Dreamy

"As she know..",
Nope, more like she presume know.
How would she know?
She met him when he was 8, they part more than 20years, people can change even in months.

So it feels more like she keep pushing it regardless how would he feel & how he keep saying no to all her moves

Hadn't really reject her advance? I believe he keep saying no to all her moves but she just keep pushing it, I wonder if we even watch the same show

I believe there are tons better way to make the ML feel better without making it creepy but the production team choose not to, they keep adding this clinginess & pushyness of the FL as if it's not overwhelming already

This drama keeps giving creepy romance vibes, not only they had to make the FL seen the ML as her love interest as early as he's an 8 years old boy, the obsessive & aggressive way of the FL pushing herself to the ML as very well offputting dialogues just really outshines the goodness of this show (acting) & makes the romance felt really force & artificial to me.

ML: what do you like?
FL: You, Director-nim (ML)
ML: I was referring to FOOD
FL: Everything that you like
ML: Don't you hv preference?
FL: My preference is you

Me: *facepalm
This kind of approach doesn't translate well in real life, If I ever cameacross a man/ woman being as clingy & obsessive as the FL did here to the ML I'd run as far as I could with all my might

They just don't want to grow conscience & admit how this can be a problem, so they always had to bring this other unrelated fantasy drama to defend when two wrong doesn't make it right, some who includes romantic feeling scenes with minor still receive strong oppose reaction (I was there) & it's not even as young as an 8 years old kid like this drama show to us. What a weak defense.

To break it down:
GOBLIN: receive strong oppose reaction when the FL is a highschooler
TONT: The ML met the FL when she's lil' but the drama never show he has romantic feeling until later she become an adult & they interact more as adult, after she reincarnate he only protect her for safety & only when they remeet again as adult by coincidence they rekindled the romance
BULGASAL: the focus isn't even romance, more thriller with all the killings & had 0 romance with minor, it's like comparing apple to orange

None of this other drama they mentioned has the lead in his/her adult mind see an 8 years old kid romantically/ as their potential romantic partner like this drama has.

Imagine if her 17th life as an uncle isn't as nice as the drama portrays, how disturbing it could be seen (the way she take an 8 years old boy as her potential lover)? But ofc this is kdrama who often romanticized everything so throwing every disturbing sign under the rug is the norm & they expect everyone to accept it

Right? Some ppl are just blatantly rude & childish to forbid people giving their honest opinion over a drama they watched unless it's positive feedbacks, lol this page isn't even a fanpage to begin with. They forgot that the main purpose of this page are to give feedbacks whether it's positive or negative, to discuss or share different pov, opinion, all acceptable. They shd live in their own bubble if they can't accept it instead of telling people "don't like don't watch" lmao the audacity to act like a police in this page is astonishing indeed

Why Kang Ha Neul is even in this list?, Last time I check he's a man 😂 maybe they mistook him as Kim Ha Neul? 🤭

I just want to second/ highlight this:
"Dont get me started on the weird age gap. If you have the memories of your past life, you have all your adult memories and experiences, which you know, makes you an adult mentally (hence why she became mature and changed personally when she regained her memories in her 18th life)."

This! Exactly! Memories & experience are things that shaping us all as an adult, his/her younger body is the only thing that differs him to regular adult, while deepdown in mind she/he shd be more adult than an any adult ever thanks to his 999 years living experience :))))

To me memories & experience are things that shaping us all as a person,
the way her mom told how she grown mature overnight alr pretty telling she's an adult in mind.

Idk but to me, I'd feel as disturbed if I hear an adult has romantic feeling for me when he saw me at my 3rd grade & has 999plans to approach me no matter what 😂 I can reject him, sure. Do I feel intimidated? Likely yes. Do I feel less disturbed to hear he only make his approach later? Mostlikely no, the knowledge itself can be pretty scary for some

First all her reincarnated memories returns to her at the age of 9 & her own mom even say that at times she doesn't feel like she's her own kid & it's an instant change overnight, so it's open to interpretation & not like what you've stated above.

The FL fixated on marry the ML based on her18th life encounter with him as a child & not as adult, which's y it was disturbing for some, they barely meet as adult yet she already decided she'll marry him on her 19th life & she have that in mind early on even when she still in her minor age. It's not helping either since the FL keep referring herself as uncle so it's as if they keep projecting this uncle as the original/ stronger soul than this 12years old girl 🥴

Then how about a grown ass man living in a young girl's body but have a romantic feeling for a 9 years old boy? Jk, but you get the gist of it 🙃

Ah it's a pity, if only they could make her reason to be a sincere care & out of concern for his well being first/ make it vague until later they interact more as adult & turn it into romantic love, imo it'd be less concerning & more beautiful to see

The stalkerish scene, her strong obsession to date & marry the ML & devoted her 19th life early on for the ML based on her 18th life encounter with him when he's practically still a child (prior to their interaction as adult) are new addition in the drama that production team decide to add & doesn't exist on the webtoon. Imo this adds unnecessary creepiness to the drama story like @forcomment also mentioned above.

Ah yes I understood ppl's bottom line can be vary, one can find it bothersome while others don't as very well having different perspectives hence the purpose of this site, to discuss & see other people's pov which's y I'm grateful to have 😁
I hv no plan to drop this either (seems a promising series anw) but hopefully they can minimize this aggresively hunting kind of vibe from the FL & give less flashback of her (or shd I say him) stalking the other party while being a minor, I need to forget her backstory 😂

I mind hence I dropped that series, no need to be so defensive when ppl actually gives a very valid reason as to why they find the romance can be seen disturbing given she fell for him when he's only 8/9 years old. Imagine if it's the otherway around, it'd be even more bothering to see, like a pedo

Exactly my point!, the way they even choose to make her declared that her 19th life is dedicated for him only when they haven't even met/interacted as adult is *facepalm
It sounds as if he's her target or something 😂

You've missed my point to begin with, the point is common sense shd be still applied even when you make fantasy drama & this drama could deliver that and make it even better without making the romance disturbing if they don't force the romance early on but they choose not to & I don't get it at all, it's a pity tbh

It'd still be as disturbing whether he's a vampire or a goblin or whatever being he is if the other party is a minor & this drama doesn't even have that much fantasy aspect to begin with, she/ he is a human being & just because they hv fantasy element on it, doesn't mean viewers had to turn off their brain to watch it, common sense shd be still applied.
It'd be different if she only hv romantic feeling for him after them interact as grown ups, but idg why they had to make it otherwise & settle early on when he's 9.

Idg why the production team think it's a good idea to make the FL already pretty dead set on marrying the ML & being that obsessive only based on their interaction when the boy was 9 years old, esp when his original soul previously was a fully grown ass man & an uncle to a kid. It's like seeing an older man taking his chance courting a boy in his new young body & don't tell me it doesn't sound creepy for most ppl 🫣