has been duped. This topic has been done much better.

Lol...I love when you said kill me. I feel your pain. That’s why I couldn’t watch any more.

I must say these are some fine actors. They must be to elicit the kind of reaction they have received thus far. Kudos to each one for hitting their marks . However, as I’ve stated before I don’t enjoy watching films about cheating and there have been plenty made. I didn’t like them as a teenager, didn’t watch them in my 20s or 30s and I still don’t. I tried watching this because I generally like kdramas but it showed me nothing I didn’t already know. It actually started out promising but around ep 7 I saw a turn in the dynamics and that really did it for me. I do enjoy reading the spoilers so I’ll wait until the finale and get your final analysis. Take care.

I keep thinking somebody involved in this drama must have cheated in the past and this is their way of seeking redemption. Either the person was a mistress or husband and wants people to see they’re just like you or me.. This is just my theory. Why else would anyone spend so much time on the cheaters and mistresses? Mess is mess. You can’t clean it up with a pretty smile and a sob story.

This should have been titled How to Cheat and Be Happy While Doing It

I’ll read the spoilers. Can’t wait to see her reaction when she finds out.

I gave it a 4. Thinking about changing it to a 2. I respect your comments but I respectfully disagree. This is nothing new. People have been lying and cheating since the beginning of time. Nothing new here. It’s been done better. I admit I’m bias. I have never liked movies/series dealing with infidelity. Enjoy.

Thank you. I’ve already dropped this series. If that’s true I definitely won’t be looking at Season 2. I have no desire to see a husband and his former mistress skipping down the yellow brick road to happiness. I know that happens in real life. I’ve seen it. I can spare myself. I don’t have to watch. There are so many other good uplifting kdramas to watch. I’m out. Enjoy.

No there are are a lot of people who are enjoying it. Even if you dislike it they did find a way to keep people watching. I watched 12 episodes but I’m done. I never have liked movies or series dealing with infidelity. I thought this one might change my mind. It didn’t.

Love your analysis. Having been with my husband for 50 years and married to him for almost 48 years before he died he would be the first to say we were two imperfect people who were perfectly fit for each other. I found this series very disheartening. Wives - don’t get an education, don’t try to maintain a good home. Don’t even try to cook, don’t have personal goals and ambitions of your own, don’t raise your kids to be happy...because in the end it won’t count anyway. Husbands- you are entitled to have your cake and eat it too. You don’t have to own your own imperfections. You are a man and you have needs and if your wife no longer meets your needs it’s ok. Just cheat on her and dump her. Everyone will understand. Mistresses - you are not responsible for fixing your own life. You need a man...just latch on to someone else’s husband. You deserve to be happy even if it’s at the expense of the wife and children. And it’s not your fault if the wife is no longer the apple of his eye. He wants you. You want him. That’s all that matters. This is what I got from this series and this saddens me because that is not what marriage is all about. I don’t know what the wedding vows are in Korea. There has been no mention or reference to the vows. The closest was from the professors daughter who was awesome. Where I come from the vows are not just words you repeat and forget. They are sacred. Maybe that’s why this show is not for me. I wish you and your husband well. May you hit the big 50 and beyond.

That’s what it looks like. Somehow they’re trying to make the affairs romantic and conjure up sympathy for the husbands. I’ll say it for the last time. All three husbands are cowards and liars. Hopefully they will end of with their mistresses. Most affairs don’t last because being with someone 24/7 is the real world. That’s when they realize everyone has flaws . The affair is a fantasy world.

I agree with you 100%. Trying to justify the actions of these men is crazy. These are not young teenagers. They know what they’re doing and they are wrong. Trying to paint a negative picture of the wives is just an excuse. You don’t badmouth your wife to another woman. And just because the woman tells you to bring your wife to dinner doesn’t impress me. You shouldn’t be having dinner with him anyway. You already know you have him hooked.. kudos to the writers. Just another sleazy drama. Nothing to learn. Just enjoy if this is your forte.

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Yes he likes to be needed...remember he’s a psychologist so he knows how to manipulate people. Still she’s no novice. They just toying with each other. They both know where this is headed. Both two sickos.

I predicted it would only be a matter of time before the older mistress tearfully bears her soul to the dimwit lawyer....and breakfast to dinner to getting drunk together...how trite and predictable...want to see a good series...try Vicenza

Thank you....that doesn’t surprise me. He’s a total narcissist

This is why it’s so important to seriously consider if this is truly the person you want to marry. Everything needs to be discussed. There are some things which will not be open to compromise such as religion. Children may also be non-negotiable. If one party only wants one and the other party wants at least five perhaps you should reconsider. As soon as a problem arises it should be addressed. Getting involved in an affair is clearly not an option. That’s what I found disturbing about this series. People proceeded anyway with no regard for the eventual pain it would cause.

He thinks taking care of a baby is like taking care of that dog he and his father love.

That’s what threw me when I read the comment about the series being refreshing and how it was taking its time to show how the husbands and their mistresses fell in love.

This may be my last post on this series. I actually read a comment where someone said they found the series refreshing. I just don’t see how looking at married men and women deliberately engage in deceit and deception is refreshing. So I’m done.