Dreamy

I wouldn't call it hate but if I were on JH shoes it'd be really really hard for me to forgive him coz the reason they broke up is more like betrayal to JH existence, simply for being herself.

Instead of accept her fully & support her when she's at her lowest, he got greedy & dumped her coz he think he can get a better woman than JH, WK admit it himself how he got greedy & only realized later that no one is perfect and regret but he never admit it to JH & instead of apologizing he went circles & shift the blame at her for asking for a trip when she's having a hardtime.

He's also being wishy washy & keep putting himself in questionable position.
So yeah, I can see JH loved him so much hence what he said or do affect her sm but at the same time she got hurted too much & WK never show his regret to JH nor apologized to her, so no unless he admit to JH like what he told viewers, show his regret & learn something from it, it's only natural for JH acting the way she is coz remember he's the one who let go & want her back, not JH.

I don't support them to reunite coz WK admit it himself that he'd do the same if he's in the same position like he was. If he doesn't show his regret so why bother to ask for reunite or even a chance to reassess their relationship.
Trust is earned not given.

Ikr? I cringe so bad, heart fluttering they said, oh please make it make sense 😂

For real, I want to shake both of their shoulders so hard & sincerely wish both can talk it through, whether to make it work somehow or just to make peace of themselves. Idt WK realize he love JH or how precious she is & only realize it later after they broke up (or hasn't he realized it yet? 💀) . If only these two can communicate better & listened to their respective partner's POV and compromize.

He said he was ok but he want her to quickly settle on that which's not realistic given it's less than a year.
Also, you compare a career woman to an actress or someone who just change her field is not making sense. (Some famous actors I follow only has his breakthrough in their late years no matter how hardworking they're & announcers are prestigious carreer in SK with lots of steps).

Hv you seen anyone who achieve her stable position after changing it in less than a year? It doesn't happen instantly or just because you wanted it too. It's not like she's laying around, she studied & work in between all of that too.
Every person has their own pace, not everything has to go by your standard.

Let's not forget that JH has this stable condition only few months after WK dumped her, if only he has more patience.

For financial talk, if both love eachother enough & there's a will from both I believe there's a way for that, comprimising is the key.
When WK brings out this financial talk, JH doesn't seem to ever heard it before hence why it sounded like his excuse/ shifting blaming, if he's willing to talk/ share his burden I believe JH will be more understanding, and why not adjusting the time of marriage coz their career ain't settle (why rushing it much?), but he just won't compromize & close his door without giving her the chance by breaking up.

Her inferiority partly caused by the constant neglect/ belittling from WK side, cause his feelings & standard/ views matters more than hers. Idt SY has this side, but we'll see.

It's painful to see honestly, all the raw emotions are there. But what's saddening me the most is how people so quickly judge, invalidating her feeling & deeming her as delulu when it's not their relationship to speak & clearly JH knows better as the person who experienced it herself, she has valid reason to feel that way. We can also see how strict WK with his view/ standard, the first time they meet again he even highlight how old she is already.

I don't blame WK for highly keep his standard but if it matters that much for him, he shdn't date people who doesn't share similar background/standard as him. He shd hv just date his fellow doctor colleagues/ girls with his age.

He can't date people that he know have different std/view to begin with, without willing to compromize & expect her to only follow his.

When WK want to go for a trip & JH restrain him, he called her controlling .
But when it's the other way around, he called her irresponsible.
Based on what? Income? I feel like WK subsconciously look down on JH & belittling her needs/ feelings.

His pov is the most important & when he think he can do better, he broke up with her & she has no say in it thus he broke up with her through text, shutting his door for communication.

So idg why would he want JH back if he doesn't want to compromize with her nor understand her pov.
It's like talking to a brick & really is frustating to see.

He dated a girl 5 years younger with arts as background & when she change her career, he expect her to settle for new job when it's not even a year (they dated even less than 1 year). If he love her but not settle enough to provide why not adjusting their target & talk it through instead of breaking up, it's only normal to feel doubtful if his feelings was sincere.

Yes but in relationship it doesn't work like that if it is this hard for one to say sorry idk if any relationship will last.
He can say sorry for unknowingly hurting her regardless it wasn't his intention (not necessarily has to admit it was his mistake).

Idk I feel what WK say is like an excuse, the real reason why they broke up is coz he think JH didn't bring much into the table & he can do better, WK's goal (marriage) is worth more than JH hence rather than adjusting & communicating their different view in marriage plan, he broke up with her.
Imo it's not wrong for JH to think WK just doesn't love her enough.

This! I can't believe people judge her just because she want to go for a trip, she studied for announcer exam while balancing her work too, knowing SK environment that could be quite stressful & she need that trip to breath (even WK admit that she work hard). One shdn't be judge for it.
So it's hurtful for her to hear that WK blame her that it's one of the reason why they broke up & it doesn't make sense for her.
They just hv a bad way communication, WK mostly can't express himself/his point, while JH being emotional coz she was hurted. WK didn't try to understand her side of story & never say sorry doesn't help either.

I get that WK is quite stressful for their financial, but to put the burden on her & deem her not serious chasing career is wrong, they don't even date for more than 1 year, he's too impatient.

Ep 15, this week's ep

Yup & it's not even the day before coz it's the same day at dawn (that make BH dozed off at the plane) & later that night in Kamakura, the day hasn't gone passed and she changed her mind already 😅
And yes I think it's only natural for BH to feel doubtful/ confused & told YS coz they're pretty close to eachother.

Yoo Shik get caught in the net, lol, sorry but it's so funny to see his brain get fried like that 😂 despite his situation he handle it all well tho 🤣

A dating show with no firm couple form (except maybe BH & YN?), at this rate I'd be gladly join BH & SY ship more than anything 😂

Honestly I got this feeling too, contrary to most member who feel surprise (when they know about two ex-es) his first reaction was understanding for how difficult it must hv been (it feels as if he's on the same boat) & now that you said it, right, JH is alone in her room so there's a place to put more people (female catfish) 🙊

Yes haha I get him, boy came in the wrong time in the middle of chaos & must hv felt like an outsider (it's a pity to see the girl is sleeping on him), I just didn't expect he'd join the most cramped boat from all 😂

I watched it with ai sub which's pretty good imo.
Regardless who's in the wrong, if the person you once love say she got hurted by your past action or how you made her feel that way,
it wouldn't hurt to say that it's never your intention & say sorry if she got hurted. WK keep being defensive & not trying to understand JH's pov & how hurted she's got is not helping, esp if he's the one who has the intention to reunite w/ her, he never want to lower his pride, no relationship will last with such pride.

Jae Hyung might be the greenest from all but he's not "that normal" either for eagerly join that chaos boat (as if it's not already cramped enough) 🤣 I didn't expect that from him, lol, all the cast in S4 seems to have their own crazy side, PD-nim really committed to bring drama to the show 😂

Is it that hard to say you're sorry?? Your darn big ego will get you nowhere 😑
People who hurts may forget but those who got hurted will forever remember.

I think the only new couple that is strong enough for me to root for/ better than ex-es (out of all season except S1 that I haven't watched) are HG-HE from S2 and JW-YJ from S3. S4 was different though, I don't root for them going back to their ex-es coz they're mostly toxic together but neither new couple has form emotional connection either, their dates also mostly suck/just on the surface level for me, so I feel they're likely doom eitherway 😅

I looked up for their ending couple before watching but even so I didn't expect that plot twist at the end, thought even if they won't end up together it'd be the other way around, waeeee TT🫠
The highlight of this season however for me was their friendship, I really adore how they got close to eachother.

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