Bold of you to assume that being happily into BDSM and doing therapy are mutually exclusive
They were not in therapy in this movie. Unless you are implying the BDSM is their therapy and that's an entirely different discussion that I wholeheartedly would disagree with.
At first I was like ah, she doesn't like it , understandable but than as someone whose okay with this type of…
Are we not allowed to discuss BDSM and it's context in the movie in depth or we are only allowed to discuss it on the surface? Though I changed fields I am a licensed psychologist and we studied trauma and fetish and there are basic realities that exist with regard to them.
You shouldnt watch something where the focus is obviously bdsm play if you feel so against bdsm play. Its that…
As much as you are entitled to your opinion and seem offended by mine and seem to be overly defensive about something you clearly see no problem with there are many things that people find pleasure in that are in fact based in underlying trauma and are not actually healthy for them. It doesn't mean they are disgusting or deviant or "bad" but it also doesn't mean it isn't something that should be addressed and discussed in the same way people like to drink or so drugs before sex or have fetishes like autogynephelia or like to be humiliated or abused (with consent)
People are absolutely entitled to do whatever they want in the bedroom. But fetishes can often be a sign of underlying issues. The two are not mutually exclusive. If pointing this out upsets you I am sorry but it is a reality.
I'm having a hard time with this because a man eating like a dog and barking and panting getting walked like a dog extreeeemely turns me off. I also do not find inflicting pain on someone a turn on at all. Humans are diverse so I am fully aware that many people find pleasure in different things and I mean no judgement to anyone who is into this but for me it's hard to do anything but cringe at and feel (sympathetically) that these are people who would benefit greatly from therapy. I will get tons of hate for this comment but there are many things I think people should not be judged for or discriminated against for while also thinking some things shouldn't be overly normalized. What is intimacy? What is fetish? What is trauma? What is trauma when it manifests itself in fetish? I LOVE Lee Jun Young though and think he is amazing and super underrated and hope he continues to get more ML roles.
P.S. To the people saying "you shouldn't watch something that doesn't appeal to you" what a bizarre controlling comment. There were plenty of ways this could have still been enjoyable and some parts of it were. My opinion shouldn't bother you so much. It's literally one online strangers opinion and thoughts. You are absolutely free and entitled to love and enjoy this! No one is stopping you.
The Ethereal Beautiful White Dragon God was GREAT CGI. Maybe they saved budget for the latter part of the drama but no one can say the scenes with Dragon God were bad CGI. They were everything I wanted.
I don't understand how this only has a 7.5 rating. It's not a 10 but it's AT LEAST an 8.5 (9.0 for me) If you like WUXIA and an absolutely beautiful gorgeous soft hearted but very strong female lead and beautiful romance and a loyal, loving, strong ML who never wavers this is an absolutely worthy watch.
I want to ask why there are some merman with marks and some merman without marks on their foreheads?
The mark disappears when they fall in true love. And whoever they fall in love with is the only one they can ever love. They are not able to love anyone else but that person. It's very romantic!
SU MOM IS EVERYTHING. BAI YING is one of my favorite Female characters ever. I'm just over here loving every single moment I get of those two together. Sunday is way too far away !
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People are absolutely entitled to do whatever they want in the bedroom. But fetishes can often be a sign of underlying issues. The two are not mutually exclusive. If pointing this out upsets you I am sorry but it is a reality.
P.S. To the people saying "you shouldn't watch something that doesn't appeal to you" what a bizarre controlling comment. There were plenty of ways this could have still been enjoyable and some parts of it were. My opinion shouldn't bother you so much. It's literally one online strangers opinion and thoughts. You are absolutely free and entitled to love and enjoy this! No one is stopping you.
I think we have some more shocking stories coming!
Mirror has me HOOKED!!!!!! I love their love!