I hope the drama wraps up nicely whether HE or BE. Please don't throw in the so call "extra" eps just to satisfy…
TJOCY = ?? Everybody don't get those codes, yk I am sorry I did not decode that one. So please enlighten me/us like me? HE/BE: happy end (yk : hearts and flowers and grand wedding HEA happy ever after) / Bad, tragic end (not always bad imho, to each their own, so glad to know y also preferred it stay tragic in IS) IS = Immortal Samsara drama of 2022 SOTM = Song of the Moon, completed in January. I left it on hold at ep13, considering whether or not I will finally drop it there or be back to toil through to completion. I was too taken with some other dramas including TFF (The Forbidden Flower) which totally commandeered my attention and caused me to be late starting on LWTSF/TSL here (LWTSF = Love when the stars fall, first historic title of The Starry Love)
---- Trivia question for those who like sleuthing and codes: in which TSL episode(s) did you spot hints to “drama classics” like MG or AOL? (MG = Meteor Garden 2001 or 2018 versions, AOL = Ashes of Love)
Wishing you a good drama watching for end episode here.
Hahaha Megumi-H. We have somewhat similar tastes, about C and K dramas, L&P and more. You also were part of the comments-feast for LLTG which fascinated me too, with its in-depth analysis by some learned friends here, exploring the symbols and more.
I could watch TSL on Youku, I suppose, since I subscribed to the app, but I am plain too lazy to watch on my small screen smartphone, esp since I "came to the club" late, because of too deep infatuation with The Forbidden Flower. So I am continuing my binge watch on Viki which is updating today until ep28, whereas YT only reaches ep25. Of course, if I am swift enough, I might switch to the cool site, where it is already subtitled to ep39. Should I or not co-watch final episode today in a few hours : debating with myself. But no, I will stick to my watching it as it should be, episode after episode, and read reactions later.
I had some wariness about the beginning of TSL, fearing that it could be too close to Ashes of Love or Immortal Samsara/Agarwood-like crumbs (I also came late to watch that not wholly satisfying one, watching IS even later than trying LBFAD, because of LLTG addiction). But my holding back from TSL was lifted quickly, when I found that despite some clear hints to the "undying classics" (including MG!!), these were not too numerous and the story still felt fresh and engaging.
Of course, since I like "scoundrels" (in the past I rooted for AoL "arowana" Runyu instead of the "charred crow" XuFeng!!) I am happy to see how the Void princes fare and also that lovely Beast prince (although the puppy pee thing was limits), and the Soul shards, and the secondary characters (ManMan did not annoy me, I was admiring the red line of her eye makeup and the few down-feathers added to her short dress pink outfit: also liked that she could transform into not only a small, fast, twitting bird but also into a large people-carrying fabulous winged one). The Human World emperor is of course delightfully hatable, as are some other ones. Although juggling with different story lines for the separated characters, I think the drama does not feel disjointed. I am already sold to it!
Anyway, I hope some in the club will take time to answer my query.
Could someone enlighten us about symbolism and humor contained in the Chinese names in this drama (cursed flower origin, flower names of Qing Kui and Ye Tan, names of Chao Feng and Man Man etc) ? Not sure it's been covered already in conversation, since I caught up late and focused on binge watching till episode 23 on YouTube...
There are quite a few loose ends and even inconsistencies in the story.It is plain too long, also.At one moment,…
Yes, LLTG, L&P, but also LBFAD, SSOFV, were among my favorite, last year, which started with a bang (Reset). Hi Venus, Meet Yourself, TBOY this year and TFF were a good start and there so much promise to come.
I am both leaning to 罗狮粉 and 鹿茸 fandom (among other ones) so am also looking forward to Till The End Of The Moon. Hoping LYX will not appear as emaciated as in Light Chaser Rescue, which I still enjoyed. Since Ashes of Love, I have watched near to all of his available filmography, learned the Chengdu song from his MV and listened to all the other songs, + watched miscellaneous stuff such as his showing how to cook some dishes, exploring places etc.
Bai Lu first really caught my attention in Arsenal Military Academy, but it was so sweet to hear her wish to do another drama with LYX when they were interviewed about Love is Sweet. Besides, she is from Changzhou, Jiangsu, which is a city I know well.
And there are also the new Zhao Lusi dramas : HouLang (Gen Z) rumored to be broadcast on Apr 19th, and Hidden Love which should air "very soon" probably this month.
The months of March and April will surely go very quickly... And the list of dramas that could be nice to watch seems to be growing exponentially. Hard choices will have to be made !
At present, I am vastly enjoying The Starry Love which I am binge watching for hours almost non stop - except for coffee and the necessary stretching. The humor and the action make it a wonderful watch, up till episode 21, but I see that I may have to switch platforms or watch on the Youku app on my phone (small screen...) for the last episodes.
I have tried several platforms starting with Viki but turning to YouTube because of double subtitles which sometimes enlighten an approximate translation. It also caused me much mirth when Ye Tan (posing as Qingkui) was trying a transformation spell by repeating "Bian!" (Change!) many times. That's a good snippet for learners of the basic Chinese character table! And also a fun reminder of that ganoderma mushroom sequence in Ashes of Love which ended on a fabulous kiss.
I don't mind sad endings, if they are logical and well pictured (like in One and Only and TFF) so I am open to whatever will happen and I don't really crave for a grand wedding finale with hearts and flowers and everybody miraculously brought back to life and dubious "happy ever after". In fact I thought the ending of Ashes of Love dragged a bit and was somewhat too sanctimonious after the cosmic clash where Jinmi self sacrificed. Also, having the AOL story end on the little boy fishing for a wife (while his cousin went hunting for a handsome guy in the mountains), felt like unfinished business, taunting us with a continuation and depriving watchers of the promise implicitly made.
Of course I am not adverse to romance on the way to get to goal. Or action, like in The Condor Heroes, Side Story of Fox Volant, Light Chaser Rescue, Ordinary Greatness etc. It is nice too when the story engages the watchers enough to feel strongly about a villain, too. There was the "mad" emperor Di Xu in Novoland Pearl Eclipse who finally saw the light, too late. In The Starry Love, the emperor also looks very much like the unlikable one that Runyu struck asunder before Xu Feng got stabbed. Flamboyant deaths and betrayals... Open endings are fine too. The TFF one was rather like that: one could stick to whatever one wanted to believe, that's not bad.
Hi! As Bilibili has member-locked the episodes on YT, I'll be hardsubbing and uploading to DM as I complete the…
Hello Richel, did you give up subtitling or are episodes 9 to 13 subtitled on the members only bilibili youtube channel? Wishing you all the best in 2023.
There are quite a few loose ends and even inconsistencies in the story.It is plain too long, also.At one moment,…
Totally agree.
While I am now laughing at the comedic The Starry Love, I am still at times clicking on some favorite scenes (and cut scenes) of TFF and adding my two cents on its MDL comment section.
So now, following suit to my favorite music & story-edit you-tuber MK916 who wrote that she was starting on The Starry Love, I am now watching that one. It is a really nice xianxia. At first, I was worried that it would be too much a rehash of Ashes of Love (even to borrowing the palaces and color-codes), but fortunately it veered away to another story, only faintly hinting at the other opus in the Honey series. I started too late to be co watching the finale on March 11, or to spend much time on the comments section of MDL for that one, but I am really enjoying it.
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I agree to a certain point. She does have a daddy issue, and she is attracted to him sexually. at the very first.…
You all think it was his voice only? Methinks it was the gentle stroke to her ear. Touch is always more powerful as a turn-on. Some words with a mellow or deep voice may be a spark, but the real tinder is always the touch. She came back for an unnecessary hair wash not for the voice, but hoping for words that might be out of the ordinary (Cat is in love) and for making sure that touch was still electric : that's why she left her phone to be back for more... That part was very well done. About communication, as a One and Only (Allen Ren Jialun) fan, I don't need lengthy perorations and vocal ratiocinations in a romcom. Gazes are also a mighty turn-on. Both Xiao Han and He Ran had secrets they did not want to expose too quickly ; that some of those came to light without having to voice them and were simply accepted was a relief for them. (Example : "How many women have you had".. "A few. They were all ordinary people." He did not need to voice to her that she was extraordinary and that he did not want to remember other women, even if she was "curious".) The epiphyllum photograph was to me a symbol of all this : hidden night flower ascertaining through its short bloom that the promise and feelings were both fated and true, but would be enjoyed only in the short life-span : so they couldn't afford waiting to "know each other better" or "grow up and prepare for the future". Knowing that "epiphytic plant grows on other plants, not in a parasitic fashion but as hosts" also adds to the meaning of that flowering, since Xiao Han is a horticulturist: he is the host, she is the flower. He had kept the photo secret, hidden in a book, but was delighted that she searched his room and found it, adding to the fated love component. Triggering that too-hot-for-you scene when they can't keep their hands from each other, so hot that production decided to show the cat strolling by unconcernedly instead of that part of the scene that is to be found in the cut ones. As for the "daddy issue" idea, I strongly disagree. He Ran was an orphan who had admired her genius painter father before he died, but was in no way looking for another father, even when she jested with Xiao Han about being his "child" (yes, she meant : "treasured" as a lover, also playing on the acknowledgement of age difference that did not deter them). Her condition had made her too mature in some ways to tolerate the idea of hanging out with the insufferable people of her age group (who were prying, judgemental, idiotically intrusive and even almost made her sick when they fumblingly tried to please her). She wanted someone who was experienced, considerate, not too powerful, but still an alpha. Not a young rookie and absolutely not a virgin (these are often irl the worst choices for female virgins, so her instinct was spot-on there). She sensed that his touch was what she needed, and that his voice belonged to someone from a different age group, with a life history and possible scars to understand her own without ripping them open to "communicate". (2 years or 20 years older was irrelevant). Xiao Han fit the description perfectly. If she wanted a surrogate father, she had Mr Han who was benevolently watching and protecting her, but she never was attracted to that handsome older man.
hmm very very very disappointing the ending ☹️ why is it that towards the end of the episode the plot is so…
Yes, Meet Yourself is "feel good". Try also "Hi Venus".
If a dose of angst and illness shoved away to enjoy red-hot sensual passion is your cup of tea, try also The Forbidden Flower. It's not to everyone's taste, but me, that was the one that carried me most away (wonderful colors and landscapes too) since end of 2022. SAHPH left me : meh, despite my admiration for Yang Mi and Xu Kai.
Conversely, Jerry Yan, who I had almost forgotten since his Daoming Si of ages ago, left me : wow!!! I even found myself exploring his Loving Never Forgetting (predictable but sweet romcom) which I found okaaay... (amused that in the end episode of that LNF one, I found an answer to my wondering for ages why the first Hana Yori Dango adaptation to Chinese drama was titled Meteor Garden). Now about TFF ending, it is somewhat cryptic, so if you watch it, you can choose whatever you like to believe. I rather found it a good way to end. Not like this Love Heals drama here which is indeed unsatisfactory to many. The music is excellent and the Lucid Dream song in its new English version, is quite haunting, an ear-worm that still stays in my head, tied to the lovely colors and smooth moves of the main couple. It is (aptly and renewed) borrowed from a Korean drama that I did not watch, but may do now, because of TFF. Except for two songs, the ones used in TFF are original to that drama. The comments section on MDL has a special feature that leads to cut scenes of TFF which are a must-see: the production was daring, but still too timid not to use scissors too often in self-censorship so as to "pass review" .It was not even that they were ordered to cut all that : therefore, it is findable and enjoyable, and some of it has been included in a sort of super BTS (which could rank as extra episode that's posted also to YouTube). TFF can be watched on WeTV or on Viki, among other places. YouTube may have it too, although dramas posted there often have other form of censorship : cut music... I did not watch it on YouTube, so perhaps it is less maimed there than Loving Never Forgetting.
Just watched the last 2 episodes and I am irritated beyond imagination. This whole Africa arc at the end was unnecessary.…
There are quite a few loose ends and even inconsistencies in the story. It is plain too long, also. At one moment, I was even looking forward to take note of product placements (Chlitina: TW beauty care brand, Coke: anti-ads, electric car brands), to keep attention going, but there were perhaps not enough to enjoy an ad festival for more than a few episodes of genuine "soap opera". Anyway, my attention was almost totally taken by The Forbidden Flower wonderful sensual drama and addictive music. I had focused on reactions there, so did not come to this section to check how Love Heals / Have a crush on you was received, until I saw it was (to my surprise) one of the top dramas on Marcus Here's weekly top of the charts for March 2 (losing to Journey of Chong Zi).
Love Heals /HaCoY is definitely not my top drama of 2023, whereas I love TFF enough to keep a place for it on my personal "memorable items" virtual podium, despite not being a Jerry Yan or Daoming Si fan - btw, this HaCoY drama also has, at times, hints to the old BOF/MG story, and I found it amusing to see the self-same quote "If apologies were enough, we would not need the police" pop up here too. It did also in TFF!! But in TFF, we knew the director was a fan of MG and that Jerry Yan was the original Daoming Si, so that was just like an insiders' joke, more or less expected. Here, I thought: "wtf! do they need to remind of the classics with no real reason in ALL the new modern time c-dramas, now?"
I am often watching quasi simultaneously several dramas, new airing ones for variety, and older ones related or not by theme or cast etc. It had been a while since I had clicked on a medical drama, and a Chinese-African cooperation or aid drama or movie, so the beginning looked good despite the silly title. Either the production should have stuck to that, Ebola Fighters type, or Operation Red Sea type, or they should have stuck to medical romance in China only, even cutting out the covid time footnote. Or do a thing in the line of LYX's early Children's Hospital Pediatician. Trying to fit it all in: poor orphan story, Oath of love- type dad's cancer, silly brother's embroilment with debts, etc, just made the drama too messy. But I am not dissatisfied with the cast : most did fine as far as I am concerned. Not that they made me cry or feel much moved or reflective (well, perhaps a few times, or I would have dropped the whole thing completely).
some what he does live with Dr,Ning from time to time but he mainly lives with the birthmother. unfortunately…
As of 2nd surgery (tumor relapse motivated) his birth mother decided to move from Guangzhou to "Jiangzhou" so they'd be closer to the hospital in case his condition deteriorate again, and so that the boy would not be too far away from his "previous family" that he loved so much, despite "blood running thicker than water" was why he had chosen to go with barely responsible post-adolescent poor worker birth mom who had abandoned him at 6mths because she was 20 then and had no money to pay for his care and brain surgery. Some plot hole is that when another child needed cranial surgery, if I recall correctly, Dr Ning thought that other one needed to be taken care of by a specialized Children's hospital. That beloved adoptive son of Dr Ning seemed to fade off totally from the story after ep.30.
Same here, don't feel like starting a new drama after this. All I want to do is listen to the OST and relive the…
I have not started on that one yet. Probably will soon, then. It is still airing until March 11, 40 x 45': sounds very long, although length should not deter me since LLTG, and some other "impossibly long" c-dramas like Ashes of Love (which I was wild with at the time, rooting for "Run Yu" and become instant luoshifen!! Btw, among the other dramas LYX starred in, there was one with a tragic end : Broker, but it is clear why that one could not get approval from a large part of audience, so I am not going to recommend it to all, even if I enjoyed it (die-hard luoshifen me, yes 😂) .
And now I see that this Starry Love is described as 3rd volume in the "Honey" trilogy so I certainly will pop over to see whether this is still my cup of virtual pink flower sweet flavored baijiu (to be invented, although there's the alcohol free Hibiscus tea which is nice to control blood pressure).
Same here, don't feel like starting a new drama after this. All I want to do is listen to the OST and relive the…
Now which new one are you working on??? So curious, me, as you said you thought we have somewhat similar tastes 😂
Btw me too, I accompany my days and nights "in deep space" with this OST playlist, after the L&P one and other playlists including one around the "luo 落” (which means drop or fall to the ground) theme.
Is it kind of like how in English we say "babe" or "baby"? I guess the feeling is probably different though.
Yes I remember. It caused, reportedly, quite a momentary stir in Chinese social media because many thought Jerry Yan somehow had a baby on the way with someone, maybe a secret marriage too. Until he apologized for the misunderstanding and made it clear that it was in reference to the drama that was upcoming. So, "my child" was also perceived as quite an ambiguous statement in Chinese too, away from context!
They definitely left things open to interpretation. Did she just rest and then he took her to an airport where…
The airport scene was before she flew to Chuanxi, Aba county, to get married. She said somewhere that she did not want treatment. Perhaps she wished to die of hypothermia + hypoxia instead of suffering living decay.
Sleeping in ice and snow without an insulating blanket (and sometimes even with one) in high altitude can be lethal. Many climbers and mountaineers know that. If that was her choice, Xiao Han would have accompanied He Ran, knowing that this was her last wish: to die a natural death, instead of in hospital where she would be reduced to powerlessness. Also, lack of oxygen would cause a sort of drunk state numbing her pain. It even ties in with Mongol-Tibetan culture where the dying often would go far into the wilderness to seek death there without more active suicide (leaving it to Nature), and be exposed for "sky burial" (there are also similar customs in some Native American cultures) .
That lying in the snow somewhat reminded me of the movie sequence about the Cheyenne chief in Little Big Man, where Jack Crabb accompanies Old Lodge Skins who went up in the mountain to lie down and wait for death (but that movie has a sarcastic end there, when the old chief who had decided it was "a good day to die" gave up waiting for death and admitted, "Well, sometimes the magic works. Sometimes it doesn't." before they returned to have dinner together).
So perhaps it was He Ran's "good day to die", but not Xiao Han's yet and he had to return, unaccompanied and sad, to wait elsewhere until they'd be reunited in the afterlife.
Did anyone else kept thinking that she had daddy issues? I mean what was with the whole my child thing? is it…
I think that for some reason you mistrust and misunderstand even worse than when Zhang Yuanqi was talking to He Ran about the keys after Han Yu's birthday. Nvhai 女孩 (litteraly female child) is a common term to talk about a younger female (less than 30-35, depending on appearance) ;我的孩子 (my child) or baobei 宝贝 (baby) is a common endearing term for a younger loved partner, even if age difference is only in months. As they say in Chinese : "你想太多了" (you overthink)
HE/BE: happy end (yk : hearts and flowers and grand wedding HEA happy ever after) / Bad, tragic end (not always bad imho, to each their own, so glad to know y also preferred it stay tragic in IS)
IS = Immortal Samsara drama of 2022
SOTM = Song of the Moon, completed in January. I left it on hold at ep13, considering whether or not I will finally drop it there or be back to toil through to completion. I was too taken with some other dramas including TFF (The Forbidden Flower) which totally commandeered my attention and caused me to be late starting on LWTSF/TSL here (LWTSF = Love when the stars fall, first historic title of The Starry Love)
---- Trivia question for those who like sleuthing and codes: in which TSL episode(s) did you spot hints to “drama classics” like MG or AOL? (MG = Meteor Garden 2001 or 2018 versions, AOL = Ashes of Love)
Wishing you a good drama watching for end episode here.
I could watch TSL on Youku, I suppose, since I subscribed to the app, but I am plain too lazy to watch on my small screen smartphone, esp since I "came to the club" late, because of too deep infatuation with The Forbidden Flower. So I am continuing my binge watch on Viki which is updating today until ep28, whereas YT only reaches ep25. Of course, if I am swift enough, I might switch to the cool site, where it is already subtitled to ep39. Should I or not co-watch final episode today in a few hours : debating with myself. But no, I will stick to my watching it as it should be, episode after episode, and read reactions later.
I had some wariness about the beginning of TSL, fearing that it could be too close to Ashes of Love or Immortal Samsara/Agarwood-like crumbs (I also came late to watch that not wholly satisfying one, watching IS even later than trying LBFAD, because of LLTG addiction). But my holding back from TSL was lifted quickly, when I found that despite some clear hints to the "undying classics" (including MG!!), these were not too numerous and the story still felt fresh and engaging.
Of course, since I like "scoundrels" (in the past I rooted for AoL "arowana" Runyu instead of the "charred crow" XuFeng!!) I am happy to see how the Void princes fare and also that lovely Beast prince (although the puppy pee thing was limits), and the Soul shards, and the secondary characters (ManMan did not annoy me, I was admiring the red line of her eye makeup and the few down-feathers added to her short dress pink outfit: also liked that she could transform into not only a small, fast, twitting bird but also into a large people-carrying fabulous winged one). The Human World emperor is of course delightfully hatable, as are some other ones.
Although juggling with different story lines for the separated characters, I think the drama does not feel disjointed. I am already sold to it!
Anyway, I hope some in the club will take time to answer my query.
I am both leaning to 罗狮粉 and 鹿茸 fandom (among other ones) so am also looking forward to Till The End Of The Moon. Hoping LYX will not appear as emaciated as in Light Chaser Rescue, which I still enjoyed. Since Ashes of Love, I have watched near to all of his available filmography, learned the Chengdu song from his MV and listened to all the other songs, + watched miscellaneous stuff such as his showing how to cook some dishes, exploring places etc.
Bai Lu first really caught my attention in Arsenal Military Academy, but it was so sweet to hear her wish to do another drama with LYX when they were interviewed about Love is Sweet. Besides, she is from Changzhou, Jiangsu, which is a city I know well.
And there are also the new Zhao Lusi dramas : HouLang (Gen Z) rumored to be broadcast on Apr 19th, and Hidden Love which should air "very soon" probably this month.
The months of March and April will surely go very quickly... And the list of dramas that could be nice to watch seems to be growing exponentially. Hard choices will have to be made !
At present, I am vastly enjoying The Starry Love which I am binge watching for hours almost non stop - except for coffee and the necessary stretching. The humor and the action make it a wonderful watch, up till episode 21, but I see that I may have to switch platforms or watch on the Youku app on my phone (small screen...) for the last episodes.
I have tried several platforms starting with Viki but turning to YouTube because of double subtitles which sometimes enlighten an approximate translation. It also caused me much mirth when Ye Tan (posing as Qingkui) was trying a transformation spell by repeating "Bian!" (Change!) many times. That's a good snippet for learners of the basic Chinese character table! And also a fun reminder of that ganoderma mushroom sequence in Ashes of Love which ended on a fabulous kiss.
I don't mind sad endings, if they are logical and well pictured (like in One and Only and TFF) so I am open to whatever will happen and I don't really crave for a grand wedding finale with hearts and flowers and everybody miraculously brought back to life and dubious "happy ever after". In fact I thought the ending of Ashes of Love dragged a bit and was somewhat too sanctimonious after the cosmic clash where Jinmi self sacrificed. Also, having the AOL story end on the little boy fishing for a wife (while his cousin went hunting for a handsome guy in the mountains), felt like unfinished business, taunting us with a continuation and depriving watchers of the promise implicitly made.
Of course I am not adverse to romance on the way to get to goal. Or action, like in The Condor Heroes, Side Story of Fox Volant, Light Chaser Rescue, Ordinary Greatness etc. It is nice too when the story engages the watchers enough to feel strongly about a villain, too. There was the "mad" emperor Di Xu in Novoland Pearl Eclipse who finally saw the light, too late. In The Starry Love, the emperor also looks very much like the unlikable one that Runyu struck asunder before Xu Feng got stabbed. Flamboyant deaths and betrayals... Open endings are fine too. The TFF one was rather like that: one could stick to whatever one wanted to believe, that's not bad.
While I am now laughing at the comedic The Starry Love, I am still at times clicking on some favorite scenes (and cut scenes) of TFF and adding my two cents on its MDL comment section.
So now, following suit to my favorite music & story-edit you-tuber MK916 who wrote that she was starting on The Starry Love, I am now watching that one. It is a really nice xianxia. At first, I was worried that it would be too much a rehash of Ashes of Love (even to borrowing the palaces and color-codes), but fortunately it veered away to another story, only faintly hinting at the other opus in the Honey series. I started too late to be co watching the finale on March 11, or to spend much time on the comments section of MDL for that one, but I am really enjoying it.
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Touch is always more powerful as a turn-on. Some words with a mellow or deep voice may be a spark, but the real tinder is always the touch. She came back for an unnecessary hair wash not for the voice, but hoping for words that might be out of the ordinary (Cat is in love) and for making sure that touch was still electric : that's why she left her phone to be back for more...
That part was very well done.
About communication, as a One and Only (Allen Ren Jialun) fan, I don't need lengthy perorations and vocal ratiocinations in a romcom. Gazes are also a mighty turn-on. Both Xiao Han and He Ran had secrets they did not want to expose too quickly ; that some of those came to light without having to voice them and were simply accepted was a relief for them. (Example : "How many women have you had".. "A few. They were all ordinary people." He did not need to voice to her that she was extraordinary and that he did not want to remember other women, even if she was "curious".)
The epiphyllum photograph was to me a symbol of all this : hidden night flower ascertaining through its short bloom that the promise and feelings were both fated and true, but would be enjoyed only in the short life-span : so they couldn't afford waiting to "know each other better" or "grow up and prepare for the future". Knowing that "epiphytic plant grows on other plants, not in a parasitic fashion but as hosts" also adds to the meaning of that flowering, since Xiao Han is a horticulturist: he is the host, she is the flower. He had kept the photo secret, hidden in a book, but was delighted that she searched his room and found it, adding to the fated love component. Triggering that too-hot-for-you scene when they can't keep their hands from each other, so hot that production decided to show the cat strolling by unconcernedly instead of that part of the scene that is to be found in the cut ones.
As for the "daddy issue" idea, I strongly disagree. He Ran was an orphan who had admired her genius painter father before he died, but was in no way looking for another father, even when she jested with Xiao Han about being his "child" (yes, she meant : "treasured" as a lover, also playing on the acknowledgement of age difference that did not deter them). Her condition had made her too mature in some ways to tolerate the idea of hanging out with the insufferable people of her age group (who were prying, judgemental, idiotically intrusive and even almost made her sick when they fumblingly tried to please her).
She wanted someone who was experienced, considerate, not too powerful, but still an alpha. Not a young rookie and absolutely not a virgin (these are often irl the worst choices for female virgins, so her instinct was spot-on there). She sensed that his touch was what she needed, and that his voice belonged to someone from a different age group, with a life history and possible scars to understand her own without ripping them open to "communicate". (2 years or 20 years older was irrelevant). Xiao Han fit the description perfectly.
If she wanted a surrogate father, she had Mr Han who was benevolently watching and protecting her, but she never was attracted to that handsome older man.
When the garden flowers
Baby, are dead, yes and
Your mind, your mind is so full of red
[Chorus]
Don't you want somebody to love?
Don't you need somebody to love?
Wouldn't you love somebody to love?
You better find somebody to love
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(morning maniac music, Woodstock 1969 classic)
If a dose of angst and illness shoved away to enjoy red-hot sensual passion is your cup of tea, try also The Forbidden Flower. It's not to everyone's taste, but me, that was the one that carried me most away (wonderful colors and landscapes too) since end of 2022.
SAHPH left me : meh, despite my admiration for Yang Mi and Xu Kai.
Conversely, Jerry Yan, who I had almost forgotten since his Daoming Si of ages ago, left me : wow!!! I even found myself exploring his Loving Never Forgetting (predictable but sweet romcom) which I found okaaay... (amused that in the end episode of that LNF one, I found an answer to my wondering for ages why the first Hana Yori Dango adaptation to Chinese drama was titled Meteor Garden).
Now about TFF ending, it is somewhat cryptic, so if you watch it, you can choose whatever you like to believe. I rather found it a good way to end. Not like this Love Heals drama here which is indeed unsatisfactory to many. The music is excellent and the Lucid Dream song in its new English version, is quite haunting, an ear-worm that still stays in my head, tied to the lovely colors and smooth moves of the main couple. It is (aptly and renewed) borrowed from a Korean drama that I did not watch, but may do now, because of TFF. Except for two songs, the ones used in TFF are original to that drama.
The comments section on MDL has a special feature that leads to cut scenes of TFF which are a must-see: the production was daring, but still too timid not to use scissors too often in self-censorship so as to "pass review" .It was not even that they were ordered to cut all that : therefore, it is findable and enjoyable, and some of it has been included in a sort of super BTS (which could rank as extra episode that's posted also to YouTube).
TFF can be watched on WeTV or on Viki, among other places. YouTube may have it too, although dramas posted there often have other form of censorship : cut music... I did not watch it on YouTube, so perhaps it is less maimed there than Loving Never Forgetting.
Thanks for your eagle-eye watchfulness, if he had been forgotten on the list.
It is plain too long, also.
At one moment, I was even looking forward to take note of product placements (Chlitina: TW beauty care brand, Coke: anti-ads, electric car brands), to keep attention going, but there were perhaps not enough to enjoy an ad festival for more than a few episodes of genuine "soap opera".
Anyway, my attention was almost totally taken by The Forbidden Flower wonderful sensual drama and addictive music. I had focused on reactions there, so did not come to this section to check how Love Heals / Have a crush on you was received, until I saw it was (to my surprise) one of the top dramas on Marcus Here's weekly top of the charts for March 2 (losing to Journey of Chong Zi).
Love Heals /HaCoY is definitely not my top drama of 2023, whereas I love TFF enough to keep a place for it on my personal "memorable items" virtual podium, despite not being a Jerry Yan or Daoming Si fan - btw, this HaCoY drama also has, at times, hints to the old BOF/MG story, and I found it amusing to see the self-same quote "If apologies were enough, we would not need the police" pop up here too. It did also in TFF!! But in TFF, we knew the director was a fan of MG and that Jerry Yan was the original Daoming Si, so that was just like an insiders' joke, more or less expected. Here, I thought: "wtf! do they need to remind of the classics with no real reason in ALL the new modern time c-dramas, now?"
I am often watching quasi simultaneously several dramas, new airing ones for variety, and older ones related or not by theme or cast etc. It had been a while since I had clicked on a medical drama, and a Chinese-African cooperation or aid drama or movie, so the beginning looked good despite the silly title.
Either the production should have stuck to that, Ebola Fighters type, or Operation Red Sea type, or they should have stuck to medical romance in China only, even cutting out the covid time footnote. Or do a thing in the line of LYX's early Children's Hospital Pediatician.
Trying to fit it all in: poor orphan story, Oath of love- type dad's cancer, silly brother's embroilment with debts, etc, just made the drama too messy.
But I am not dissatisfied with the cast : most did fine as far as I am concerned.
Not that they made me cry or feel much moved or reflective (well, perhaps a few times, or I would have dropped the whole thing completely).
Some plot hole is that when another child needed cranial surgery, if I recall correctly, Dr Ning thought that other one needed to be taken care of by a specialized Children's hospital.
That beloved adoptive son of Dr Ning seemed to fade off totally from the story after ep.30.
It is still airing until March 11,
40 x 45': sounds very long, although length should not deter me since LLTG, and some other "impossibly long" c-dramas like Ashes of Love (which I was wild with at the time, rooting for "Run Yu" and become instant luoshifen!!
Btw, among the other dramas LYX starred in, there was one with a tragic end : Broker, but it is clear why that one could not get approval from a large part of audience, so I am not going to recommend it to all, even if I enjoyed it (die-hard luoshifen me, yes 😂) .
And now I see that this Starry Love is described as 3rd volume in the "Honey" trilogy so I certainly will pop over to see whether this is still my cup of virtual pink flower sweet flavored baijiu (to be invented, although there's the alcohol free Hibiscus tea which is nice to control blood pressure).
Btw me too, I accompany my days and nights "in deep space" with this OST playlist, after the L&P one and other playlists including one around the "luo 落” (which means drop or fall to the ground) theme.
So, "my child" was also perceived as quite an ambiguous statement in Chinese too, away from context!
She said somewhere that she did not want treatment.
Perhaps she wished to die of hypothermia + hypoxia instead of suffering living decay.
Sleeping in ice and snow without an insulating blanket (and sometimes even with one) in high altitude can be lethal. Many climbers and mountaineers know that. If that was her choice, Xiao Han would have accompanied He Ran, knowing that this was her last wish: to die a natural death, instead of in hospital where she would be reduced to powerlessness. Also, lack of oxygen would cause a sort of drunk state numbing her pain.
It even ties in with Mongol-Tibetan culture where the dying often would go far into the wilderness to seek death there without more active suicide (leaving it to Nature), and be exposed for "sky burial" (there are also similar customs in some Native American cultures) .
That lying in the snow somewhat reminded me of the movie sequence about the Cheyenne chief in Little Big Man, where Jack Crabb accompanies Old Lodge Skins who went up in the mountain to lie down and wait for death (but that movie has a sarcastic end there, when the old chief who had decided it was "a good day to die" gave up waiting for death and admitted, "Well, sometimes the magic works. Sometimes it doesn't." before they returned to have dinner together).
So perhaps it was He Ran's "good day to die", but not Xiao Han's yet and he had to return, unaccompanied and sad, to wait elsewhere until they'd be reunited in the afterlife.
As they say in Chinese : "你想太多了" (you overthink)